Do you remember the abuse you got growing up? The beatings?

Question

My mother started with her hand, and then we graduated to the belt, the switch, the ironing cord, and lastly the extension cord.
I grew up to be a normal adult, but I look back on it and see it as abuse now.

Answer 1

Yes I do!!! I figured well it happened to me so why not make it happen to the people of my country. and look what happened to me in the end.

Answer 2

Yes, I got the high heel from mom and the belt from dad. Always told myself that I would deal with them when I got bigger. When I got bigger, I realized that they never physically hurt me, and that I deserved every beating I received. Mental abuse is the worst type because there is no positive result. The extension cord seems a bit extreme, but it probably worked for them like mom's spiked heels did for her. Too many kids are raised like veals these days, and they turn into rotten adults.

Answer 3

aww sweetie enormous hug for you. unhappy analyzing your tale. i understand the way it feels not basically on your way of existence yet italians too. I too had the comparable growing to be up as you. and nonetheless to on the present time as an person im informed it became into for my very own stable. they dont' see the wear it reasons. yet while they become previous they could have an theory.even in the event that they'll make up an excuse even then. i think of deep down they'll comprehend they have harm you. I had that talk the different day with my father. he observed i cry and destroy down extra so i ultimately got here out and informed him he's killing me. and now that im older i think i can't take it like while i became into youthful and occasional and be carry he then got here decrease back asserting how great i became into as a guy or woman and he basically did those issues to make me extra useful and attempt to be the ideal. yet all in all he's happy with ways i became out . they're bascially mixed up i mean they got here from a international the place in there day existence became right into a warfare and there became into no time for being gentle of lovey dovey the only thank you to proceed to exist became into to be not undemanding and get forward. i comprehend it would not help you you nonetheless experience like *%*^ yet while its any consolations they love you in there very own warped way. they gained't exchange purely be a stable guy or woman and undemanding and stay your existence in a stable way. and doubtless sometime they'll inform you. per risk they gained't i desire for you happiness and peace on your existence ! And do forgive your mothers and dads and ask on your prayers that they are going to be forgiven as they don't understand the thank you to alter. no one is appropriate yet you desire there souls to be stored so which you're able to forgive them. launch them of there soreness afterwords relatively than having it proceed on. the ideal supply you may provide is your LOVE. and love you may start with forgiving your mothers and dads. i'm hoping your latter area of your existence will make up for all the lost situations you have had. God bless!!!

Answer 4

I sure do, I was taken away from my mother, by the powers that be, magistrates to be precise, as being in need of "care and protection" and educated in a state school, where we were subject to the sadistic attentions of the teachers/masters,I remember on one occasion going home on school holiday, black and blue, from shoulders to back of knees ; my crime I had filched some apples from the kitchen garden,my mother reported this to the n.s.p.c.c.
their comment was, "We don't want to jeopardize the child by taking any action" and believe me that was not an isolated incident ! Oh yes I remember it well!

Answer 5

Yes

Answer 6

Very clearly. My father had a set of canes he would whip me with. It has had the effect that I am totally against violence and harming any othe living being. I am even vegetarian. So I guess it had a good outcome. I also have no contact with him at all out of my own choice. So he's this lonely old man. Not very cool but I guess he deserves it.

Answer 7

Yeah...I got beat up in my family, I know sometimes I didn't deserved it, but I'm doing good now, responsible and understand a lot of counselling, looking back now, I see my parents didn't know any better themselves and they had a hard life too, so it depends on me to make right choices in my life and not mess it up...

Answer 8

i thought it happened to everyone. it started with my dad's hand then belt, then broom stick handle, then we were picking our own branches off trees (switches) then punches.
i thought it was all normal but i found out later in life it wasn't. i also found out that he had broken a rib when i was 14 and i never got it repaired so now it sticks out more than my others... 6 years later.

Answer 9

my mum only got as far as hand and spatula, then one day, the spatula snapped on my leg when she hit me, the boken off end flew up and ended up behind a cupboard, i couldnt help laughing, it hurt like hell, but i found it so funny, after that i laughed or kept a straight face everytime she hit me, i refused to cry, she stopped after a short whilr cos it just didnt work anymore. laughters the best medicine.

Answer 10

WASNT ABUSE.IT WAS DISCIPLINE AND IF MORE PARENTS WERE DOING THAT THEN THE KIDS OF TODAY WONT BE SO ROTTEN..THEY ACTUALLY STINK SO BAD BEHAVED AND RUDE ADN NASTY.U WONDER SOMETIMES WHO ARE THE PARENTS WHEN THEY GO INTO THEIR TANTRUMS SCREAMING ..AND AT THE PARENTST SOMETIMES.I TELL U IF MY KID EVER SCREAMS AT ME HE/SHE WONT GOT ANY TEETH LEFT IN THE MOUTH TO TALK FAR LESS TO SCREAM IN THE FUTURE.