im 18 years old and i have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. i love him so much and when we are together everything is wonderful. but sometimes, well actually like once a week, we argue over the stupid little things! he says im annoying and we will go on and on until one of us gets the last word, our personalities are identical so neither of us wants to be the one to back down in arguments. we see each other everyday, do you think we see to much of each other? is this a sign we shouldnt be together? its so childish i know, but this is what happens.........=(
2007-01-21 02:09:18 · 6 answers · asked by Ash 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No of course not.
"Loving someone doesn't mean you'll never break up, it just means you'll always get back together!"
Tell him that you hate it when you guys fight over the little things. And maybe sometimes you should be the one to back down since you love him so much.
2007-01-21 02:13:43 · answer #1 · answered by cleo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,that does not mean that you need to break up. Well y'all see to much of each other, do you guys stay together, if so that why you need to spend time sometimes somewhere else. So when you don't see each other it give you a chance to breath and a appreciate and one another. And besides you are young and young people need to do young things. Don't try to grow up so fast. You spend some time with some girlfriends or family and he do the same thing.Then watch how when ya'll get together how much you guys tell each other how much you miss and love each other. Try it and watch and see. Now if you or he got issues mentally it's not going to work,or the jealous type because then there will be another problem,and that another question.
2007-01-21 10:24:02 · answer #2 · answered by creamy k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, this is a common problem in couples who have been married for decades. People can argue about anything, anytime. Men and women tend to argue about things that are rediculous and dont deserve an argument because of subtle evolutionary differences that have come through millions of years of evolving.
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2007-01-21 10:19:18 · answer #3 · answered by mrimtoocoolforyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this is an ego thing. He just wants you to complement him, and cherish him. Just look for all the good sides of him and tell him how smart he is, then, your relationship will flourish until old age.
Judging what is right and wrong serves no purpose. It ruins a relationship.
2007-01-21 10:16:31 · answer #4 · answered by Timeless - watcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its a perfect relationship.You should be together.The small tiffs add spice to a relationship.
2007-01-21 10:14:48 · answer #5 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its petty and when you are mature enough you will just let it go, you could ask yourself if its worth losing your relationship over.
2007-01-21 10:13:22 · answer #6 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋