How come it seems that black boys only want sex, and don't really care for there girlfriend.
And than white boys treat there girlfriend much better than a black guy could.
This is what i notice with my experience?
2007-01-21 02:05:40 · 31 answers · asked by Whats Up? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's a cultural thing. The people on here who said the "color doesn't matter" are morons. It's almost sickening to read all the politically correct BS people are posting and repeating...
Color does play a role. It makes you part of a certain culture...it's in your DNA etc. That all very heavily influences who and what you are.
As far as dating practices, I think that black men in general have more women. Italians are the same way. They are what people would call "womanizers." It just means they are more successful with the opposite sex.
Most white guys are lame and nordic whites, such as Anglos and Saxons, they are less likely to be very aggressive in going after women, so they have a lot fewer sexual partners, which causes them to hold on more.
2007-01-21 02:20:52 · answer #1 · answered by The Don 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I don't think it's a question of race, but rather a question of culture. There is a distinct and separate black culture in America. Don't get me wrong, a mixing of cultures does occur, but, for the most part, they still remain separate. While white culture stress the importance of wealth, popularity, and appearance, the black culture seems to link the wealth and appearance categories together. In a manner of speaking, even if you are poor, you should not look poor. Add to that the fact that there are so many "rags to riches" stories in the black community, wealthy rappers and athletes who made it big, it amplifies this effect. They are famous, and want to show that they aren't poor anymore, so they flaunt it with things like "bling", grillz, and attractive women. Many youths believe they will be wealthy one day, the difference is that the perceived way for blacks to get there is by being an entertainer in one form or another. Anyways, the short answer is because black men, due to cultural properties, generally see women as objects more so than white men do.
2007-01-21 02:41:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My parents are mixed and believe me that both Blacks and Whites have this problem in an even amount. The ones that are most racist can act like or worst than a cult. What I think the problem becomes more is when Black and White people try to act like they want to be the opposite; example: Black people that what to be White and treat their own race bad and White people that want to be Black and do the same. It is sad that people don't respect others and are not happy to be themselves in general.
2016-03-29 07:27:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is just the crowd you hang with. My sister in law is white and has a good black man that treats her like a queen. Going to bars and clubs is not the place to find decent men. White dudes can be just as bad it just takes them longer to show thier true colors, at least a brother is up front. Sterotypes really don't apply here, it is just you found some bad guys.
2007-01-21 02:12:17 · answer #4 · answered by dcforensics51 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I think a lot of it has to do with the individual themself and peer pressure. Not so much skin color. Boys are worried about what their friends think, so, if all their friends act like this, then they feel pressured to do the same. Not all black boys only want sex and not all white boys treat their girlfriends better. Look at the person and their values. That' what really counts.
2007-01-21 02:10:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's possible that it boils down to a simple innate cultural difference, but I would say that it has to do with your own personal experience. I know for a fact that there's lots of white boys out there who are just plain piggish sluts. By the same token I know of quite a few black guys who treat their women like royalty. I really don't think it should be defined by drawing a line between the races.
2007-01-21 02:13:37 · answer #6 · answered by Ricky J. 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
U have just had bad experience with black guys. I dont think race matters on how a guys treats a girl. What if the guy was half black and half white then what would u think?
2007-01-21 02:11:48 · answer #7 · answered by kaligurl1229 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I've had the complete opposite experience. I think in general men are going to get away with what you let them get away with. From what they tell me most young girls have the sterotype of being easy.......so if you come across this way they will treat you that way. If you don't and show yourself respect, they will respect you too. I agree it's not about color it's the person themselves. I for one have a much better relationship with my black boyfriend then my sister has had with her past two marriages with white men.
2007-01-21 02:09:31 · answer #8 · answered by Nette 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Men, regardless of color, love sex all the time. Yup, 24/7. Whether black treats their girl better or worse depends on their own life experience. White treat their girls bad too.
No generalization. They are equally bad and good on both sides of the spectrum.
2007-01-21 02:13:55 · answer #9 · answered by Nightrider 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Because teh society is different.
Listen to the music they listen to. Very few white boys listen to rap. While very few black boys listen to something else.
Music has a huge impact on people, more so on children.
Rap is all about 'beating that hoe' or 'smokin that tumbleweed' There are few songs that are actually worth listening to, or even mention that women should be treated with respect.
Even a few female rappers and Hip hop artists are guilty of it.
But then again, their homelife and friends have a major impact on them as well.
There's no actual answer to these kinds of questions.
2007-01-21 02:11:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋