I met this really nice lady a few months ago and we have been going out almost every week. Nothing major just coffee here, and lunch there. She is attractive and seems to be into me. The thing is that we are working, single, professional, homeowners, with great incomes, and no kids. On the surface it looks like a business deal rather than a relationship. She is very driven – two jobs, working on her masters, and a ton of hobbies. I use to be driven, but now I am relaxing in my late 30’s stable job, no real other aspirations other than maybe kids and a family. I am not so self absorbed that I can’t relate to a working woman on the contrary. I think I am very compatible with this lady; I just don’t want to be second to her career, and hobbies, and etc. I would hate to think that she would view a stable relationship (and or family) as a burden to her career. I don’t need a second income. Do I need to grow up, or does she? I’m not sure if this a relationship worth pursuing?
2007-01-21
02:05:39
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