Family & Relationships - 21 January 2007

Ok say that u like this boy and u kno that he likes u but he will not ask u out. Your dad is his preacher and he goes to your school. i like him for all the right reasons. I really wont to go out with him but he askes u out and then he brakes up with u in a week and goes out with your friend. now this qustion has 2 qustions what should i do with my friend that is going out with him and what should i do with the boy that i love?

2007-01-21 02:46:28 · 12 answers · asked by george lover 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married 4 seven years, my husand looks for every chance to leave, there is no consecutive weekend that i can remember that he spent with me. He drinks and always says he needs time out. I have found that he enjoys looking at porn on the internet. When he is at home , if he is not asleep, he is on the internet or playing games. I can not remember a time were we could sit with out any distructions and have a meaningless conversation. He claims that he loves me , but i have lost hope. I cant stand it when he has a drink as that seems as an exscuse for him to leave. He often comes back early hours of the morning or a day later.He also claims that he likes the company of guys and been at a bar or socializing, Is he just with me for convenience as we have 4 kids or is he just a guy that enjoys parting. I dont drink could that also be a reason he finds drinking company.
I am lonely and temptered to move on.

2007-01-21 02:46:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

while i was at work my wife packed up and left with my kids. we've been having issues and decided to separate and divorce after the school year was over for the kids which is in June. We have 4 kids and we agreed that the boys would remain with me. This is the second time in 3 months that she has done this. I don't understand how a mother can create so much instability for her children without good cause. I'm not a saint I will admit that but I have never abused her so I'm not understanding her need to flee and abandon the household especially when we have already decided to separate once the kids were finished with school. Can she take my kids like this? Is there anything I can do to make her bring my kids back to me? She will not even tell me where she is taking them. Three months ago she fleed to CT and we live in GA. I have not a clue of what her intentions are but I just want my kids back. Any advice???

2007-01-21 02:45:39 · 12 answers · asked by poundcake1111 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-21 02:45:16 · 23 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

He has him every other week and the whole time he is with him its non stop play week. I don't even come into the picture. His son controls his life and he doesn't even see what it is doing to our relationship. He won't answer any of my calls during their visitation. Son listens to all of our conversations, reads his email, reads his text messages. Son doesnt have friends, activities or a life other than being in control of making his Dad a puppet. Also, I have a son 2 years older than his son. My son is the bad kid and he had nothing to do with him from the first day that we met. Of course his son is the "Kid of the Year"...Should I dump this guy?

2007-01-21 02:45:05 · 25 answers · asked by turk6harley 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-21 02:44:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just lost my mother last month and at first my boyfriend and i were having problems and they got worst for a couple of days. But anyway there is this guy that i have been talking too but we dont have sex but we slept together for two nights straight. I dont like him like a sex buddy just someone to be with untill my boyfriend comes home. My question is since it is just harmless is it considered cheating even though we are not having sex.

2007-01-21 02:44:54 · 7 answers · asked by babygyrlellison 1 in Singles & Dating

i was abuse from my step mom when i was growing up and what happens to some one if they wasnt showed the love they needed when they were a baby ?

2007-01-21 02:44:45 · 7 answers · asked by vholshu72 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i know the minute i get a check i run out and spend spend spend...how do you suggest saving? what will motivate me? im only 18, do you think i should just continue shopping for a few more years?

2007-01-21 02:43:50 · 12 answers · asked by Ash 4 in Singles & Dating

Granted I look like I'm only 16 (I'm actually 20) but still, I dont get it. I'm 5'8" (mostly legs), slender/athletic build, blonde with dark brown eyes, and recently started modeling. (I don't consider myself extremely attractive, but I think I'm kinda pretty.) I'm really into cars (majoring in automotive design.) but the guys never really talk to me. And when it comes to dating- I'm usually not considered... (I dont think... I'm typically ignored, or asked asked about the status of my roomates.)

Does this mean I have a really bad personality or am doing something wrong?

2007-01-21 02:43:45 · 23 answers · asked by Nikki 1 in Singles & Dating

I fancy this one gal but cannot express my feelings i am too shy to say that word love what should i do.

2007-01-21 02:43:05 · 6 answers · asked by ERICM 1 in Friends

what do i have to do when he wants to look for another girl.. ? He is pretending like single at every daiting sites.. but he doesn't think I know about that.. he is keep hiding.. we married only 3months ago.. and.. whenever he mad , he always talks about divorce.. that's really hurt.. but I can't divorce him because i love him too much.. what do i have to do..

2007-01-21 02:42:47 · 14 answers · asked by saysomething 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-21 02:42:10 · 10 answers · asked by lordjoe23 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 02:42:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a problem: I grew up with my best friend, and when we were kids, we used to roleplay with fictional characters we made up together. My problem is that although I'm well into my thirties now and my girlfriend and I rarely talk anymore, I am still obsessed with her and our old characters. When I'm at work, I imagine what the characters would do or say in response to a situation. I tried getting a life: keeping busy, volunteering, doing things to keep my mind off of her. It helps take my mind off of her for a while, but I always think of her. What should I do? Any response is appriciated.
Thanks!

2007-01-21 02:41:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I broke up with my gf about 9 months ago and haven't been with anyone since; no one really has caught my attention with the exception of this one girl who I used to see out and about occassionally. Really pretty, and appears to be really shy, courteous. A hotty for sure but I used to see her around with this other person so I thought ok she's with someone. For the very first days of seeing each other, she's made attempts to talk to me, everytime I look in her direction she is looking at me , and has this sparkle in her eye , she made an attempt to come round the club and talk to me once put one foot on the platform looked at me, and then walked away. I found out later that she was married. I really like her, I know she knows that. It feels like their is romantic stuff there without us really saying anything to each other.

I don't think she is happy - she is one of those people who grew up in her marriage. I know I may seem like a jerk, but I can't go there

2007-01-21 02:40:44 · 10 answers · asked by Piampri 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok me and my man have been together for 4 years and we have a son together. We both are very much in love but the other day my boyfriend decided to let me know that he dosent think i am ready to get married. He says that I get jealous when some other girls are wanting to get with him and that it isnt right. Can someone please explain to me why Im not supposed to get jealous when some girl goes up to my boyfriend and tells him that he has a nice *** and asks for his number? I know im ready for marriage but he has doubts. How do I show him that I'm ready? Can someone please help!

2007-01-21 02:40:15 · 10 answers · asked by proudmommie120504 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've known this guy 4 months and seen him 4 times.He lives a long way from me.It was love at first sight for me;I've tried to end it 3 times before because he is married with 2 teenage daughters.After the 1st meeting I was in love + a few days later he told me he was married-before anything physical happened.That was too late, I was already in love with him.He's said he's staying with his wife because of all the usual reasons-kids,money and she's been ill.I understand this because my husband and I were going to stay together for our children but split 6 months ago.
I've had a date with someone else, he wants to take me out again but I want to end it with the married guy 1st.I'll never forget him, the thought of not seeing him again does upset me a lot.Plus he doesn't feel the same way about me.He says things like I miss you and can't wait to see you again.I've told him nothing about the way I feel-I'm very casual with him.
I can't tell him why I want it to end-that I love him .

2007-01-21 02:39:17 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im really in love with this woman, shes old but she has so much wisdom to impart. and shes still got it

2007-01-21 02:38:27 · 73 answers · asked by dosteyevsky_crimeandpunishment 1 in Singles & Dating

what does it mean when the women asks if ITS in yet ?

2007-01-21 02:36:45 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

lets say a 16 year old wants to move out of her parents house and move in with her 19 yr old boyfriend,with his mom of course can she by law do that even if her mom says no and she does it anyway bylaw can her mom get the cops to come and get her and throw her boyfriend in jail bc hes 19 and shes 16

2007-01-21 02:36:24 · 27 answers · asked by br3605@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family

He is sweet and sensitive and more caring than me. I want to show him I like him, but in a respectable way that I won't scare him off... Here are my options, if there is a better way than these, please say...

Kiss him on the cheek?

Rub up my leg against his?

Take hold of his hand?

Ask him to go to a movie with me?

Ask him out to lunch?

Stare intently to his eyes and try to have him catch on?

These are a few, I would consider any other options.

2007-01-21 02:36:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This may sound stupid, but I wanted to start doing things with my daughter to help build our relationship. So, We both talked about what we both like to do and what we would like to do together. The decision we made was Bowling. We decided that we would take one day every other weekend to go bowling ( just me and her). Well, now it has become not only something for me and her to do she has also made it something for her and her boyfriend to do. Not only that, but also something for her and her friends to do. The thing that might sound stupid is; This upsets me! I feel like what was mine and my daughters has been taken away. Not only has it been taken away, but we just started doing this about a month ago. It was taken away so quickly. I feel if i say something to her or anyone that I'm not only sounding jealous I'm sounding childish. I don't know what to do or what to say?! HELP!!!!

2007-01-21 02:35:16 · 17 answers · asked by no.#1 Mom 4 in Family

when your pregnant are you still up for sex?when my wife was pregnant i couldn't get enough of her i found it a total turn on there is just something magical about it,is it just me?

2007-01-21 02:35:06 · 12 answers · asked by DAVID C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Recently reconnected with an old friend of mine he and I would be perfect together and some of our mutual friends think so as well what is the best way to get him to realize we should be bf/gf without scaring him away or seeming too desperate?

2007-01-21 02:35:04 · 3 answers · asked by Arianna 1 in Singles & Dating

I was shocked, I hooked up with a 25 year old girl last weekend. I wasn't expecting to go all the way but, she started to give the 'hand' if you know what I mean, then 2 minutes later she took off her underwear to use on top of me -- very strange. Wondering how common this is.

2007-01-21 02:35:02 · 11 answers · asked by Razor 2 in Singles & Dating

theres this guy in my school and i like him a lot and he told me that he liked me but im not sure if thats true, he'll flirt w/ me but in a shy way...idk what to do, everyone told me that i should tell him to his face but my friend talked to him once and asked him...what if Rae came up to you and said she likes you..what would you do??" and he said that he would say "i know" so then she asked him if he knew that i liked him and he said yea, then he said it makes me feel good that she likes me...so idk what to do...he said he was gunna ask me out but when?!?!?!

i like him so much and he knows it, but i dont wanna make a big deal bout this

guys please help

how does a shy guy tell you that he likes you...or give you hints???

thanks

Rae ...xox...

2007-01-21 02:34:39 · 4 answers · asked by samyjoe515 2 in Singles & Dating

i will like to meet cool people, friendly people too.

2007-01-21 02:34:30 · 12 answers · asked by Awal Y 1 in Friends

and are often in a vehicle alone together for hours. I can tolerate her, but she wants to have personal conversations that I don't feel comfortable having with her. She asks about my religious preference, my family life, etc. She listens intently to my telephone conversations (my son calls me as soon as he gets home from school) and asks questions about what she's heard.

I can't do anything about the work relationship. Unless I want to be without a job, I do have to work with her, but I need a few words of advice on how to deal with her. I haven't been and will not be rude to her. Certainly there's a nice way to tell her to back off and keep her nose in work business. HELP!?

2007-01-21 02:34:12 · 12 answers · asked by CyndiDrum 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm almost 40 and still single. I guess i was asleep at the wheel for
the past few years. Never gave finding that special someone all that
much thought in my late 20's and early 30's. Had a career change in
my early 30's and it consumed my time and efforts for the past few
years. The career change required living with my parents and now that i like the work i do and find myself fairly stable in my employement and have saved enough cash it's finally hit me that i might be alone for the rest of my days. It's really starting to freak me out and has started to interfere with my sleep and concentration due to anxiety.
I'm a little embarrassed to admit that i'm still living with my parents and have never had a girlfriend or actually dated. I know
i'm shy when it comes to women, but if a nice girl came along and
we hit it off i know i wouldn't have a problem asking her out. I've discovered that special someone dosen't just fall in your lap.

Any Advice???

Thank You!!!

2007-01-21 02:33:11 · 13 answers · asked by singlesucksnow 1 in Singles & Dating