Nowhere does it say you should get married before you hit 40. Take your time to find someone. Also, there is nothing wrong with being single at any age. Just make sure that the person you find is not just someone you can live with, but rather someone you cannot live without.
2007-01-21 02:43:07
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answered by EmeraldSun 2
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40 may seem old to you now, but think about 10 years from now. But don't worry, there are plenty of people who have found the right person in their 50s and 60s. So, relax and start looking. Look forward to the great people you will meet.
First thing to do is to move out of your parent's home. Not just because you don't want to be a 40 year old living at home, but to give them their space. I'm sure they are happy to have you, but do it for both of your sake.
Secondly, you need to put some time aside for yourself... away from your job. You need to get involved in social activities that you enjoy. This will expose you to a lot of people that share a common interest. Plus, it's a lot of fun. Given time, the right person will come into your life. Good luck.
2007-01-21 04:10:15
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answered by Steve A 2
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Try the free service: http://www.doulike.com
There are no hookers here. (I think)./ hey, you never know.
First and foremost, YOU SHOULD MOVE OUT. You are insecure. The comfort of the cocoon gives you that cozy feeling so you never really felt the urge to merge. No girl would even like to hear that you live with your parents at this age - even if you find that special someone.
I know many people met thru internet and got married. It is not bad if you look in all the right places. You are mature, you know what you are doing. You will find that person you are looking for.
Your first move: Bye Bye to your parents. Then the girl. Your career is always important but the balance will come. You just have not given yourself that chance.
2007-01-21 02:45:29
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answered by Nightrider 7
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If you're so focused on finding someone just to have someone, it won't happen, you can't force it.
It's easy to say that when the time comes, if it's meant to be, the right person will come along, but it's true, you can't look for love, it finds you when you least expect it, but in the meantime, live your life, go out, do things that interest you, and you'll be surprised at how easily you'll meet people of like mind....who knows, you may meet the woman of your dreams, and if you don't, at least you'll be doing something you enjoy.
Stop stressing about being alone and start finding out who you are, that's the first step in being able to let someone else get to know the real you.
Good luck.
2007-01-21 02:40:52
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answered by Angeleyes 3
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Well first off it's not the end of the world that you are still single. Second. it's time to give mom and dad there space and you get your own place. Third start going places or joining clubs that will give you the chance to meet someone.. It will happen when the time is right for you.. Good luck to you.
2007-01-21 02:40:11
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answered by lynda 5
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answered by hinch 4
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Well.. you need to start going out.. and having your friends to fix you up blind dates or anything like it.. what's the worst thing that can happen?? you don't liker, her, next! just meet people, getting all stressed out and worried isn't going to solve anything.. Do something about it and start meeting girls! if everything else fails, there's always those dating web sites right? www.lovehappens.com is the only one I've heard of. Good luck!
2007-01-21 02:39:11
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answered by Anonymous
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You should be able to find someone on the internet..
Perhaps even here on Y/A..
You need to start looking...
2007-01-21 02:37:00
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answered by Anonymous
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try match.com
single and 40 isn't that big a deal... someone will find that charming hun!
2007-01-21 02:37:10
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answered by bronzebabekentucky 7
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I think you can check those match website.
2007-01-21 02:38:10
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answered by Anonymous
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