I am in a horrible situation. My boyfriend is extremely sexy but than I met his family. WOW! His dad is ssssssssssssssssooo hot, he made me wet the moment we shook hands. He is tall and muscular. He used to be a pro athlete. What do I do? There was an obvious connection. His dad is single (his mom and dad are divorced). I caught his dad staring at my ***. He checked me out when I was in the kitchen too. I am having naughty thoughts. HELP!
2007-01-22 11:18:16 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Please guys...this is a serious question!
2007-01-22 11:23:43 · update #1
If you have already dated the son (even if only once), it would only be even more awkward to date or have a fling with the dad.
Hot as he may be, you'll not only hurt your boyfriend but also create tension between him and his father.
If both of them are attractive and fully aware of it, they both might get a kick out of playing the field and competing for the same women. You don't want to be played by a father-son team, unless of course you can become unattached emotionally and do it for merely physical purposes.
It's your call.
2007-01-22 11:31:33 · answer #1 · answered by lyzz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My fiancee's ex girlfriend was in the same situation you are in a few years back. She (unknown to my boo or his mother, who was married to his father) ended up "kissing" his father. Now, 5 years later, father and son still have unresolved issues. and mom and dad are in a miserable relationship because they decided to stay together for some unknown reason. Even I, new to the family, can't help but have hard feelings toward my soon-to-be father-in-law for even thinking about cheating on his wife with his son's girlfriend. It's sick that he would even consider it. I guess what i'm saying is your lust for this "man" (if you can call him that, a real man wouldn't cheat on his wife) isn't worth screwing up literally an entire family for a lot longer than you think it'll effect them. Think about that. Be wise. Do the whole family and your karma a favor and break up with "Joe". You're not an animal, you do have control over your hormones. You don't love him anyway if you're thinkin about doin his dad. And if you stay with him the temptation might get too out of control for you to handle. Pray for strength against temptation (Thou shalt not commit adultery is one of the top ten sins) and remove yourself away from it before you really screw up something you can't fix.
2016-03-28 21:46:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! Girl what's wrong with you? He might be hot, but do you seriously think he would go for you? You need to be someone your age or around your age. Someone who can go through life with you and learn when you do. Not someone who has already experinced his life and then some. Most people who date older men never usually last that long. He probably knows he is hot and can have anyone he wants and why would it be you? See, my best friend is going through this with an older man but she isn't dating his son because he doesn't have one. He even slept with her and after he did, he found someone else. Why have one woman when you can have several? Think about everything before you let go of your boyfriend if that's what you want?
2007-01-22 11:26:09 · answer #3 · answered by ~M*a*N*d*Y~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should try and keep away from his dad as much as you can. I mean even if you and his dad did work out... how weird would it be to have a step-son that you dated. and besides your boyfriend will maybe (hopefully) end up looking like his dad. and all dads check out their sons g/fs and i mean he is single so i guess that he sort of has the right to look at your ***. but if this continues, i think that you should tell your b/f how you feel about his dad. i know that that would be very uncomfortable but you guys need an honest relationship. but what would you do if your boyfriend felt the same way about your mom??
*hope that you figure it out♥*
2007-01-22 11:24:13 · answer #4 · answered by i_wuv_shayne_17 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh yer gonna have an interesting (LOL) life.. (and yeah I'd know)
Better do some prefessions to the local priest.. i dont think yer gonna have time later..
Forgive me father.. for I have sinned.. in about 30 mins from now... (get on the prepaid plan.. saves time hehehe)
Hmm I duno though.. and older guy going for a younger girl? That never happens.. HA! Just like father sons have never shared the same GF.. noooo that never happens (we usually take bets on it though)
2007-01-22 11:25:35 · answer #5 · answered by darchangel_3 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is really bad! U shouldn't replace ur boyfriend with ur boyfriend;s dad!!!!!!!!!!!!
U must be crazy then!! Think about ur boyfriend that way and tell him what is going on! He will probably solve ur problem! tell him that his dad was checking u out ! They will have a talck and ur problem will be solved!
2007-01-22 11:23:46 · answer #6 · answered by Jane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go there. A boyfriend's father should be off limits. I was also think carefully about how you dress and behave in front of him - it could turn very nasty.
2007-01-22 11:22:22 · answer #7 · answered by bovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just enjoy the situation ..
After two weeks you'll have a choice
2007-01-22 11:23:56 · answer #8 · answered by Orsca 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have fun with both of them honey and get that hot wet thing licked good and clean...
2007-01-22 11:23:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dumb your bf. you shouldn't be into his dad. if that's the case what if he have a super-duper sexy cousin. mature and don't always act on impulse. if he was starring at your boobs, then he's less of a man.
2007-01-22 11:22:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋