I dont get it, how can you be to good and be told not to be so good, in a serious matter, could this ruin us??
2007-01-22 11:17:10 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know hes not lying because I know im good, but to downgrade my sexuality, I just can do it, It is getting fustrating
2007-01-22 11:27:26 · update #1
thats a good thing i think
guys lyke erotic sex
2007-01-22 11:20:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey it might ruin the relationship, well from a guy point of view i think your bf have a problem and he is a little insecure about his performance. If i am you, dont worry too much, because hey you are good at what you do then why change for silly reason. Maybe you need to teach him a fews thing or buy porn so he can learn something from it, lol. And hey if i had a gf that good in bed, 4real i would never leave her and much love to her... So it's a compliment that you are good in bed ok, so you should feel good about that. So be happy!!!
2007-01-22 11:31:17 · answer #2 · answered by jnbyz001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
briefly he does no longer want sex, he would want it yet he does no longer want it. there is not any difficulty in which one will conflict through undesirable area effects at the same time as no longer having sexual kinfolk individuals. probable what's taking position is he's putting on a ploy, he's attempting to guilt you into doing what he needs. that is his concept that you're ignorant to the way the human body works. enable him recognize that you'll locate with the help of his charade completely advantageous, although he will probable in user-friendly words attempt harder. In each and every of the most acceptable concept is probable to chop up with him, do you actually want someone who will achieve this a lot merely to get you into mattress? If he really needed you none of this can be taking position, he might want to be completely advantageous with no longer having sex. So please do your self a pick and attempt to locate someone that dosne't cope with you want an fool.
2016-12-02 22:10:26 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your boyfriend to get a life and grow up. I guarantee you it would be the same story if you were bad at it. He doesn't know when he has it good. If i were you I'ddump him because if this is a problem for him then you can be sure that there will be many, many other reasons for him to complain. That's only trouble for you in the long run.
2007-01-22 11:24:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is defective, and insecure.
Either he needs to grow up, or you need to move on.
Being a "boy" I can tell you that he is insecure as you learned HOW to have good sex before you met him!
Now, a mature man will appreciate you want to be with HIM, and not fret about your education or enthusiasm.. but some bible thumping domineering woman owning man mentality.. well, he will have an attitude like you describe.
2007-01-22 11:24:53 · answer #5 · answered by tony911m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, think back to how he said it. Could have have been joking? Merely complimenting you? Fishing for you to compliment him?
If you're stressing so much over whether it will ruin your relationship, just ask him about it. Tell him he's good at it, don't worry, you like it the way it is, and there's no way you could be 'too good at sex for him'.
2007-01-22 11:21:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well shucky darn! You're with the wrong guy then how about giving me your number. LOL, just kidding.
Yes you can be too good at sex but that only means you'll have to become a teacher and instruct him in the fine art of making love. Do it slowly and show him how it's done to please you. You're both young and you'll both benefit from it.
2007-01-22 11:37:00 · answer #7 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are not so great and he doesn't want to hurt your feelings so he's trying to get out of this relationship by using a new spin on the old, "you too good for me girl, I don't deserve you." Never known guys to complain and run from great sex. Unless he's gay. (another possibility)
2007-01-22 11:25:31 · answer #8 · answered by Brainiac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He feels threatened because you are better than him and one day you will wake up and decide you need a real man to satisfy you and will dump him for someone else. But, maybe you can turn it around and "teach" him a few things and it will all work out.
2007-01-22 11:24:19 · answer #9 · answered by Jewel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a poor excuse. There has GOT to be some other reason.
REAL LOVE makes a good lover.
2007-01-22 11:25:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What?! He's got a problem. Sounds to me like he feels inadequate or something. Better have a serious talk, and tell him he should count himself lucky to have you!! If he isn't, find someone who is!
2007-01-22 11:21:51 · answer #11 · answered by blondee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋