I've known and been attracted to a girl for the last three years of my life and I can imagine no one else in my life. She has only become single this year, and I've expressed my feelings towards her BUT NEVER MADE A MOVE towards going out with her.
The problem is that she has interests in other guys at the same time, and often ignores me or even avoids me at times, but then she comes onto me again and ignores me again in what appears to be a vicious cycle.
How should I approach this situation?
2007-01-22 11:21:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ASK HER OUT! She comes on to you and then backs off? That's because you're being a big chicken. Just bite the bullet, Man.
2007-01-22 11:25:18 · answer #1 · answered by Jaye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youre not in love - you only beleive you are. You lust for her, thats all...
Pretty simple solution really. Simply ignore her. Give her no more of your attention. If she is really into you and wants you, she will return. If she doesnt, good riddance.
I did the same thing six years ago. Got sick of being her "surrogate" boyfriend, so I told her that I was done and for her to leave and stop calling me. Within two weeks she was back and had gotten rid of the others. We are engaged now.
2007-01-22 11:27:01 · answer #2 · answered by YDoncha_Blowme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a tease or she's confused. Man up and ask her what the score is straight away. Don't play around if you really like her. She may be trying to see if you're serious and thinking something bad because you haven't yet made a move. Why haven't you made a move yet?
2007-01-22 11:26:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be kool about and ask her out, u never know. u have to give it a chance. she might be the one for u, and the ignoring thing, maybe shes a s confused about her feelings as u are.
2007-01-22 11:25:28 · answer #4 · answered by asmia-4-u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop focusing on her, and focus on yourself. The minute you start not showing interest that is the same minute she will become interest.
2007-01-22 11:26:11 · answer #5 · answered by Elizabeth 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her. You have nothing to lose. You may end up married and you may end up single, but the insanity will stop.
2007-01-22 11:25:25 · answer #6 · answered by answerblaster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds horrible. forget her. get someone else who is worth of your attention. or maybe she just doesn't know that you are interested. let her know
2007-01-22 11:24:55 · answer #7 · answered by Deesa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋