ok i hook up with this guy in my class...he told all his friends about it and now they are giveing me **** about it. so yea my friends think they are all just makeing it up but i am scared they are going ot find out it's true...so i am so lost here on what to even do i like this guy so much i hook up with him and now it's getting around the school....
2007-01-22 11:53:31 · 9 answers · asked by hot_noe_1235 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lies never helped anyone. If you lie and they find out the truth, they'll only give you more grief. However, your private life is none of their business and that's the attitude I would have about it.
2007-01-22 11:58:52 · answer #1 · answered by reandsmom77 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear, I can totally relate. Except in my case, I was the one that told people, even though he asked me not too. Eh, mutually agree to keep it secret or tell people. However, if you get on hooking up too often you'll get looked at like a slut.
There is nothing wrong with telling your best friends though.
2007-01-22 20:01:02 · answer #2 · answered by uhd0rableo8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just lie. he never gets proof that he ever slept with you. otherwise, you may get a terrible life in school, everytone will say your are slut and your friends leave you, and his friendslaugh at you.
he is a totally jerk, and you should not talk with him anymore. please be smart that you don't pick a guy that get a bad mouth or talk a lot. they love to tell friends they can sleep with many women and things. BE CAREFUL!!
2007-01-22 20:02:01 · answer #3 · answered by Tracy But 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't lie about it. I know it's hard to hear and harder to follow but don't do anything that you wouldn't openly admit to your friends that you did it. If you are embarrassed that you did it then it's probably best that you end it. But don't lie, because once you lie about one thing and it's found out, then they'll never believe you about others.
2007-01-22 19:56:57 · answer #4 · answered by blhenne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell everyone it's true, but that the guy's dick was the size of a peanut and smelled like cheese.
2007-01-22 19:59:20 · answer #5 · answered by lucyanddesi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to decide for yourself what is more important to you, your friendship with this guy or your friendship with everyone else. Although you should be able to have both.
2007-01-22 20:36:32 · answer #6 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should tell only your closest friend, one you know you can trust and let it pass. That was she/he can be there for you and help you out.
2007-01-22 19:58:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your business...Don't give in...you and the little dik r the only ones that know...so lie.....*** everyone else...
2007-01-22 19:58:06 · answer #8 · answered by eldiablo0731 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should tell him that his friends are making fun of you if he doesn't i'de break up with him.
2007-01-22 19:58:32 · answer #9 · answered by chrty_clark 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋