Basically ive made the realization it will never work out, but there was a time when it did. Im curious as to what the sudden change was. I know i must have done something wrong, but dont see why we cant be normal again. She likes the black guys, and from what i gathered likes to be treated wrong as well.
Maybe if i ask her out, cheat on her with all her friends, and tell her, than she'll like me more. haha, i donno, im just going by what the ex-bf did to her, and they still like each other!!!. dumb people get along with dumb people i suppose hmm...
2007-01-22 11:41:59 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
White woman that go with black men are necessarily a waste of atmosphere. Find yourself a descent girl and give up on that piece of trash.Soon enough she will find that the *** only wants her as long as she has a bank account.
2007-01-22 11:46:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Are you saying that blacks guys treat their women poorly, cheat on them, and are "dumb"? You need to be more careful how you phrase your statements here, because I'm sure you don't mean to make any racist generalization like that... you just mean the *particular* guys she's interested in happen to be like that.
In any case, yes, this was a lost cause from the start. If she has self-esteem issues that cause her to consistently pursue guys who mistreat her, then she probably would not have be able to maintain a relationship with an honest guy. You're better off finding a woman with better priorities.
2007-01-22 11:52:40 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make a girl change who she likes. I doubt she likes getting cheated on but maybe she likes the thug appeal that comes with many younger black guys. Either way, if thats what she is into right now then just move on and find another girl.
2007-01-22 11:46:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has nothing to do with black guys or with her preference to what race she dates. If this girl likes to be treated wrong she has self esteem issues. Don't believe the hype that ALL black guys mistreat, abuse and cheat on their women.
Men that mistreat women come in all colors and shades. You're focusing on the race of the guy she's with now and he sounds like a jerk regardless of race. Be yourself and be grateful you got away from this loser.
2007-01-22 11:47:40 · answer #4 · answered by Alaska Angela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hearts change, it doesn’t mean if she likes black guys that that is all that she is into. Maybe she doesn’t know what she is missing. Maybe she has never been treated well and so if you ask her out and treat her well she will appreciated more + the x bf thing is just physical connection that will soon faith away when she discovers you ;)
2007-01-22 11:48:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are some GIRLS/WOMEN, who dont know their true value and allow themselves to be treated as such. Honestly if this girl is the what you claim...
RUN FOR THE HILLS=DISASTER WAITING TO HAPPEN
Hope you arent one of the guys that wants what he seemingly cant have.
On another note... All black guys DONT treat women bad. This girl is attracted to a certain type of guy whom happens to be black and treats her badly=thats the point
Your better than that, she is drama
2007-01-22 11:47:55 · answer #6 · answered by slender1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems as though your hurt, and you're stereotyping all black guys. If she likes getting treated poorly maybe you should reevaluate your choice in women. If she brings out this type of negative behavior in you and she's not even dating you imagine how you'll act if you do go out with her. Look for someone who accentuates your good qualities and brings out the best in you.
2007-01-22 11:50:30 · answer #7 · answered by Ron P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing to do exept to just relax , be ur self and let the girl try to like u!! Then ask her out if she says no then forget her an find somebody else!
2007-01-22 11:45:36 · answer #8 · answered by Jane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK.they are African Americans.They sometimes are cuter that white boys sometimes.Sorry, cant help it.Who is hotter you or him?make a move.Buy her flowers.I promise that will work if not she is really dumb.When my bf buys me flower and has them taken to me at school I melt.If you do it, it might be the same and she might realize how much she likes you more!!!
2007-01-22 11:50:52 · answer #9 · answered by Kage 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what??? of course not if u do that shell think u r a jerk just invite her out b sweet or if she likes guys to treat her wrong give her a french kiss we girls love that so do it
2007-01-22 11:51:22 · answer #10 · answered by Dalia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋