Family & Relationships - 21 January 2007

i have a friend which i made last year,she is innocent and sometimes naives she is so easy to take advantage of, but i never did cause i think of her as a sis,her past best friend did.But now she is hanging out with this really gheeto grl who is changing my best f., and is also taking advantage of her. so i started liking this boy and my best friend who was influenced by her new gheeto friend was telling me that no i cant go out with him,cause i cant get him and beeing really mean when she is around.i noe sometimes i used to talk non stop bout him, because my best friend would want to noe wats goin on,and recently she is hanging out with that grl so much, that she is doin bad in school,and does things that arent really good. so the other day the guy that i liked made a move on me,so thing that my bf would like to hear bout it i call her,big mistake she snapped on me and then last nite she made her gheeto friend tell me that evry1 is annoyed by me and my crush.what should i do? help!

2007-01-21 01:37:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I met this girl online about a year and a half ago, we spent hours talking over the phone about our past,our secrets, things that you dont tell anyone and I totally am in love with her. I can't stop thinking about her
I am having this feeling for someone whom actually I've never met in one hand I feel this is so pure becaus there is no sexuality attraction between us as of now, and feel so weired becaus all my life I was first attracted to someone sexually then mentally.
has any one there has this kinda experience and how unusual it is

2007-01-21 01:37:43 · 11 answers · asked by yossarian 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 01:36:10 · 5 answers · asked by My boo 1 in Singles & Dating

we broke up about a month ago now. And ever since, we're still hanging out like friends do. we go shopping together, we watch movies together, we meet for dinner and hang out with common friends. We broke up in mutual terms, both wanting to give each other freedom to try experiencedifferent things/feelings. But i still feel deeply attatched to him. the begining was hell for me and i was really devastated but he was mostly there for me to console and advice me. He wants me to move on as well. After a few weeks, i began feeling better, and had more postiive thinking and really thought that the both of us might just be able to stay as best friends. But deep inside of me i really want him back badly. i dunno what to do. I've been doing okay past few days but im feeling horrible today. im lost and upset. someone please advice me on something please.
i wonder if we could ever get back together again. we were really good together before the break, we just wanted a break from any relationshi

2007-01-21 01:34:51 · 2 answers · asked by Mimi P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, well now. My girlfriend-who I love very much-got kind of mad at me. It's because of a few things, we were going to go to a school dance, and for some reason the school won't let her come just because she goes to a different school. So there was some bad news to give her. And the next day my mom and dad would not let me go with her and her friends to the mall and movies...so there was some more bad news. And this was like the 3rd time that our plans have been ruined because of my mom and dad randomly telling me I couldn't do anything.
So now...she says that she doesn't get excited or happy whenever I am around cause she thinks I'll have more bad news. And my mom was pretty rude to her and it lead to her talking to her friends about breaking up with me...which I don't want to happen! But she decided against it...which i am glad. This has just been a bad week. But she feels it might get worse..
I dont know what I'd ever do without her...so please...help me with a little advice?

2007-01-21 01:34:29 · 12 answers · asked by destroyerofchaos 2 in Singles & Dating

doing my washing up, but does everyone elses. Hes a closet homosexual and im wondering if i shud ignore him and cut him out of our flat or resolve it but i know im not in the wrong. he used to be nice to me but ever since i started using his stuff and not inviting him out wit us cos he blatantly wouldnt fit in hes changed.

2007-01-21 01:34:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Is our fate already written?..isnt it we decide and create our own life?

2007-01-21 01:33:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 30 yr old. pretty, sweet, and professional.
I met this guy one week ago, the same age as me, several months older, he seems very nice, we had lots of fun together.
That night we went his home and were on his bed, cuddled a lot, french kissed a lot.But I still felt that I was not ready for sex yet.
He was also being very patient and nice, saying that we will only do that when I am ready.
But I am confused, shall I have sex with him? or since I waited so long, maybe I should wait a bit longer, and just make love after marriage?
Thanks for answering.

2007-01-21 01:33:19 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am now single after 18+ years of marrage. She was my first love (high school sweetheart), so all my experience in dating was with her. For the most part I am shy and introverted.

2007-01-21 01:32:26 · 5 answers · asked by Tom S 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 01:32:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

This was caused by a nasty divorce.Her mother ran off and got married like 3 more times,leaving my daughter in custody of her grandparents.I tried for custody twice,bankrupting myself in the process.I finally gave up and left her alone,as she was brainwashed into believing all these bad things about me.I miss her terrible.I have seen her picture on the internet,as she is now president of the young republicans club.I have read articles she has written online,and she is scary smart.Like Ann Coulter.This makes me even more scared to contact her.Helpppppp

2007-01-21 01:31:41 · 16 answers · asked by packerman 2 in Family

My mate and I are constantly arguing, upset with each other, and steadily growing further apart. The only time we manage to be cool with each other is when our friends are around. What does all of this mean?

2007-01-21 01:29:02 · 20 answers · asked by mslilbit24 2 in Singles & Dating

what i am talking about is that i have been to several funerals for indigent people,,,their body is carried by four strangers who did not even know their name.. that is so sad in a land of plenty. i would like to establish a trust for this. i have 20 acers of ground i would put this in the trust also. then build this cementary for all poor people.. where when they die and need it, there will be someonethere to take care of them on their last earthly trip. to bury them with honor and diginty..... to treat them just like your mother or father or brother or sister,,, and it will never cost anyone a dime... all free... i already have the money for this,,
and no i will not let the local gov. have a hand in this

2007-01-21 01:28:31 · 11 answers · asked by RED WHITE AND BLUE 4 in Family

have HP or Ketchup in my bacon sandwich...or both???

of course any other suggestions are welcome...;0)

2007-01-21 01:28:11 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My daughter is 21, goes to college and lives at home. On the weekends, she has been staying overnight at a friend's house. She claims it's just easier then coming home very late at night or early morning (3:30 am) since she is always the driver. My husband is really giving her a hard time and I think that he is over reacting. I know who she is with, she calls and comes home for school and work. Last semester she had a 3.4 average. Does anyone else think he is over reacting? Should we be suspicious that she is sleeping out every weekend? She does not have a boyfriend.

2007-01-21 01:25:19 · 19 answers · asked by gummi90 1 in Family

I often hear people say that people with different personalities are attracted to each other, I`d say it isn`t always true.What`s your opinion?

2007-01-21 01:24:51 · 10 answers · asked by terracotta 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 01:23:32 · 3 answers · asked by Ali H 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 01:22:17 · 16 answers · asked by Pushkar 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Priyanka_manh@yahoo.co.in

2007-01-21 01:20:21 · 12 answers · asked by Priyanka M 3 in Friends

dont cheat
just pause for a while and now type in what u are thinking
anything goes here...

just let it out....it will make u feel better
it can be good or bad
feel free my friends

2007-01-21 01:19:53 · 15 answers · asked by 00_tyradjh_00 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have a crush on this guy since june last yr and we've been exchanging a few mails every now and then..it's like an on and off basis cause he's a really busy guy..he's working in the military now and it's been a month since we last exchanged mails..since the day i told him i'll be going to london,he didn't reply my mail since then and i miss him and wanna keep in touch with him so i've decided to send him a mail telling me i wanna keep in contact with him and i'll leave him with my number,asking me to give me a ring or drop me a msg when he's free..do you think i'm doing the right thing or will he think i'm irritating? any better suggestions??

2007-01-21 01:18:37 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 01:18:18 · 6 answers · asked by urdirtylittlesecret 1 in Singles & Dating

My sister is 15 years old. She's a great kid with a great heart. She has a friend whom i would say is attractive for 15 years old. Mind you I'm 18 and would never get involved with someone that young. I've know my sister's friend for about 2 years now she's a nice girl i never thought anything could be wrong with her. Well my sister and I are very close. My sister came up to me yesterday telling me that her best friend's step father was forcing her best friend to do sexual things with him...like giving him oral etc. She told me how her friend would describe waking up in the middle of the night to her father having his penis inside of her. I asked my sister why her friend never said anything and she told me it was because her mother had already been through 4 divorces with men and the girl didn't want to hurt her mother anymore. My sister told me that her friend now locks her door at night but the father had done it since she was 10. Should i step in and get involved? Any suggestions?

2007-01-21 01:16:57 · 28 answers · asked by Mike T 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a friend and everyone thinks he likes me but I don't feel that way about him. I am friends with his best friend, his sisters and him but everyone keeps asking us if we are going out. He waits for me to go to my locker and when I go to my locker he waits for me to go to my seventh period. I am so confused. My friend also has a gf but they never show any affection and when we are a group of friends he just keeps looking at me. I need a bunch of help because I am just so puzzeled. When I told him I went out with this guy, he just was giving me a hard time and kept calling me and saying "Why would you do that??" and stuff like that. I don't understand, he shouldn't be in control of my dating life. He knows all my classes and has them memorized and I don't know how that is. I guess he talks to people I know. It is extremely weird. Please help me. No sexual or perverted comments.

2007-01-21 01:15:40 · 4 answers · asked by Michelle 5 in Friends

i mean how does that work...it just doesnt make any sense really...what would you do to improve or rectify this strange imbalance???...;0)

2007-01-21 01:15:17 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a whole bunch of girls like to put on fronts for guys and they turn out to sluts and other unmetionables

2007-01-21 01:13:48 · 11 answers · asked by urdirtylittlesecret 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 01:12:39 · 19 answers · asked by Rebel 2 in Family

single man with unusual name seeking single straight woman for a friendship view relationship,

2007-01-21 01:12:34 · 1 answers · asked by crossdresser 1 in Singles & Dating

If the guy really loves the woman, and they can do things like french kissiing, cuddling, holding hands, etc.
But without sex. how long can this guy wait and not lose his patience?
PS: the guy is 30 yr, and so is the woman.

2007-01-21 01:10:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i tried out a boy who is 15 and im 18 and i dont no where to take him on dates except movies

2007-01-21 01:10:42 · 14 answers · asked by urdirtylittlesecret 1 in Singles & Dating