Long story, I will try to make it brief..
This guy I met through a friend, lives out of town,
Whenever he came here he would flirt like crazy around me, even if he was with his girlfriend.
He moved up to where I live, and broke up with his girlfriend moved in with me. It lasted 3 pathetic weeks before he moved back, to where he was from.
He said he was moving back down south not for the exgirlfriend but because he wanted his old job back.
He would still come up and visit me once a month and we would still slept together.
now he keeps talking about his (ex)girlfriend to me, although I haven't asked I assume they are back together....
I am confused when this happened... I have a feeling he was sleeping with us both at the same time..
I feel guilty, I don't even think she knows that he was living with me. Should I attempt to contact her and tell her the truth??
2007-01-25 22:57:04 · 21 answers · asked by suedoe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is tricky!!
The thing is you dont know if he was still with her when he was with you! you have no proof, thats what makes it so hard.
However, i think you should find out who his (ex) gf is... and try and talk to her....
2007-01-25 23:08:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!! you should never have got involved in the 1st place knowing he had a girlfriend, just let it be, I'm confident he was sleeping with you both because you let him!! I don't mean it as harsh as it sounds what I mean is, by messing around with him knowing he was spoken for you set the standard that you do not mind being a bit on the side and are willing to settle for second best!! never let another person make you feel this, just let him go and move on, you deserve better!!
2007-01-25 23:07:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are already hurt by it it will only hurt her too. If you feel compelled make him tell her, what's done is done hunny. If you lived happily ever after it would be a funny story but now it's just a mess. If you vauled her as a friend you would not have allowed it to happened as you described it. Let her find out on her own and learn from this mistake.
2007-01-25 23:04:05 · answer #3 · answered by fbarkon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why bother, id just move on and leave it in the past. things have a funny way of coming out and maybe one day this will too but for now let it go.
2007-01-25 23:06:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing would be gained by hurting her. If you tried to tell her to save her from future pain, she would most likely react badly and blame you. Nothing is simple when emotions are involved. I would strongly suggest breaking off all contact with him for your sake. He will only hurt you too.
2007-01-25 23:03:32 · answer #5 · answered by fly guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 19:45:54 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free. I'm not calling you anything, but this is an old saying
2007-01-25 23:05:53 · answer #7 · answered by Ex Head 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't contact her. He will only lie about it anyway if she asks him and you'll end up looking bad. He's a cheat and she'll find him out sooner or later.
But do yourself a favour and dump him now you know about her.
2007-01-25 23:50:12 · answer #8 · answered by Skidoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him and tell her. It'll make you feel better and expose the 2 timer.
2007-01-26 00:28:43 · answer #9 · answered by steemshovel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHat possible reason would you do that for? Spite? Revenge? Just stop seeing him unless you like this non-commital relationship. If you like it, then just leave it alone.
2007-01-25 23:03:22 · answer #10 · answered by brainiac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋