I have a so-called friend that I have worked with for about 7 years now. Not to long ago she did something to irritate me. I told her about it in a friendly way even though I was really bothered by it. Every since our relationship has been wierd. At first I didn't think anything about it, but the more time goes by the more I see she's really not liking me any more. She took down the card I gave her and she gave out pictures of her son and didn't give me one. She also is starting to act shity with me like keeping her back turned towards me and just letting it be known that she doesn't like me. I know that day that she offended me I was upset and I felt like slapping her but, shoot I feel like that towards my mom sometimes too and God knows I love her. It just really kind of hurts my feelings. She's acted like this before towards me but I thought we were above that. How should I get over this. I want to remove all my feeling that I have. It's hard though cause I work with her
2007-01-22 11:58:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, unfortunately when you work with other women, work is work and friends are for off time. You called your so called "friend" on something she did wrong to you. She wasn't big enough to accept it and now she's obviously pissed. You run this risk whenever you work with friends. Give her time to cool off and get over it. If it goes beyond that, talk with your supervisor and tell them its affecting work. They will either sit you both down and get it worked out or fire somebody. You feel bad because you said your peace and she didn't take it well. She obviously didn't hold your friendship with much regard if this is coming between you. Move on.
2007-01-22 12:07:36 · answer #1 · answered by msjinx39 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Confront her. It's the only way to resove anything and keep a healthy workplace. Don't be accusing, just ask her what's up. If she is truly a friend she will open up, if not, then let it go and know that it's not you. It's probably something with her. Good luck!
2007-01-22 12:02:36 · answer #2 · answered by atli00 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She irritated you,then you went postal on her.And now she doesn't like you. So what's your point? Grow-up & get over it.
2007-01-22 12:05:08 · answer #3 · answered by boatworker 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
How old are you, why do people use stupid terms like BFF.
2007-01-22 12:01:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋