...but I like another guy what do I do??
2007-01-22 11:11:29 · 11 answers · asked by Lyss 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends on how much you value your friendship. I'd say go with the other guy so there's no competition which could hurt your friendship.
2007-01-22 11:14:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your friend like the same guy, but you also like another guy? At least you have two guys to like. That is a bad case to be in. If your friend gets this guy then you will be mad at your friend. If you get this guy then your friend will mad at you. No guy is worth losing a perfectly good friendship over. This happens all the time to girls and happens usually more than once. If you like this other guy more, go with him. Find out who you truly like and if it's the guy your friend also likes who also likes you back, then your friend will respect that. If she doesn't, then she wasn't a friend in the first place. Have you ever considered sitting down and asking your friend that if something happened between you and this guy you both liked if she would be mad or upset? Take the guy you both like and risk losing a friend or take the other guy and keep a friend but gain the friendship of the guy you both like? Either way it goes, you get a good deal out of it if you like two different guys! Good luck!
2007-01-22 11:18:26 · answer #2 · answered by ~M*a*N*d*Y~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself. let it play out how it will. if you're good friends it won't hurt the friendship over the long run... in fact if you are anything like me and my room mate in college- we laugh about it all the time. We liked the same guy- who happened to be her boyfriend at the time so i kinda just was me and went on an akward date with his best friend to double with her and him.... and well, he dumped her that night and picked me up- within a couple weeks he dumped me and is still single as far as we know- and both of us are happily married and she has a little baby. Things play out for the best as long as everyone is being honest and is themselves.
2007-01-22 11:18:19 · answer #3 · answered by megcinderella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then go with the other guy. It's a free country, you could go for both if you want to, ya know?
2007-01-22 11:15:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her she can go for him if she wants. he will probably have crazy feelings for u when they get together and as for the other guy u like talk to him 2 things will more than likely work out to your advantage so i hope it works out for you
2007-01-22 11:18:45 · answer #5 · answered by lcoollexy1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend that you have feelings for him and maybe she'll comprehend that you really like him and so maybe she should let you give a try of being his girlfriend.
2007-01-22 11:14:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go with the other one and let your friend pursue the mutual crush.
2007-01-22 11:16:19 · answer #7 · answered by Kimberly H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with the other guy b/c if your freind likes just that guy let her have him and you can go out with the other one and still keep your freind
2007-01-22 11:15:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget the boys friends are better
2007-01-22 11:15:07 · answer #9 · answered by carebear_destroyer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you and your should and talk about this
2007-01-22 11:17:19 · answer #10 · answered by Weedhead 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋