I met this girl online about a year and a half ago, we spent hours talking over the phone about our past,our secrets, things that you dont tell anyone and I totally am in love with her. I can't stop thinking about her
I am having this feeling for someone whom actually I've never met in one hand I feel this is so pure becaus there is no sexuality attraction between us as of now, and feel so weired becaus all my life I was first attracted to someone sexually then mentally.
has any one there has this kinda experience and how unusual it is
2007-01-21 01:37:43 · 11 answers · asked by yossarian 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well despite what others are saying, you can love someone online. I am not sure about being IN love, to me that you have to meet to achieve that. But what has happened is you have grown to know the person from the inside out. you have gone to the core of you each of you are, and not go from the outside in. To many times that is what happens with relationships and they never really get to know the other person. could be why divorce rate is so high. You love the person for who and what they are.
I think it can work.. let at arranged marriages.. they work. Good luck to you and meet see if the relationship and grow .
2007-01-21 01:49:06 · answer #1 · answered by lynda 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dont listen to the people who tell you it cant happen, because it can. Im an "online success story". I met a woman online, we started IMing, then phone calls, then constant phone calls ,until it reached the point where I had to meet her. I flew 900 miles to meet her, and it was wonderful. It took some adjustments to both our lives, and not a small amount of trouble and money on both our parts, but less than a year after we met online, she moved halfway across the country to be with me. We lived together for a little over 6 months, and we were married in December 2006. I have never been so happy in my entire life.
And before anyone says "it can never happen to me", I thought the same thing. Ive been online for over 10 years, and in that time, I had never met anyone who made me feel the way she does.
What does it matter *where* you meet the one for you? Why should anyone care how you meet, as long as you do? Her and I are "normal" people. Im in my thirties, and so is she, we both have kids and lives (and exes), neither of us had ever even *considered* doing something like this, and honestly we looked at people who did as, well, weird. But it happened anyway.
My advice to you is this: if you think you love this woman, meet her. Take the time to go to where she is and meet in person. Find out if what you have is as strong physically as it is mentally. That is the only way you'll ever know. But dont think it cant happen. It can. It *can* work, if she is truly the woman for you.
Dont let a chance at true happiness pass you by because of what other people say.
2007-01-21 02:02:09 · answer #2 · answered by Rich F 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-07 23:51:44 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't fall in love with my fiance online, but we did meet online. We e-mailed for months before we first spoke on the phone, and when we did speak on the phone it was even better. Everything clicked just as it did in our e-mails. We met for the first time about six months after meeting online and things were still as great as they were online. We made a point of seeing eachother as often as possible (about every other weekend) and things developed into love. I know for a fact that he is the one for me and he feels the exact same way. It may be unusual, but it does happen. We are getting married in August. I do suggest you take this on a personal level and actually meet. That is really important. Good luck.
2007-01-21 01:45:00 · answer #4 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really think you should be careful,take it slow, go cautious into this relationship. I had a friend who did this to find out the lies and deception after wards.My friend didn't learn by one mistake, continued until he lost everything.To this day my friend wonders how he could be so taken in. It's easy, they find your weak points then zero in, pretending all along.I"m not saying this will happen in your case,just be careful.Good Luck.I hope I'm wrong about this.
2007-01-21 01:49:51 · answer #5 · answered by chilly bean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't like that much, but some people get happy with that and find the right person. That's OK. Oh well, I wish you good luck.
2007-01-21 01:41:47 · answer #6 · answered by cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happens very frequently.you fall in love with the thoughts of the person.
2007-01-21 01:44:24 · answer #7 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with peskylisa
2007-01-21 01:41:34 · answer #8 · answered by dreamer456 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful. No one is as he or she appears
2007-01-21 01:40:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The ROCK says.........be careful son!
2007-01-21 01:43:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋