Family & Relationships - 22 January 2007

My long-distance boyfriend of 3 years has told me last night that he cannot continue this way anymore. He seems quite upset with our long-distance situation and he wants us to change it. We see each other once a month. He has been pretty upset about his job as he hasn't got promoted as he'd hoped for and since then he has been telling me he needs me to be closer to him and not far. He sent me an email today and he explained to me all the options we have and he said he'd be happy if I could be closer to him. He asked me what I think about it. I said I agree and I said I was glad he has raised the topic and I gave him my options and we both agreed to a common goal. However, one thing I dont like is that he gave us a deadline of 6 months as he said that otherwise nothing will change if we dont put some pressure on us. He said if nothing will change within the next 6 months, he wont be able to continue this way anymore. He was very logical and practical about it tonight. What do you think?

2007-01-22 11:20:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Lately the person I picked to be my maid of honor has been being weird with me and I really don't feel that I am close to anyone to have that honor, so I was wondering if that would be weird if I didn't have a maid of honor or should I choose my little sister who is 12 years old. The problem is my fiance is 31 and the guy he wants to be his best man is 30. So I really can't have my sister be the maid of honor.....Just so confused!!

2007-01-22 11:20:19 · 19 answers · asked by rhiannon r 2 in Weddings

i like this guy but i have never talked to him and i can't say hi, he and i are different i mean by who we talk to, what we wear,ext. i don't know if he likes me or not? and if i tell him i like him than he will think im osessed or something. what should i do to get him to like me?

2007-01-22 11:20:18 · 11 answers · asked by ~~~~~~******* 3 in Friends

Can you be friends only with an ex-boyfriend of three years?

2007-01-22 11:20:10 · 10 answers · asked by Elizabeth 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 11:20:05 · 4 answers · asked by catina m 1 in Singles & Dating

two days after my birthday i went at a fun park and i met this guy, we talked and he collected my number, but all the time i tought i knew him from sone where. well i did he goes to my school. when i saw him i was suprise i dident talk to him before. but i was wondering if to u kno ask him if he mind if i asked his name and where he was on the day of the outing(in a nice way). i dont kno if to ask coz i'm not sure if to wait for him to call. it has been 2 days ,and i'm freakin out. i dont kno what to do ,or if to do ,or if thats him, i pray it is but i dont kno my head goes blank when i see him and i'm like stuck. ??ASK, DON'T ASK, OR WAIT ...WHAT?? I feel drawn to him for some reason i can never have a face to face conversion wit any one i've known since the first grade, but i can do that with him. This is not a skool girl fantasy it's reality. I don't really kno ho to ask him ?!?WHAT DO I DO, HOW DO I SAY IT?!? SHOULD I LET IT GO i'm confused !!!HELP!!!PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!

2007-01-22 11:19:31 · 2 answers · asked by fantasticgirl 4 in Singles & Dating

Ok, So I have been with my man for 4 years and he has not gotten any better. It is a constant battle. He worships his daughter from his previous relationship and puts my son and I on the back burner. He hugs his daughter and holds her hand and kisses her, but will not with my son. When I talk to him about it it ends up in a fight. I am now pregnant by him and our baby is due in 2 months and he still is not giving me what I need. He wont rub my back or anything. Lost???

2007-01-22 11:19:16 · 7 answers · asked by cutemom 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok what should I do to keep things the way they were, My man was acting tiered of me (we have been living together for 2yr) I left out of town for a couple of days and when I came back he was so nice and sweet to me... for days now its been a week and he is been the same cold and does not even let me kiss him. Why is he acting like this? And what should I do so that he can be sweet and loving to me again?

2007-01-22 11:19:09 · 5 answers · asked by Just ME 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am in a horrible situation. My boyfriend is extremely sexy but than I met his family. WOW! His dad is ssssssssssssssssooo hot, he made me wet the moment we shook hands. He is tall and muscular. He used to be a pro athlete. What do I do? There was an obvious connection. His dad is single (his mom and dad are divorced). I caught his dad staring at my ***. He checked me out when I was in the kitchen too. I am having naughty thoughts. HELP!

2007-01-22 11:18:16 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bf goes out to clubs with his friends like twice a months. sometimes i just can't take it. We have a long distance relationship so i obviously can't be there. I do trust him very much since we have been going out for more than 3 years. but it still buggs him. is it normal? when i visit him, we prefer just stay at home or just be with each other. I just want to know if this is happening to other people too. like getting jealous when he goes out with his buddies is normal.

2007-01-22 11:18:14 · 1 answers · asked by Deesa 2 in Singles & Dating

what do you when you found that special someone in your life and you find them cheating on you so you break up with them and then after they are all you think about???????

2007-01-22 11:17:12 · 11 answers · asked by ♥mystery♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

I dont get it, how can you be to good and be told not to be so good, in a serious matter, could this ruin us??

2007-01-22 11:17:10 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he loves kids

2007-01-22 11:16:19 · 12 answers · asked by duhbaby 1 in Friends

2007-01-22 11:16:15 · 20 answers · asked by jimma j 1 in Singles & Dating

were they exciting??? Come on spill...

2007-01-22 11:16:03 · 35 answers · asked by Basket-santa 6 in Singles & Dating

to do anything for my future,should I believe him?

PS: I had to break drop out of college coz of my baby

2007-01-22 11:15:37 · 50 answers · asked by CURIOUSMO2006 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Married for two years and at the moment her cousin is staying with us for 3 month holiday. Last week a close lady's friend of my wife said to me that her son has seen my wife and her cousin in walking arm and arm. I called the son and he said yes they looked like lovers. I then confronted my wife and initially she denied everything. A couple of days later she said a we were just walking holding hands but there is no sex. I work away but when I was home I could see no signs of any love unless they are hiding it well. She has now fallen out with her friend. Is it my immagination or my gut feeling is not good.

2007-01-22 11:15:26 · 26 answers · asked by maleinaus 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I come from a family where it was considered normal to have sex with each other. Recently (after my parents were convicted and my sister was placed in a foster home) I found out that society frowns upon incest. My sister and I miss each other terribly and secretly still email.

What's wrong with showing a little brotherly love?

2007-01-22 11:15:26 · 20 answers · asked by Knuckle Duster 2 in Singles & Dating

this is not the first time i kiss some one .. but why do i get this feeling when i kiss him?

2007-01-22 11:15:11 · 8 answers · asked by karmin 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend won a bet between us and cant decide what his side should be.

2007-01-22 11:13:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

to singles and dating? Or do you try out the other categories?

2007-01-22 11:12:57 · 28 answers · asked by Basket-santa 6 in Singles & Dating

Okay guys why is it so difficult for you to tell a gal that you like her..

2007-01-22 11:11:43 · 6 answers · asked by tamrastic 3 in Singles & Dating

...but I like another guy what do I do??

2007-01-22 11:11:29 · 11 answers · asked by Lyss 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 to 7 months. He is 17, and I am 14.He told me about a month ago that when he turns 18, he was going to dump me which is in May. Now, I don't know what to do. I don't want to lose someone I love so much. And I told him that he doesn't have to dump me if it is okay with my parents, which it is. And he says "his parents won't approve" and he is a big 'mommas boy'. I'm so lost right now, I love this boy to death.

2007-01-22 11:11:06 · 32 answers · asked by jessdotdotdot 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and his ex-girl talk on the phone sometimes and is like for about 20 min he tells me that they are just friends. I feel like is not right and i tell him but he tell me that im just being insecure. I had told him to stop talking to her a million time but he wount could there be something going on?

2007-01-22 11:11:04 · 26 answers · asked by Candi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-22 11:09:52 · 31 answers · asked by Jim E 2 in Marriage & Divorce

and i dont no what to do for valentines day.. HELP!

2007-01-22 11:08:13 · 16 answers · asked by Rachel 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this girl i met about 2 months ago through my other friend. We talked alot and we still talk everynight before bedtime and to this day its going well. She wants a good christian guy and im catholic, dont attend much church. Whenever we are together we have the best times in our lives! We have hung out once since we met. We are getting to know each other better and im not sure if i should tell her im starting to have feelings for her or not. She told me a story about another guy who liked her and she shot him down, and i want to be 100% honest with her at all times. What should i do? We are always talking/texting or i drive 25 minutes to hang out with her about every 3 days.

2007-01-22 11:08:12 · 11 answers · asked by starplayer2oo7 1 in Friends

That I really think is pretty. Not like any old popular hot girl. Shes just really cute. Like no cute girl I've ever seen. She doesn't have to be my girlfriend. Anyway I know absoluty nothing about her. She hangs out with a lot of guys that I know skateboard. And I'm not a skateboarder. I know a few of the guys but I don't know her. I don't even know her name!! And yet when ever I see her I duck and dodge so that she won't look at me. I would really like to just talk to her. I'm not a bashful or get embarested or anything, but when ever I even get any where near her I try and avoid her. Any tips that I could use just to be her friend? I don't really see her that much. She has lunch my period and rides my bus but thats it. I can tell shes probably the kind of person who wouldn't hesitate to glare at me and walk away when I introduce my self but.*sigh*. I'm to the point where I'd be happy if she just talks to me but grrr I'm just really...I don't know. Just any helpful sucjestions?

2007-01-22 11:08:12 · 11 answers · asked by Georami 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 11:07:47 · 5 answers · asked by T 2 in Other - Family & Relationships