he has his own separate room, but i still cant picture it.....i cant imagine having sex with a person next room to us
am i wrong? he thinks that i am over exaggerating
2007-01-22 11:39:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
omg so over exaggerating..... turn the music up or something..what i used to do if my b/f roomie was home... or the roomie always had enough respect to go else where when he knew i was going to be over just to give us privacy...but seriously going to have to get over it if you want to get you some lol
2007-01-22 11:42:57 · answer #1 · answered by Lauren_Ann20 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hmm has he ever made love to you in public before or asked you to not wear any underpants and go dancing with him in a short dress? I mean that is very voyeuristic on his part....and so I will assume here that his real motive is to have his roommate join in at some point. That would put you in a touchy situation(no pun intended) ..But be prepared for this ...he might introduce it in some sly manner...and slowly get you to think it is ok...telling you to go ahead and scream out your climax..his roommate will not care ..or leaving the door just a-jar and claiming his roomy would never walk in ......and then the next thing you know his roommate will watch you ..or ask you if he can touch you while your making love ... and slowly in stages you'll be suckered into a threesome.
The guy has NO respect for you at all. NADA!!!
DITCH HIM!!!!!! Or if you like the way he thinks ..then marry the bum.
Your call.
2007-01-22 19:56:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not to be direct with you.... but you are over exaggerating. unless the roomate tends to enter suprisingly at times you should be fine. i once had sex with my girlfriend while my mom and 6 of her female friends were planning for her thirty year reunion just outside my room in the living room. but that was a long time ago. In the end its really up to you... if you dont feel comfortable then dont. but be open to the thought. I would be willing to bet that almost everyone has as some point in their life. and in the end.... it's only a roomate. not a parent or a sibling. what's the worst they could do or say?
2007-01-22 19:47:35 · answer #3 · answered by OEF 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, why does it make you so uncomfortable? If he is home you could always just be quiet so he wouldn't have to hear anything. Which would be the respectful thing to do anyway. But if it bothers you that much then just do it when the roommate is not there.
2007-01-22 19:43:57 · answer #4 · answered by lahaunna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Over Exaggerating ... close the door ... turn the music up ... and rock out ... if you still feel uncomfortable ... just wait tell the roommate is gone for the night and plan a sleep-over with your man ... lol ... !
2007-01-22 19:42:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
loosen up baby, it is no big deal, if you are that concerned just be quiet about it, you don't have to scream at the top of your lungs, and he wants to because then his roomates will be dying of jealousy. Make sure the door is locked though, don't want someone walking in on you.
2007-01-22 19:44:28 · answer #6 · answered by raspberryflavr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save your SEX for Marriage and for Someone THAT LOVES you "Rather than for a Quickie!"
All he wants is Free Sex and will Leave you as He has Others!
Thanks, RR
2007-01-22 19:46:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Big deal. Its part of living with roomies... I used to make my girls SCREAM so my roomies KNEW I was getting some....
2007-01-22 19:42:31 · answer #8 · answered by YDoncha_Blowme 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ya he is being a jerk he should understand i mean i would be worried about that to i mean what happens if he/she walks in on you to i mean come on that's a big deal
2007-01-22 19:43:54 · answer #9 · answered by Claire M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋