My husband and his ex-girl talk on the phone sometimes and is like for about 20 min he tells me that they are just friends. I feel like is not right and i tell him but he tell me that im just being insecure. I had told him to stop talking to her a million time but he wount could there be something going on?
2007-01-22 11:11:04 · 26 answers · asked by Candi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
At least he can talk to you after your divorce. That will give you something to look forward to.
2007-01-22 11:14:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is aware of that you don't have any the place else to go. And why are you playing video games with him. The next time you have to inform him to hurry off the laptop so that you would be able to determine your myspace web page you might be waiting on a message from an historic buddy you located. If he wishes the ex lady friend let him have her. At the moment you need to begin doing things to at ease your future like going again to university, taking on-line courses, or watching for employment. Don't deliver it up once more. The marriage is most likely over and he's dishonest. Then you definitely should slap that idiot throughout his head he treats you love that considering you will have under no circumstances demanded your admire in the marriage and now he's taking knowledge. He was once competent to leave you and your kids. You will have to be an grownup and switch the tables on him. To find his weakness. The next time he is on myspace or you see textual content messages simply say "hm mm" and stroll away. Don't get mad. He'll marvel what goes through your head. File for child aid if you happen to have got to but don't take his ****.
2016-08-10 13:20:16 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing can make a spouse feel more insecure than our mate talking to his ex. it isn't right, i am sure he didn't tell u he would be in contact with her before u married him. funny how they always turn it around and find fault with us, some thing about us when they are doing something we don't like. if he is your husband than he has no right or reason to still be involved with an ex, unless there is some sort of feeling there between them.
2007-01-22 11:17:16 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you - it's not right. I don't know why these girls are on the phone with a married man! If you told him it hurts you and he tells you to get over it, what's going on is he dismisses your feelings and calls you names.. That's a clue.
My husband has no interest whatsoever in talking to any ex girlfriends. And if he did, I wouldn't tolerate it. I'd tell these women to get a life!
2007-01-22 11:17:37 · answer #4 · answered by Sabine É 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If its just talking on the phone once in awhile, you may not have anything to worry about. Have you met her? If so, do you feel like you have reason to worry?
I know a number of people who maintain friendships with exes, but they're always casual - talk now and then, send a brithday card, etc., but thats about it.
If it is really getting to you, start talking to one of your exes and see how your husband likes it... :)
2007-01-22 11:15:22 · answer #5 · answered by eileezy2002 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your issues about jealousy are issues you need to work on, jealousy is ugly, even if it is founded.
And, yes they could be friends.
And, no, I don't think they plan on remaining just friends.
You know, print out these answers and show them to him. This way he will at least know that most people wouldn't assume that he and this ex are just friends, and you are not just being insecure.
2007-01-22 11:14:34 · answer #6 · answered by Liligirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that first guy who answered has essentially the right idea...throw it right back into your hubby's lap...ask him, "How would you feel if I kept talking with (ex-boyfriends' names) on the phone?" see how hubby reacts!! i don't know how long you've been married, but most couples, regardless of marital status or length of relationship forget about how their partner feels if they've got a level of confidence or security in the relationship. that's how i monitor my behavior...if I see a cute guy and he flirts with me, i immediately check myself by asking silently, "how would i feel if i saw bob reacting in a flirty manner to someone who'd just made this comment to him?" it really helps and i didn't think of that until my hubby pointed that out to me a few years back. point it out to your hubby and hopefully he'll see the light and cut off those conversations with the ex and respect your feelings in the matter. hope this helped and good luck to you!!
2007-01-22 11:19:12 · answer #7 · answered by vrandolph62 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have an ex that I am still very good friends with. We talk pretty regularly. I know his new fiance and he knows my fiance. We wouldn't like all hang out or anything but we all know each other and it's all good. He and I broke up on very good terms.
2007-01-22 11:15:15 · answer #8 · answered by Dawnita 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Talking from experience,you are being taken for a ride,he is tapping her *** and he knows you cant do anything about it,since you act so comfortable with the whole deal.
Just pack up and leave,is all i can say,he belongs to her
2007-01-22 11:20:00 · answer #9 · answered by CURIOUSMO2006 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would NEVER put up with that. It never works both ways
How would he like it if you talked to someone every day that you had sex with before you met... He is immature and ridiculous.
I would give him an ultimatum and be done with him if he chooses her over you.
2007-01-22 11:14:13 · answer #10 · answered by Tink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋