Help.. My Bff is abused..?

Question

my best friend had me and another girl sleep over. and we stayed up late and we accidently woke her dad up. he came in and yelled what the **** r u guys doin up at 1:00 in the morning?!?!?! he yanked her arm out of the room and brought her to the garage.. he slapped her.she came back into the room crying her eyes out.. after we gave her all the comfort we could she said she had to change. she got underwear out. strange? then i held her in my arms and tried to get her to calm down and stop breathing so hard.. she told me her ONLY slapped her.. but i think he may of sexually done somethinthing but idk all yet.. she also said when her dad walked out of the garage her MOM came in and just said go upstairs. She knew everything that happend.. but she didn't protect her.. EVERYONE in their family are scared..

Idk what to do because should i tell someone? this is the first time hes done something like this.. I NEED TO HELP her. i dont know who to tell the guidence councler? i have been =[

Answer 1

OMG AM SO SORRY FOR YOU FRIEND, YOU NEED TO CALL THE POLICE, TALK TO SOME ONE AND TELL WHAT HAPPEND, BECAUSE IS NOT A NORMAL REACTION WHAT HER DAD DID TO HER.

GOOD LUCK

Answer 2

sweetheart, I'm so sorry about what's going on with your best friend. and I feel really bad for you too. I know that your friend is scared, and you're scared for her. her dad sounds like a monster, and she doesn't need to be living with him or a mother who won't protect her.
it would be best to talk to your parents first, if you can. and just let them know everything you saw and heard, and everything that you thought happened but didn't see. and if you can't tell your parents about all of this, tell your school nurse or counselor, or even a trusted teacher. you could even call the police department and tell them that your friend is being abused, and is in danger. just make sure that you tell someone who will help and get her out of that house. and the sooner the better. and sweetie, don't be afraid to tell. it is the right thing to do. you could save your friends life. and please, for your own safety, do not go over to your friends house ever again. her dad is a child abuser, and there's no telling what he might do to you. he knows that you saw him abuse her, and now he might try and do the same thing to you. so please do not go anywhere near that house. and tell someone now, your friend needs you like never before.
I will keep you and your best friend in my prayers.

Answer 3

You need to alert a guidance counselor at school to alert the local authorities or you could do it yourself. I would talk to your friend though and encourage her to tell you what exactly happened. It won't do as much good if the police come to the house, ask her what happened, and she says that nothing did. She's the one possibly being abused after all, and is therefore the main witness. Many abusers get off because the person they're abusing is too afraid to stand up to them. If she truly is being abused then you need to be the good friend you are and encourage her to do the right thing and support her.

Answer 4

listen up honey u have to try as much as possible to keep ur friend away from her dad adn if u can first ask her if u can tell ur parents and then ask if ur parents can call a social security number to help ur friend cause if u really care about ur friend u have to give her help even if she doesnt want it and she thinks hse can make it on her own u have to tell someone or get her to tell someone about it or she is gonna end up hurt ok darling and if u need anymore help just contact me ok thx bye

Answer 5

u need to get that girl some help. she may be mad and upset at first for u being in her business but she will thank u later for doing so

Answer 6

Call the police.
Sounds like this guy is an a sshole.