Whenever my partner and I attempt to have sex, he seems to have great difficuly finding my hole and inserting his penis. I have tried to help guide it in with my hands, but every time it gets close to being inserted, it slips the other way. This has become a huge problem for us and completely ruins the mood... any suggestions would be of great appreciation!
2007-01-21 02:18:06 · 15 answers · asked by sportylover44 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Paint a target on it and make it a game.
2007-01-21 02:22:39 · answer #1 · answered by smilindave1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are going to have to take charge of the situation. Riding him is always an option or if you still prefer to be on the bottom you can always "thrust" to get him in you. But it would be alot easier to just get on top. Lubrication might also help. Don't use the warming gel, I think that was really made for mean cause it causes me great discomfort. But if worst comes to worst pull out your pink cowgirl hate and make riding him worth his while.
2007-01-21 10:31:25 · answer #2 · answered by Angel H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is not new and hardly a problem.
Just try other positions until you find one that is easier. Another option is to help him a little with good spirit - making love is not a test and helping each other can be a fun part of it.
Dont let it ruin your mood,
Cheers,
Ilan Yogev
editor,
Girlkeeper.com
2007-01-21 10:47:41 · answer #3 · answered by Ilan Y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is hard and you are guiding it in with your hands, it should not slip the other way. Perhaps you are not guiding it all the way in. Try guiding it until it's half way in. Don't be afraid or embarrassed to touch yourself. That should solve it.
2007-01-21 10:28:38 · answer #4 · answered by Steve A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Before you have sex he has to be hard otherwise it doesn't work well. Then try to open up more and after the deed is done then you can be more flexible.
2007-01-21 10:22:42 · answer #5 · answered by cleo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe buying a beginners sex book or tape for him it'll walk him throught the steps of intercourse then in no time he'll be a pro(if he's a fast learner)or buy him a flix(p0rNo) movie if he pays close attention then he'll see hows its done. but if your against "FLIX" den just pray he'll someday reach it lol
2007-01-21 10:25:00 · answer #6 · answered by DAMON 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get on top and guide it right where you wish.Over time he will find the spot automatically.
2007-01-21 10:24:51 · answer #7 · answered by packerman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then accept the responsibility YOURSELF. YOU make sure it's going in the right direction and don't stop until it's there.
2007-01-21 10:23:48 · answer #8 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use a torchlight like next time.
2007-01-21 10:21:43 · answer #9 · answered by Carl R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lube it up, get on top and show him how it's done! Take charge, girl!
2007-01-21 10:22:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋