how long can guys wait, dating a girl without sex?

Question

If the guy really loves the woman, and they can do things like french kissiing, cuddling, holding hands, etc.
But without sex. how long can this guy wait and not lose his patience?
PS: the guy is 30 yr, and so is the woman.

Answer 1

If he is serious about you and your relationship, he can wait until you are married. It takes will power and most of them don't have it. But I have made jokes to my husband that men only need to do six things a day for the rest of their lives to be happy:
Eat, sleep, sh*t, have sex, drink beer, and watch sports. They want it all the time is what I'm getting at. It all depends on the man and how he feels about you.

If he loves you, he will wait until you say go. If you never say it, he won't rush you. But he does need to know that your relationship is going somewhere. If you say you want to wait until you are married then you better be thinking about whether or not he is the one. If you want time to get to know him 3 - 6 months should be fine. He won't explode, just don't let it happen because you are worried about whether or not he's going to leave if you don't. Because more than likely, he's gonna leave if you do or if you don't. There are some bad seeds out there (even at 30) so watch out, but there are some Prince Charming's as well. Just be aware of which one you've got.

Answer 2

First: I think you have got something wrong. Your being a virgin is not an asset or a good/attractive quality. It is not something guys want, as it only means you lack experience (and perhaps also indicate that you are too bound by cultural norms). Second: If he has stayed with you for nine whole months without sex he is either mad or in love with you. Especially since he does not pressure you with any ultimatum. Please understand that it is very important for us men (or in this case a boy) to not only feel emotionally attached but to feel physically wanted. We need to feel that you desire us bodily. Without that very few relationships will last. If you actually like the guy, don’t make it into a game of “let’s see how long I can make him wait”. That will only build frustration and resentment into your relationship (ie. not a good way to start), and in my opinion the longer the wait the more it tends to to make it likely that: a) that he will leave you once you do it; and: b) that he will cheat while he is waiting.

Answer 3

Im guessing at that age,both parties are used to having sex anyways,so why would there be a long wait?If the ages were 17 or around there,my answer would be about 2-3 months.

Answer 4

WOW tough one. if both love each other it'll work out. Personally a couple of months is plenty long. kiss cuddle hold hands at 30? I think not high school was a long time ago

Answer 5

this is a tough question but if the woman or man is not ready for sex than they don't do it. but if the man is ready than the woman has the power to say no and so does the man as well.
they have the power to make wise decisions

Answer 6

15 minutes

Answer 7

Until the second date. If nothing has happened by then, chances are he's gay and you're doomed to be his best girl friend. But there's a lot to be said of friendship.

Answer 8

if he's mature, he'd wait however long until the woman he's seeing is ready to have sex, and since he's older he should be able to do that.also if the man cares for the women then he'd wait however long until she's ready.

Answer 9

Depends on the guy and his religious and cultural affiliation. And how much he cares about you. If he really loves you he will wait til you are ready. If you really love him and want him, what are you waiting for???

You really need to talk to your guy about this...

Answer 10

well i waited 3 years, proposed to her and still didnt have sex with her. she left me after the third year on valentines day