2007-01-22 11:16:15 · 20 answers · asked by jimma j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would rather wait until I'm married. It would be more special that way. My mom always said "why pay for the cow if you get the milk for free,"
2007-01-22 11:21:02 · answer #1 · answered by Steph 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Animals do it all the time and they never even get married. God says don't do it, but I don't see any problem with it since we are the human animal after all. Besides, what if you get married and the sex is terrible? Just ok would be alright, but seriously, what if it's really bad? I prefer to live with someone first and act like we're married. I'm getting married this weekend to my fiancee of 3 years, and I know it will work, because we've been together this long. I say, never leap before you look. This is my first marriage. None of the other women worked out. It was usually mutual.
2007-01-22 19:27:43 · answer #2 · answered by tokes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe in waiting for marriage. I want to go into a marriage with my eyes wide open, and if he's going to spring some kinky pantyhose fetish on me, I'd rather know about it BEFORE we get married, rather than afterwards. They say sex is a small part of marriage as long as it's working, but 90% of the problems if it isn't. I'd rather know ahead of time that we're compatable in bed as well as out of it.
Plus waiting assumes you will get married. More and more people these days are not getting married, for whatever reason, or waiting until they're in their 30s and 40s.
I lost my virginity at 16 and I don't regret it, or any of the sex I've had, since.
2007-01-22 19:24:04 · answer #3 · answered by Jadalina 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depend on how old u r!!
If u r over 20 then who cares! But I think sex before marriage is just a little riski! Something can happen! Anything can happen actually! U have to be carefull and think before ur actions!!
2007-01-22 19:20:51 · answer #4 · answered by Jane 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex is the physical expression of emotional love between available and mutually loving adults. It can be used for cheap thrills and as for recreation.
Presuming you are thinking of marrying your mate for all the right reasons, sex is natural. In fact, when you are truly in love with your partner, you will likely either split with him/her, or start sleeping with him/her and have a soul marriage. Marriage is a lot more about the heart and soul than the bedroom and the wedding chapel. Being married to your mate will cause you to sleep with him/her, regardless if your are yet married.
2007-01-22 19:22:13 · answer #5 · answered by answerblaster 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As long as it's between consenting adults, it cool at anytime. It's a totally physical act that is the exact same thing as before or after marriage. Some people who wait til after marriage are just as disappointed as those who didn't wait. Marriage doesn't change anything.
2007-01-22 19:21:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
for a lot of people it depends on religious views, but as i am not saddled with any of those, i think it's fine. but you should definitely care about the person a great deal, and it would be best if you were dating and loved each other. drunked flings are definitely a bad idea.
and always use protection!!
2007-01-22 19:20:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I admire the hell out of those who can abstain from it but I wouldn't marry anyone without sampling the wears.
God made only us and the dolphins love sex for the feeling and I don't think we should disappoint God.
2007-01-22 20:03:58 · answer #8 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sex before marriage removes the specialness of it.If he can"t wait thru respect of you,you need someone else.You can pet each other without doing the wild thing.
2007-01-22 19:28:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you beleve it is better to wait till marrage than I respect that.
But being a single father I am sure that you can figure out my opinon on it.
2007-01-22 19:22:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋