Family & Relationships - 22 January 2007

So, I decided to tell my boyfriend of three years that I have redirected my priorities and he is no longer one of them as he has not shown me that he truly wants to change. The problem is that we are vey much in love, but I want him to change, meanwhile I also want to be with him. "If it hurts so bad why does it feel so good?"

2007-01-22 11:31:50 · 13 answers · asked by Elizabeth 1 in Singles & Dating

A friend is having one and says its hard to explain

2007-01-22 11:31:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

So I like this girl a lot and am attracted to her. She likes me a bit, but isn't very attracted to me. She's coming over to my house for dinner in a week (just as a friend), so I was wondering which should I use: roofies or chloroform?

2007-01-22 11:31:12 · 3 answers · asked by George Zimmer 1 in Singles & Dating

I left home a couple of years ago but my younger brother is still living at home. We have always had what seemed to be the perfect family. Until around 6 months ago... my mum started having an affair. It's been out in the open for a couple of months and my dad has forgiven her and asked her not to leave. For a while it looked like things were going to be OK...
But just after christmas, my mum gave me a letter explaining how she feels she has married the wrong man and cannot carry on her life as it is, and wants to leave my dad. Then she moved out. She's been looking so ill lately and has lost around a stone. At the time I felt obliged to let her go without interfering, as it is not my place to judge my parents' actions and I don't as a rule advise people who don't ask for it.
A couple of weeks on & my dad is inconsolable. He used to be my pillar of strength, now he calls me up in tears. He wants me to persuade mum to come home. I can't refuse to help my poor dad -
What should I do?

2007-01-22 11:30:46 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Here's the deal.Me, my bf, and our friends are thinking about buying a cabin for our school breaks and move in when we're 18. The thing is they want me and my bf to share a room but I'm scared to think what he might do because it's only going to be us. So I don't know if he will leave me alone at night or he might try something. Should I be worried?Is it a good idea to still buy the cabin?What should I do?

2007-01-22 11:29:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and i are going tghrough a tough time and i dont know what to do. He found out that i was thinking about breaking up with him and he told this kid and that kid wrote a note to me saying that me and my boyfriend are over then i called him and he said that he still wanted to go out with me and when i asked he he liike paused for like a minute. what does that mean should i dump him?? HELP

2007-01-22 11:29:54 · 3 answers · asked by Ashlee 3 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend of 13 months is sick at least once a week, he has to be hospitalised many times (childhood cancer). we have been living together for 13 years and recently i feel very tired and stressed about the whole situation, should i stay out of guilt? we are both 25 yrs old. I love him but how come i feel like leaving all the time?

2007-01-22 11:29:48 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it bad that i havent kissed my boyfriend yet??? we've been going out for almost 3 month, and we havent kiss. this would be our first kiss in our lives (for obth of us) i dont know if that has anything to do with it.... but i am just wondering if it is bad that we havent kiss?? so is it???

2007-01-22 11:27:52 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know it has something to do with my self-esteem. after winter break i used to joke around with my bf saying that i was going to become shy around him like i was in the start of school. apparently, it was something not to jke around with, because i am more quiet and well so he says distant. I jusy started feeling different during witer break my self-esteem went rock- bottom because i recalled something an ex of mine said and did that brought my self-esteem down long ago. I thought about it and now, I see myself as well ugly and all those horrible things. I came back and i just won't seem to get all cuddly with my bf like i used to and i'm not always laughing like i used to. i used to be all happy when i was with him, now it's different. it's me, but i don't know how to fix it. i know i might be overreacting but everytime i try to eat i can't becoming paranoid that i might get fat. Now i even see my bf as enemy because i think neg of commens he make.i dont like how can i change?

2007-01-22 11:27:22 · 10 answers · asked by trapped 1 in Singles & Dating

its like they dont care about me. i feel sad and depressed cuz i feel like they don't care so much about me. i just got my report card and i dont want to show them cuz it got worse than the first time. i feel like they would not like me anymore. i feel like they'll look down on me like i cant do anything and im a disappointment. i try tho...they dont understand. i go to the best school in my county and its much more competition. they dont understand how much work and pressure i have on my shoulders. i cry a lot now. i cry at least 15 times a week from stress and pressure. i cant wait til its all over. they dont even know half the things i do. they dont even know that i learned to play the piano on my own. i used to be more open with them, but now i feel as tho they're not gonna care anymore. my lil brothers get more attention than me and i have to admit that i do get jealous sometimes. and when me and my brothers get into fights, they always take their side even when im right and

2007-01-22 11:27:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My boyfriend of 2 years recently dumped me. There was no real reason. I still talk to him and last time i did he said he still loves me but hes not in love with me right now, and would like to get back together later if he gets the feeling of he loves me back. Do i wait around? It there another girl? I am so confused I love him and i am willing to wait but for how long?

2007-01-22 11:27:02 · 8 answers · asked by Lauren 2 in Singles & Dating

I won a bet with my girlfriend and can't decided what i should have her do.

2007-01-22 11:26:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My question is WHY

2007-01-22 11:26:14 · 7 answers · asked by Some Dude 3 in Singles & Dating

My EX GF and I are trying to stay friends, we have a daughter so we will be in eachothers lives forever. But it hasn't even been that long and she already has a ne BF and him and her AND our daughter go out like one happy family. We shoudl be friends, but to all of those of you that have gone through it, has it ever worked?

2007-01-22 11:26:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-22 11:25:06 · 28 answers · asked by Basket-santa 6 in Singles & Dating

My husbands birthday (big 40) was coming up and he wanted to do something special so he went on a three month trek to Central America (he was so loving before he went and came back a different person) He returned in the May. The next two months were awful (changed pawords, guarded his mobile phone ) wouldn't talk to me and the physical side of things were pretty not existent. In the July his firm where sending on a assignment asand he took me out into the street said the marriage was going nowhere and it was over - He left. After pressure from family and friends he agreed to try and work things out but something was missing, he said he needed some space and went USA for a week alone to sort out feelings, he came back cold again and said hes emigrating to New Zealand. I then contacted solictor and she suggest counselling, at Xmas it was lovely with the famliy and friends but he was going on a wks trek to Thailand- he said he didn.t want to go He met her again and cold again

2007-01-22 11:25:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

she has threaten me many times with this stated that my boyfriend and i are in a commonlaw relationship which we both deny.

2007-01-22 11:24:57 · 7 answers · asked by ezzie40 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, this isnt another desperate message about what guys like in girls but, I have allways been interested so if you want can you tell me?

[thankies]

2007-01-22 11:24:55 · 4 answers · asked by [undercover dinosaur] 1 in Singles & Dating

I have two young kids. I let my mom move in with me just after my husband and I separated. I told her before she moved in that she could stay with me if she promised not to do drugs. (she has a history) After she was there for awhile I asked her to get a job because I was having trouble supporting her. I was just learning how to live with my two kids with one income. She kept telling me she was looking for a job and started coming home late. She was using my sons cell phone etc.... to make a LONG story short I found out she was using drugs, she never got a job, she stole from me, she was always asking for money and she was giving my sons cell phone number out to her junkie friends. I kicked her out in the best interest of my kids and my brother called me telling me what a horrible person I am. I don't think he has any right considering this had nothing to do with him. My dad keeps telling me to call him. I think he should call me. What do you think?

2007-01-22 11:24:21 · 27 answers · asked by netlee 2 in Family

i can not explain why but i like htis girl so much it hurts so all help will be greatly appreciated

alright the gurl claims to be gothic, but she is just a poser. she also claims to be anti-social but she is always talking to a new person every day. i've known her for 3 years, but she swears it's 4 years. she and i got along for about 1 1/2 and out of the blue she hates me. and during the time we got along she would flirt with me on occasion.and then she hated me and when i asked her about it. she said she just does.and all i have ever wanted with her was one date. and she says i messed up her life. all i have ever done was try to be her friend. i have heard from about 17 people she likes me,and 14 she liked me. and when i asked her about it she always starts a big argument with me. and then tell s the person who told me to tell me they were kidding around, or just messin with me. if anyone can help me

2007-01-22 11:23:47 · 14 answers · asked by Crazy Rich Mofo 1 in Singles & Dating

I believe women are cold fish. I have never seen a woman become aroused. They are just different from men. It is such a shame that women are frigid because if they wanted to, they could get male partners (like me for example) whenever their little hearts desire.

2007-01-22 11:23:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 11:23:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Like people that don't have a boyfriend and want some??

2007-01-22 11:22:46 · 1 answers · asked by mandy 2 in Singles & Dating

All boys no what i'm talking about..... and when u walk past a bigger girl than u super models in play boy moves etc.? Like and what if your so called girl friend all the sudden went fat? And u no you would dump her so guys why do u have to make bigger girls feel ugly?

2007-01-22 11:22:35 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and him broke last year in the Summer time,it didnt last because I said he was usin me for sex and of course he got mad and it was over.But when he wanted to go back wit me I said no .But also he older than me i'm 17 he's 21

2007-01-22 11:22:27 · 6 answers · asked by keoeva 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriends birthday is next week.

Im stuck on what to do for her.

I dont mind spending money but i want some ideas on cheap, romantic nights which will be special for us.

2007-01-22 11:21:51 · 10 answers · asked by William 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've known and been attracted to a girl for the last three years of my life and I can imagine no one else in my life. She has only become single this year, and I've expressed my feelings towards her BUT NEVER MADE A MOVE towards going out with her.

The problem is that she has interests in other guys at the same time, and often ignores me or even avoids me at times, but then she comes onto me again and ignores me again in what appears to be a vicious cycle.

How should I approach this situation?

2007-01-22 11:21:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In the morning what's the first thing you do???

2007-01-22 11:21:49 · 24 answers · asked by Basket-santa 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 11:21:42 · 9 answers · asked by hell 1 in Singles & Dating

Today I just found out that my husband is marry to someone else, I would not even know this if my cousin have not told me, so I call his phone and a girl answer and we start fussing. Here I am bout to go into the military and I am finding out this. I really want to get him in trouble because I just can't understand for the lif of me how can you get marry again? What should I do?

2007-01-22 11:21:36 · 17 answers · asked by star200252 2 in Marriage & Divorce