He says he doesnt know if the relationship is working because when hes with me he wants to be alone yet when hes alone he wants to be with me. Sounds stupid i kno but he really doesnt know why he feels like that. He thinks its a little predictable, we do the same things. I've offered for us to go out more if that would help but he still doesnt know. Its like hes just unaware of his feelings. Problem is if i ditch him ill go into a really depressing mode, i dont want that. I've left him to his own feelings and im gonna wait and see if he comes back to me with an answer about us. Any advice? We're both 17.
2007-01-21 02:03:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude, you need to go out there and enjoy life, its to short to be wasting your time on a loser who does not know his feelings, one of my ex's was like that and i just gave him the push and to be honest i think i made the right decision good luck
2007-01-21 02:07:19 · answer #1 · answered by xxDiStUrBeDxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok sweetie, you are both at the age when you seem to know an awful lot about nothing, you are only going to learn about each other by simply talking it out, because there is an awful lot to learn about each other yet. You have probably heard people say "sometimes we all need time alone" well, maybe that is so, but you are learning nothing by going down that road, remember he is just 17 (as are you) and your love life is just at it's beginning, so there has got to be more to a relationship than a warm feeling in a close moment in each others arms, find out inside your own mind, is this an unrequited love, ( you love him, but you' re not sure if he loves you back) if you find that, that is how it is, then you are, both of you wasting your time, try someone else, but take your time, and love him all the time, and don't be afraid to tell him how you are feeling and at the same time listen to what he says, kiss him when he gets it right, and still love hin if he gets it a bit wrong, you are both young yet, and all the time and the world to love each other forever, I do so hope you are both able to get into each others heads and take this to the next beautiful place, and wenjoy each others devotions to the love you are obviously both longing for, good luck and be nice all the time.....
2007-01-21 02:32:21 · answer #2 · answered by tony m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What.A.Loser. Hun, guys are so unpredictable. Guys rarely show their feelings, I just got lucky and found one that does ;) Don't waste your time with him, you have so much more of a life to fulfill. Obviously, if you would go into a depressing mode, you really like him, but if he's saying these things, you'll just have to accept the fact that he doesnt like u. Dump him, your so much better than he'll ever be! Hope I helped!
2007-01-21 02:21:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break ups always suck. If you are unhappy in the relationship you are just dragging out the depression, and prolonging the inevitable break up.
If you are thinking about ditching him, prepare yourself. Join some clubs, organize activities with friends.Start getting out and pursuing your own interests. Sure you are going to be sad, but you are only 17, there will be more guys.
2007-01-21 02:12:54 · answer #4 · answered by smedrik 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, if you really want to know, seperate....it sounds awful i know, but if it is meant to be it will be and if it is not then trust me you will have fun...my friend n i rely upon the fact that we both know that one day you will wake up and it wont be that bad then it just gets better. meeting other people is fun and it makes great stories later on! if you do get back together then make sure its really what you want, dont fall deeper in love and security if he cant give it back ok? sounds to me you will be a better person to explore alittle, why waste your time with someone who doesnt know if they want you, when some one definatly really will know? x
2007-01-21 02:30:16 · answer #5 · answered by m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At seventeen the male is still a child, the female is a woman.
He hasn't a clue yet. Get someone older. Or put up with it.
2007-01-21 02:24:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think youve got all the time in the world to find a lasting relationship with someone who will return your love tenfold.When you find that special some-one.you will KNOW.
2007-01-21 02:13:20 · answer #7 · answered by bevalou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww bless you i dont have any real advise just a booster that things probably will work out for you in the long run but im only young myself...
2007-01-21 02:11:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say that talking to him doesn't work. I hate to say this but you need to walk away now because he doesn't know what he wants.
2007-01-21 02:13:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your confused,he sounds as if he wants to have his cake and eat it,have a trial seperaton and tell him to grow up because he will drive you away eventualy
2007-01-21 02:09:41 · answer #10 · answered by angus r 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋