i can not explain why but i like htis girl so much it hurts so all help will be greatly appreciated
alright the gurl claims to be gothic, but she is just a poser. she also claims to be anti-social but she is always talking to a new person every day. i've known her for 3 years, but she swears it's 4 years. she and i got along for about 1 1/2 and out of the blue she hates me. and during the time we got along she would flirt with me on occasion.and then she hated me and when i asked her about it. she said she just does.and all i have ever wanted with her was one date. and she says i messed up her life. all i have ever done was try to be her friend. i have heard from about 17 people she likes me,and 14 she liked me. and when i asked her about it she always starts a big argument with me. and then tell s the person who told me to tell me they were kidding around, or just messin with me. if anyone can help me
2007-01-22 11:23:47 · 14 answers · asked by Crazy Rich Mofo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She does like you, but she is annoyed as hell that you have done nothing about it, so to try and cancel out the affection she has for you, she is trying to hate you and put you behind her.
What you need to do is be big and bold. You need to sweep her off her feet. First of all get a baby wipe and get all that stupid black and white make-up off her face, and then take hold of her, tell her you really like her, and always have, and that you've been a fool for not doing anything about it, and that you are now going to kiss her. And then kiss her. Just be sure to get that purple lipstick off you before your mum sees you ;-)
2007-01-22 11:37:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me like she is just liking the idea of playing around with your emotions. If she liked you, she would have giving you the time of day sooner than four years. Don't talk to her as much and talk to other girls. I am not saying make her jealous. She obviously doesn't want you to like her so allow her to see that you don't like her. If she really likes you, then she will get the idea and come to you. Just be yourself and not worry about this girl. Something will happen sooner or later.
2007-01-22 11:32:33 · answer #2 · answered by ~M*a*N*d*Y~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay hun what you need to do is too ignore her but do it in front of her if ya get what i mean lol like be totally interested in something in the distance or the cute chick next to ya when she's around and if for any reason she manages to make eye contact look down smile a little then look away with a grin she will be so confused she will have to talk to ya good luck hun!
2007-01-23 01:15:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
4get about her-shes weird. malajusted attitudes towards relationships r not only damaging4 both parties but are boring and hard work. A person must fall in love with u because u r u. Not because u r trying.
2007-01-22 11:34:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would try to talk to her 1 last time most s like when guys can be up front and confident.whats the worst that could happen! also shes probably just messin with your head. if she gets upset or whatever walk away and move on theirs probably tons of s that would like you!
2007-01-22 11:29:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you shouldn't try to "make" someone like you. Either they do or they don't. It depends on your personality and stuff. Anyway, this chick sounds either confused or controlling or just plain sick. I'd give her all the space she needs and find a real girl who might like you without all the drama and crap.
2007-01-22 11:29:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh dear.... sounds rather complicated!! I really don't know what to suggest... she obviously doesn't wanna talk about it so that's out the question.... no one else seems to know whats going on in her head hence the mixed answers from mutual friends so u cant ask them again.... umm.... basically as harsh as it sounds you're gonna have to just move on and find a girl that's worth your affections.
2007-01-22 11:29:48 · answer #7 · answered by Fay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls are weird like that it looks like she probably doesnt want a boyfriend right now either that or she is trying to avoid the ackwardness of the situation
2007-01-22 11:29:01 · answer #8 · answered by RuKuS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to find a new girl to ask out. This one doesn't sound like she is good for you at all. Good Luck.
2007-01-22 11:31:02 · answer #9 · answered by seblexie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seems like she is playing games,give her a taste of her own medicine.
2007-01-27 02:08:28 · answer #10 · answered by Ollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋