That I really think is pretty. Not like any old popular hot girl. Shes just really cute. Like no cute girl I've ever seen. She doesn't have to be my girlfriend. Anyway I know absoluty nothing about her. She hangs out with a lot of guys that I know skateboard. And I'm not a skateboarder. I know a few of the guys but I don't know her. I don't even know her name!! And yet when ever I see her I duck and dodge so that she won't look at me. I would really like to just talk to her. I'm not a bashful or get embarested or anything, but when ever I even get any where near her I try and avoid her. Any tips that I could use just to be her friend? I don't really see her that much. She has lunch my period and rides my bus but thats it. I can tell shes probably the kind of person who wouldn't hesitate to glare at me and walk away when I introduce my self but.*sigh*. I'm to the point where I'd be happy if she just talks to me but grrr I'm just really...I don't know. Just any helpful sucjestions?
2007-01-22 11:08:12 · 11 answers · asked by Georami 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also I'm a sophmore and I think she might be a freshman. I don't know for sure though. Not that I would want to go out with her but is it alright for some one to go out with somene else in a lower grade? High school speaking.
2007-01-22 11:10:03 · update #1
If you know some of the guys she hangs out with than go with them alot and just hang out with them a lot, that will probably lead you to be around her and be able to introduce yourself. Trust me it will work. I'm pretty sure you'll be fine with dating a girl of a lower grade. When I was in grade 8, i was dating a guy in grade 10, i also went out with a guy in grade 11, all was fine, we went out for like a year each. You'll be fine. If you like her that much then stop worrying about your reputation becuz thats what throws girls off. <33
2007-01-22 11:16:35 · answer #1 · answered by Kelsey's Mommy<3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the world of teenagers.Your issue happens to millions of kids. It is a maturity and self confidence thing you need to deal with. First, check yourself....take an honest look at yourself---are you neat and clean?? Are you dressed and groomed??? Are you what any girl would want to look at?? If you see her, say hello---it doesn't hurt and she won't bite you. There are 2 things that can happen---she will say hi or she won't. So what if she says nothing---you tried---life is full of trial and errors. How you handle yourself is a matter of maturity and social grace. If you cannot do this at this time --it will eventually get easier...so don't worry---just walk tall and be proud of who you are. happy hunting
2007-01-22 19:17:53 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to get the courage to say hello and go from there. Nothing but hello at first. Just hello. Or hi. Or excuse me on the bus. Or eye contact. And the next time say what's up?? Try not to duck when you see her. :)
2007-01-22 19:12:56 · answer #3 · answered by steffy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one day juss ask if you could sit with her on the bus, start a conversation by saying hello, what's your name? mines..., how's school?, how are you? etc.. dont say she's pretty tho, that scares off alot of girls. im a female myself. if you see her in the halls just say hello and wave. after she knows that you exist and not hiding from her. she might notice you and talk to you. and hopefully be your friend. dont say hello everyday to her. she might think your a stalker. just be friendly a little hello here and there.
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2007-01-22 19:29:59 · answer #4 · answered by xkathiee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really know how you feel.. im a freshman myself and there is a guy who is a senior... but anyways. try and talk to her. get behind her in the lunch line or sit behind on on the bus. it may help tp acciddently "bump" into her that way you can atleast say your sorry. and there is your first word to her! and you know if she glares at you she's not really worth it. try and find someone else who would apperseate you. Good Luck!!!!!!
2007-01-22 19:14:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I think you should confront her and tell her you're interested in skateboarding but dont really know how. Try to be her friend be confident in yourself or else it wont work. I know it sounds lame but it really helps and if you like her it doesnt matter what grade she's in.
2007-01-22 19:15:39 · answer #6 · answered by Mariniac 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dude the best thing you can do is go up to her and introduce yourself. it shouldn't matter who she hangs with or if she a freshmen. if you just want to be her friend talk to her and if you want her to be more than just a friend do the same. well dude good luck.
2007-01-22 19:17:25 · answer #7 · answered by here to help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just hurry up and ask her out before someone elso comes along.Come on or else everyone will think your a chicken.
2007-01-22 19:15:09 · answer #8 · answered by Alonzo M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
create some chance to talk to her. make it natural and relax..she's just another human being! it's better she doesn't see you bashful...i know it's hard. but try to be yourself and relax. treat her like a friend...after all, you wanna become her friend before you can possibly ask her out right?
2007-01-22 19:14:10 · answer #9 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just say hi,And complement her.It really works.
2007-01-22 19:13:41 · answer #10 · answered by Hotti_Hot_Hotti 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋