Family & Relationships - 22 January 2007

Last night my husband hit me in the side of the head Im 5 weeks pregnant... I dont understand why men are violent with women.. He left me and 2 kids and 1 in the belly, I dont know what to do

2007-01-22 11:42:20 · 16 answers · asked by heatflora 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Basically ive made the realization it will never work out, but there was a time when it did. Im curious as to what the sudden change was. I know i must have done something wrong, but dont see why we cant be normal again. She likes the black guys, and from what i gathered likes to be treated wrong as well.

Maybe if i ask her out, cheat on her with all her friends, and tell her, than she'll like me more. haha, i donno, im just going by what the ex-bf did to her, and they still like each other!!!. dumb people get along with dumb people i suppose hmm...

2007-01-22 11:41:59 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This girl plays alot of games with me. She has a boyfriend and I told her I had a crush on her and she gave me a hug. And that was it. But she has shown interest that she was into me one day another she's not so i'm confuse. Now i'm feeling this way now. I'm losing interest in her now and she's interest in my now and I'm ignoring her. I'm confuse

2007-01-22 11:41:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've been friends since 7th grade(we're in 12th now) He's my best friend but now whenever i'm around him he's bitter about everything. And he makes fun of everyone else and how he hates so many people(some of who are my other friends). And i get mad about stuff too while he talks and gets me all resentful of others too. But he's always been there for me, but he's just soo bitter it annoys me. So the question is should i tell him to talk about other stuff or just let him vent the whole time?

2007-01-22 11:41:39 · 5 answers · asked by Ms. V 5 in Friends

I got in a serious relationship at 15, been with him 4 1/2 years, never really had partying in my life or anything of that sort, grew up way too young, I have no kids.

2007-01-22 11:41:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I was sleeping over at her house with another girl and we stayed up late.. and it was 1:15 in the morning and he dad comes and it says Its god damn 1 in the morninig wut the hell r u doing up???!?! And he yanks her outside the room. He takes her to the garage and slaps her.. thats all that happend he slapped her once.. and i think thats all he did.. but when she came back she was crying and holding her face adn said he slapped her. After we comforter her she said she wanteed to change.. and she changed her underwear too. it was 1 why would she do that. all she told me was that he slapped her.. i hope nothing else happend.
but The friend and i dont know what to do. she said this was the first time.. and says he wont do it again.. but i told her that she doesns't kno that. and i want her out of the house.. i need to get her out of there cuz of her dad.. her dad is soo mean and frightning.. and her mom is Terrified of him.. everyone is.. should i tell my parents? should i tell the

2007-01-22 11:41:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I work with him every week pretty much. He hides my things and makes me look for them. actually its annoying but funny at he same time. He likes to pull jokes on me and every time says something about me that could be mean but i dont take it seriously. I like him and i have liked him for a long time now almost 4 months. i do everything that i could possibly can think of. i am not really experienced in this type of thing i have only dated a couple of times and the last time i was on a date was 3 years ago. this guy is cute and can be funny and thats what i like. he doesnt do any drugs or drinking and thats what i also like about him. you probably would say why i like him because he always picks on me but theres something about him that i like. please help

2007-01-22 11:40:42 · 14 answers · asked by Rachael G 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so.... I go to highschool. and... I HATE to be seen with anyone who isnt pretty.. or have money.. its so bad I know.... But I cant help it... If im seen in a skank cra.. then I seriously... freak out... and am humiliated.... the same with people.. I dont like going places with my not so pretty friends...... I know its horrible.. what can I do to get over it??

AND.. Dont be mean.. im acknowladging that I have a prob..

2007-01-22 11:40:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Are women naturally more attracted to taller men ?

2007-01-22 11:40:06 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think theyre sweet but maybe I should just cover them up anyway.
What do you think???

2007-01-22 11:39:48 · 42 answers · asked by Basket-santa 6 in Singles & Dating

most romantic gets the points for best answer

2007-01-22 11:39:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he has his own separate room, but i still cant picture it.....i cant imagine having sex with a person next room to us
am i wrong? he thinks that i am over exaggerating

2007-01-22 11:39:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 11:39:15 · 18 answers · asked by Rob 6 in Marriage & Divorce

have you ever had a boyfriend who didn't want to talk to you and was flirting with the girls in his class. Well my boyfriend Tyler doesn't want to talk to me and is always flirting with his best friend Mia. Every time i try to talk to him hejust ignores me What should i do. I love him.

2007-01-22 11:38:02 · 1 answers · asked by mz.balser 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend told me that he was cheating on me and doesn't want to lose me. he didn't want me to hear it from someone elsa, so instead he told me!!!!!
he said he was sorry and loves me like crazy but fooled around and now he's sorry for it!!!!!!
he wants me to give him another chance!!!!!
what should i do, i don't love.......but still i'am amazed that he told me this....for some reason it feels as if he does love me!!!!!
so should i give him a chance or not?!

2007-01-22 11:37:28 · 13 answers · asked by abbie j 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok. So i've been secretly crushing on this one guy at school since 2nd grade. I want to tell him I like him, but I don't know how to say it. Please tell me how i can say it!

2007-01-22 11:37:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my best friends is coming up and i dont know wat 2 give him i was thinking about a card but i dont know wat 2 write because i dont want him to think its gurly because he is a boy and a cool guy wat do u think i should write or do

2007-01-22 11:36:42 · 6 answers · asked by vivi 1 in Friends

Does the nice guy loose for a reason? People complain about how the nice guy always looses, but from what I've seen, the "nice" guy also has the lowest self esteem, the least confidence, the least successful, and the least idea of how to talk to women. (and are- from what I've seen- also overweight and strange looking. I've never met a good looking, successful guy who described himself as "nice") Is it because the nice guys just happen to be the least attractive (not because they're nice, but for other reasons), or is it because people only describe themselves as 'the nice guy' when they have nothing else going for them?

2007-01-22 11:36:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am pretty artsy w/ a splash of hippy. :) I want my invitations to be simple, elegant, and edgy/contemporary. My colors are dark, earthy (almost olive) green w/ dark gold. Any suggestions? OH, and I'm working w/ a really tight budget. Any known websites would help tremendously! THANKS!

2007-01-22 11:36:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My good friend Carolina thinks i am betraying my culture by not dating a spanish guy.I am costa rican, argentinian, french, german, dutch and spaniard.But for the most part spanish is the biggest chunk of that.She see's me being intrested in a white guy in my class as offensive saying that there are plenty of latin guys.Its not like i am doing this on purpose its just i have always lived in an almost all white neiborhood so most of my bf's have been white?I have gone out with African and Asian guys though so i dont think i am racist?Its also really hard for me to mesh with a spanish guy culture wise so i generally avoid dating them ie i dont speak spanish.

2007-01-22 11:36:06 · 12 answers · asked by Jenny O 1 in Singles & Dating

I was just wondering. I tried me some white men once, and they were just as good if not better than my black sexual encouters. Now honey, don't be thinking I am a whore, cause I ain't. I just like white men better I think, but only if they have a big penis. Nobody, white or black wants a vienna sausage when it comes time to getting busy.

2007-01-22 11:35:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok I have this friend and he is super cute and super sweet and I have liked him since the begining of school. We have alot of classes together and we talk on a daily basis. When me and him are just talking he brings up the subject of asking girls out or haveing girlfriends and what he likes and dislikes about girls. I would love to date him but he said he hates dating girls because the whole brake up process [i am self consience about asking guys out and he doesent know hoe much i like him] he allways flirts buy joking with me making me laugh and playing with my beads that i allways wear.

what do you think this means?

[i have a dance coming up and i would love to go with him....should i?]

2007-01-22 11:35:01 · 3 answers · asked by [undercover dinosaur] 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy that I really like and I have asked about him on here a lot. People tell me I need to make a move and so do a lot of my friends, what do I do? I understand the whole smile and eye contact thing, but how do I make a move?

2007-01-22 11:34:50 · 2 answers · asked by *Madison 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are getting a divorce. I am letting him have the house. The trouble with this is he cannot afford to make payments alone. He is going to move out of the house and stop making payments on it. This is going to ruin our credit. I am renting an apartment so I cannot afford to help and need all the money I can get too. He told me that they might garnish our wages if we do not pay. Is this true? Also, I have not gone to a lawyer yet to get the divorce process going. Do I need to hurry up and get my name off of everything in order for me to not be ruined or does that matter?

2007-01-22 11:34:03 · 12 answers · asked by Jessica T 2 in Marriage & Divorce

When a Boyfriend and his Girlfriend goes out for some fun.....why does they call it a "DATING" ???

I mean, It is not the only EARTHLY EVENT that follows a calenders.....

2007-01-22 11:33:56 · 9 answers · asked by naafraat 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 11:33:21 · 15 answers · asked by mia 1 in Singles & Dating

Well my neighbors are all older than me and have g/fs and are married and can't stop flirting with them ao getting naked at my window or just stupid stuff to get to me!! But i want a b/f my age and to stop b/f something really bad happens!! Please Help!!

2007-01-22 11:33:19 · 7 answers · asked by mandy 2 in Singles & Dating

I've recently heard an argument that concluded that two parents aren't a privilege but are a basic right. Admittedly there are curcumstances (death of a parent, mental instability, rape, etc...) where this is absolutely not going to happen. But in general do Americans (or whomever is reading this) in general see 2 parents as a right children should be granted, or does it get treated more as a privilege that those born in the right circumstances recieve (and no I don't mean that as a slam on one parent homes)?

2007-01-22 11:32:58 · 9 answers · asked by Stephen B 2 in Family

How do you flirt with a guy?

2007-01-22 11:32:11 · 12 answers · asked by bethany_8_5 2 in Singles & Dating

He is a very nice man. Pays for dinner and movies ect. The problem is the sex. He is not passionate. Just how important should sex be at this age? I have been alone a long time. Is companionship more important? I would like fireworks and all we have is a nice glow.

2007-01-22 11:31:59 · 26 answers · asked by grandmother of 5 2 in Singles & Dating