well i asked her out and she said i'll think about it and then after a week her friends told me she said no. But after that whole thing she began to be really shy around me and we don't really talk anymore. she looks at me alot during class and turns away when i look. did she say no to hide that she liked me? also i got a friend to talk to her and she said she wanted to talk to me. i'm kinda confused now. i also noticed shes been trying to talk to me but is too shy.she also threw a ball up piece of paper at me then turned around quickly. i'm just not sure what to think anymore. should talk to her? how should i start the conversation?
2007-01-22 11:55:16 · 12 answers · asked by mugiwara luffy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just get her alone and say "What's up". ask her why she didn't want to go out. Upfront and honest is the best measure on your part.
2007-01-22 11:58:59 · answer #1 · answered by atli00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, that old situation. A girl that complex will be a mess and i recommend ignoring her and getting a girl that knows what she wants.
Ok, wisdom is useless in these things, so you want THAT girl that turned you down...this is how it's done:
- Get her phone number.
- Call her privately, maybe even don't identify yourself in the first call, but say you are someone she knows and don't say anything rude, just explore and find out if she is interested or not.
- On the second or third phonecall direct her to somewhere where you can talk privately.
- Make sure you get there first so she is the one that has to walk up to you...otherwise you have to brake the ice.
- When she asks you what you want, repet your question above and I am sure you will get your answer.
2007-01-22 20:03:00 · answer #2 · answered by Profesor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As I've stated before. If shes going to use her FRIENDS to tell you whats going on, you need to either forget it, or you go to her and make HER say it. Honestly, it sounds like she may just be playing games. But I can't say for sure, seeing how I don't even know this person. All in all though, if shes too "shy" to come to you, go to her. Thats the only REAL way to find out whats going on.
2007-01-22 20:00:21 · answer #3 · answered by sunangel2888 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oooooooh I am sooooooooooooo sorry. By what you are telling me she really DOESN'T like you. She wants to be your friend and feels REALLY VERY BAD about turning you down. She likes you as a friend and doesn't want to hurt your feelings. You wants to tell you WHY she isn't interested, but is AFRAID to hurt you.
This is obvious to me by what you told me. There's no other reason for this behavior.
2007-01-22 20:01:40 · answer #4 · answered by _Lara_Bell_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is probably just as shy as you and you probably shocked he when you asked her out. some girls aren't used to a guys straight forward approach. we usually like it when we "talk" first. you should just try to get to know each other then if she comes around ask again.
2007-01-22 20:03:01 · answer #5 · answered by tgurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably didn't want to turn ya down but she mite want to hide the fact that she likes you. there are lots of possibilities but there's only one explanation and thats when you go up and ask her why she turned you down and why she's doing all of those things that she's doing. us girls have a lot of reasons why we do things so thats why guys are supposed to ask us why and get to know us better.
BEST OF LUCK TO YA!!!
XOXOXO
2007-01-22 20:04:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a little girl playing games. Why not go up to her and speak with her? Tell her you would appreciate it if she would speak to you and not through her friends.
2007-01-22 20:03:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes waiting for you to talk to her. She probably wants to go back out with u cause she realized she made a mistake.
2007-01-22 19:58:23 · answer #8 · answered by Jojo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, talk to her. She would like that. She probably realized she liked you and it would probably make her feel better if you talked to her to show that you are still interseted. Hope i helped!
2007-01-22 20:02:39 · answer #9 · answered by aLex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
[aww] she may just be embaressed or wanted to talk to you herself go talk to her be nice and sweet and she may fall right in your hands
[hope it works!]
2007-01-22 20:06:46 · answer #10 · answered by [undercover dinosaur] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋