I broke up with my gf about 9 months ago and haven't been with anyone since; no one really has caught my attention with the exception of this one girl who I used to see out and about occassionally. Really pretty, and appears to be really shy, courteous. A hotty for sure but I used to see her around with this other person so I thought ok she's with someone. For the very first days of seeing each other, she's made attempts to talk to me, everytime I look in her direction she is looking at me , and has this sparkle in her eye , she made an attempt to come round the club and talk to me once put one foot on the platform looked at me, and then walked away. I found out later that she was married. I really like her, I know she knows that. It feels like their is romantic stuff there without us really saying anything to each other.
I don't think she is happy - she is one of those people who grew up in her marriage. I know I may seem like a jerk, but I can't go there
2007-01-21 02:40:44 · 10 answers · asked by Piampri 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think in growing up she realizes that there are other people around who she may be interested in. Go figure !! I feel so helpless and I know she feels embarassed by the whole situation. I know many may think she is drama, and sleezy, but I don't think that is it. I hate the fact that I have put in this situation, cause here's a girl that has tried pursuing me subtly for a while; finally got my attention and there is nothing we can do about it.
I cant get pass her at all. What should I do ?
2007-01-21 02:44:00 · update #1
forget about her and move on. married women are trouble. if you talk to her tell her if she were single youd give her a chance. if shes not happy thats for her decide if she wants to move on with her life or not. married women are trouble. well technically, but its mainly the husbands you need to worry about
2007-01-21 02:46:02 · answer #1 · answered by angeleyessly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friend, losing a gf does not mean that the world is coming to an end. nor are u under any serious pressure to get a new gf. surely there might be other women than the married woamn whom u met?i dont thnik u should be concerned whether that woman is happy in her marriage or not. why, u dont know her at all. she may be showing some signs of interest in u. but that doesnt mean that u should take the cue and follow her, especially when u know that she is taken. it may cause trouble not only for u, but for her and for her family, even. surely, u dont wish to ruin other's lives or evn urs?i think one bad experience in love is pressurizing u to get a new gf so that u can prove ur worth to the world, right?do u wish it to happen again? ask urself whether u r happy in chasing that woman? from ur question itself it is clear that u have some doubts abt it. why go for soemthing which u have some doubts about? that married woman found u handsome and decided to get together with u,ignoring her husband. what would happen if she finds another guy more handsome than u tomorrow? have u thought abt that?definitely, u deserve something better. try to move on with ur life. who knwos, u may get the perfect partner in the world. all the best. have a nice day
2007-01-29 10:25:52 · answer #2 · answered by lilac4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,,,,how much drama and b.s do you want in your life?....There is obviously something there...BUT...as you said..she is married ! The situation spells t-r-o-u-b-l-e....for not only you, but her, her husband(or bf or whatever he is). Could you be happy as the "other" guy. Sounds like the ball is in your court....all u gotta do is make a decision. You can make it hard on yourself, or easy on yourself. I think you should wait until the right one comes along and avoid all the drama/b.s you could get into with this girl. Maybe in the meantime she will free herself and look you up. Why start a relationship wrong from the get go???
2007-01-21 10:51:31 · answer #3 · answered by Lrn'dTheHardWay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude: They're like buses. They may be late, but they will continue to pass through, get one to stop and take a ride: Could be the magic ride of your life. Keep taking bus rides till you find one that has nice seats, low mileage, sweet smells and smooth suspension. make sure the electronics("brain") is without shortages and loose connections: trustworthy , faith full, and quality sound is a plus.
2007-01-21 10:49:12 · answer #4 · answered by djtzclark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are too many girls in the world to focus on one with such issues and baggage. It isn't your business about her marriage. If she got married too young then she is impulsive and doesn't think before she acts, which will cause problems with anyone. She needs to grow up inside her brain first. She is off limits to you until she is divorced.
2007-01-21 10:51:14 · answer #5 · answered by Melissa M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's married that means she's off limits.
there are plenty of other women out there, so find one that isn't taken!
if she is unhappy, she would leave her husband. Otherwise let it go.
2007-01-21 10:45:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away it sounds like nothing but trouble
2007-01-29 07:45:25 · answer #7 · answered by Gina D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch this won't turn out good. Tell her to call you when she's unattached
2007-01-21 10:44:11 · answer #8 · answered by cleo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't mess with married women...
You are correct...
2007-01-21 10:44:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone she is married.
2007-01-21 10:47:14 · answer #10 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋