Family & Relationships - 22 January 2007

i 'm 12 yrs old gurl i almost had a relationship with my bf for 2 months i know he likes but he doesnt luv me it's okay with me,he knows i like him,actually i luv him i know he is mean & bad in school i mean he doesnt study alot but i still luv him after all,he smiles at me when he is in a good mood,some times he pretends he didnt see me he knows i die if i walked around him and he didnt look at me,so he do it and teez me! he like the gurls who wear tite clothes and put lip stick and makeup,i cant do that i wear normal clothes and i have a normal beauty also i dont put makeup,hello! i am only 12! that boy kills me what do i have to do to attract him to me with all those girls puting make up flirting with him ? (notice that i'm really shy to talk to him to not make him think i am sooooo in luv with him) help me..tell me what i can do to attract him without making over myself and without feeling bad of something 'lldo and blame myself for doing it later i met him in the sporting club.

2007-01-22 12:02:30 · 2 answers · asked by hosam m 1 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy at my gym, he's actuaaly a trainer there, and my problem, is the fact that I don't know if he's flirting with me or not.For instance, around christmas, he came up to me and asked me how my holidays and I told him it was okay, then he asked me, who did I spend it with.And then there was another occasion where he came up to me and told me I looked sad, and wanted to see me smile, and as I was leaving asked me when will I be back.I'm thinking , well maybe he's just being friendly, but then he told me to call him on his cell phone, in which I did, and he told me that he would love to be my friend, even if he seen me outside of the gym, and told me that if I ever wanted to go to a movie or hang out, to hit him up, and then he invited me to his bible study class!

2007-01-22 12:02:24 · 2 answers · asked by Brooke 1 in Singles & Dating

violations it gets me so mad! What sends you off the scale?

2007-01-22 12:02:16 · 9 answers · asked by Basket-santa 6 in Singles & Dating

I might be young, but there this boy im madley in love with, and yes in love. He liked me too but then my ex bf, his friend, introduced him to these HOTT girls from another town and hes completely foegotten about me. I know he still likes me, but i really wanto to get his attention. Now hes hot, with an amazing body, and im OK with and OK body. Am i not 'good enough' for him? What should I do? Oh, and hes also a somewhat friend, were in the same circle.

2007-01-22 12:01:59 · 6 answers · asked by Rhiannon F 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i like these 3 guys 2 i know like me and the other 1 is going out with my friend but he is not very crazy about her and i think he likes me!! the first guy is named hayden brown hair,hazel eyes but his parents have the wrong idea bout me the second guy is colby he is the one i am dating right now he is so sweet but brown hair,hazel eyes parents love me but scared of going any further that dates and the third guy is hudson brown hair,blue eyes, hhhhhhhooooottttttt, but not sure HE LIKES ME!!!

but just rember i dumped hayden for colby!

YIKES!

HELP!!
HELP!!
HELP!!
HELP!!

2007-01-22 12:01:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He had an affair. It ended, he cut all contact with the female. He allows me to have complete access to his phone, computer, email etc... I am still having a hard time letting myself trust again. What can I do to get past this?

2007-01-22 12:01:07 · 21 answers · asked by Sassy Pants 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this guy called drew and i dont no if he likes me so i thought i would try to impress him.Not by being someone else but other ways.Now i want answers from boys on how way they like girls to flirt at them.so BOYS u better help me out!!! lol

2007-01-22 12:01:04 · 4 answers · asked by zoe m 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently meet a woman, this was around a month ago so I cant say i know her THAT well yet. She is an amazing woman who i admire but really have not developed any form of feelings for. I mean, she is a beautiful woman, not to mention smart but i honestly don't feel that magical attraction towards her.

However, every time I find out that she has meet some man that she finds interesting, I burst with jealousy and anger! Why am I bursting with jealousy for a woman I don't feel anything for?

Is jealousy a sing that perhaps I care about her as more than a friend, or is it just a primitive territorial instinct kicking in?

Odd thing is, I never felt jealousy about a friend before.

2007-01-22 12:00:49 · 7 answers · asked by Joy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well i am 13 years and my boyfriend is 14 and i dont know what to give him...Any idea's...Please help me!!!

2007-01-22 12:00:22 · 9 answers · asked by lil dreamer 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

well his friend told me he likes me so i said ok cool and of coarse i like him so then his friend told me i need to aske him out so i said ok fine so then he went and asked out the guy i like and he said yes, but now my problem is that now what do i do cuz we have talked but not like a whole lot and i really want this to work so im not soo sure what i do now.

2007-01-22 12:00:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I used to really like a guy, he rejected me...but now i think he's feeling sorry? Like when i walk past him, he will go WAY out of his way to get away from me (lol alotta "ways")..i havnt talked to him or even showed any interest since 3 weeks ago tho..
I walked by him, and not thinking i sorta frowned to myself, and he noticed this..so he kept looking at me. i wasnt really thinking either so i was gonna end up brushin against him, but he tensed up!
he wont talk, but its just so weird like does he feel bad, or do i scare him off?
When i stand up at our table, i can feel his eyes BORE into me.
Everytime i sit to work on my project, he leaves for a while until i leave to do something..i mentally send him telepathic brain messages that say, "its okay u dont have to keep getting up and avoiding me, im over it, u can talk to me!"
He saw me in the media center, he goes from talking with friend all normal, to staring off in the opposite direction of me.
WHAT IN THE HECK IS HE DOING

2007-01-22 12:00:10 · 5 answers · asked by kat 3 in Singles & Dating

read my aboout me if you want more info

2007-01-22 11:59:45 · 11 answers · asked by the sun should burn out tommorow 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what happened to the morals of our grandparents?

2007-01-22 11:59:32 · 11 answers · asked by james w 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Does he get jealous if he see's another man with you?

2007-01-22 11:59:26 · 13 answers · asked by gloried 3 in Singles & Dating

We been marry for 8 years ,She complain I don't treat her with romance.She having an affair and tell me she in love with the guy.I don't take her out to dinner,We don't do anything
on the weekends.I explain to her why,she have an excuse not to pay the house bills(every 2 months).Then she take the kids and stay over her parents house for couple of weeks.I talk to the parent but it's like talking to the wall.Step-father don't want to be involve.The mother talks about her daughter unhappy.I tell the mother,we can do thing together but your daughter have take care her responsible.We went to marriage counseling.The counselor told us not to come back.my wife kept saying was I take him down for child support.
Now she left me,she mad as hell at me. I ask her why she mad at me .You are the one who left me.She tell me I'm not fighting for are.I tell her if he make you happy go with him.Then she say she afraid i might find someone esle.

2007-01-22 11:58:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He always picks on me, we somtimes have searious conversations, I've been to his house a couple times, he's called me, I talk to him on AIM and he always tells me and his friends that I like him, but I've never told him that! What should I do?


What I look like:
Dark brown hair right past my boob
REALLY small boobs
Thin
Pre-Wimbeldon tennis player
blue eyes

2007-01-22 11:58:01 · 8 answers · asked by Brenda R 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a so-called friend that I have worked with for about 7 years now. Not to long ago she did something to irritate me. I told her about it in a friendly way even though I was really bothered by it. Every since our relationship has been wierd. At first I didn't think anything about it, but the more time goes by the more I see she's really not liking me any more. She took down the card I gave her and she gave out pictures of her son and didn't give me one. She also is starting to act shity with me like keeping her back turned towards me and just letting it be known that she doesn't like me. I know that day that she offended me I was upset and I felt like slapping her but, shoot I feel like that towards my mom sometimes too and God knows I love her. It just really kind of hurts my feelings. She's acted like this before towards me but I thought we were above that. How should I get over this. I want to remove all my feeling that I have. It's hard though cause I work with her

2007-01-22 11:58:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I love my boyfriend to death we've been together for a while and he was my 1st. but now im in a affair I cant get out of I just dont know what to do becase i really dont want to hurt my boyfriend who i want to marry but i cant help but think theres more to experience what should I do ?

2007-01-22 11:57:54 · 12 answers · asked by tgurl 1 in Singles & Dating

my best friend had me and another girl sleep over. and we stayed up late and we accidently woke her dad up. he came in and yelled what the **** r u guys doin up at 1:00 in the morning?!?!?! he yanked her arm out of the room and brought her to the garage.. he slapped her.she came back into the room crying her eyes out.. after we gave her all the comfort we could she said she had to change. she got underwear out. strange? then i held her in my arms and tried to get her to calm down and stop breathing so hard.. she told me her ONLY slapped her.. but i think he may of sexually done somethinthing but idk all yet.. she also said when her dad walked out of the garage her MOM came in and just said go upstairs. She knew everything that happend.. but she didn't protect her.. EVERYONE in their family are scared..

Idk what to do because should i tell someone? this is the first time hes done something like this.. I NEED TO HELP her. i dont know who to tell the guidence councler? i have been =[

2007-01-22 11:57:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

and then leave to hang out with your hommies? I mean she wanted to suck so why should I stay afterwards??

2007-01-22 11:57:23 · 8 answers · asked by Slavemaker 1 in Singles & Dating

the queston is not on me but instead it's on my friend.
this guy asked a question, about how he should talk to this girl and the way he explained his situation and the girl.
it sounds just like my friend situation and problem!!!!!
should i tell her!!! should i tell the guy.
i'am sure its him because every thing he wrote, i remmber my friend telling me!!!!!
what should i do.
i cant leave him a comment, since his question is in voting!!!
so what do you think i should do!!!

2007-01-22 11:56:02 · 13 answers · asked by abbie j 1 in Singles & Dating

i like this boy but i dont know if he likes me my friend tells me not to give up but people have told me he doesnt like me but every time i go in his class he keeps on staring on me and each time i smile at him he smiles back can that be a signal that he likes me or how can i get him to like me because i really like him

2007-01-22 11:55:24 · 25 answers · asked by vivi 1 in Singles & Dating

well i asked her out and she said i'll think about it and then after a week her friends told me she said no. But after that whole thing she began to be really shy around me and we don't really talk anymore. she looks at me alot during class and turns away when i look. did she say no to hide that she liked me? also i got a friend to talk to her and she said she wanted to talk to me. i'm kinda confused now. i also noticed shes been trying to talk to me but is too shy.she also threw a ball up piece of paper at me then turned around quickly. i'm just not sure what to think anymore. should talk to her? how should i start the conversation?

2007-01-22 11:55:16 · 12 answers · asked by mugiwara luffy 2 in Singles & Dating

my parents were abusive emotionally and physcally, my dad has died, but my mum continues to manipulate me with inheritance, i am living away from her and haven't visited her for over 8 months, she try to knock on my door and calling my home every week, what is the best revenge to an abusive parent like her? i really hate her with all my heart, she has caused nothing but grief in my llife!

2007-01-22 11:55:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Okay so me and this guy i used to like used to be pretty good friends and now his hockey coach died...
Ever since a while we havent talked or anything and im really concerned about him because whenever i see him in school he
always looks well umm sad.
He doesnt even say hi to me and even worse... its like he cant even look me in the eye...

[[ps. yes this is the same guy from my previous questions]]
[[pps. its the guy i liked. ie past tense.]]
[[ppps. even if i dont like like him i still want to be friends with him]]

PLEASE HELP!!!

2007-01-22 11:54:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 11:54:33 · 15 answers · asked by Coalie 2 in Weddings

During the week...
A. no computer
B. no hanging out
c. can watch tv
Weekend
A. can hang out
B. Use the computer
C.tv

They wont let me use my ALIENWARE PC....It justs sits..
What should I do...so i can use my computer again?

2007-01-22 11:54:03 · 9 answers · asked by chet4pizza 1 in Family

2007-01-22 11:53:55 · 3 answers · asked by lara 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-22 11:53:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i hook up with this guy in my class...he told all his friends about it and now they are giveing me **** about it. so yea my friends think they are all just makeing it up but i am scared they are going ot find out it's true...so i am so lost here on what to even do i like this guy so much i hook up with him and now it's getting around the school....

2007-01-22 11:53:31 · 9 answers · asked by hot_noe_1235 2 in Singles & Dating