2007-01-21 01:18:18 · 6 answers · asked by urdirtylittlesecret 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to tell him straight. he would prefer honesty rather than lies. just tell him the reasons why and leave it at that. but if it is something wrong with him, then try to talk to the guy and sort it. it would be a shame to let a long term relationship end because you didnt talk to him. but if you are sure you want to finish it, then just do it and put him out of his misery.
2007-01-21 01:26:15 · answer #1 · answered by Robfev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him. he's an adult and will deal with it. i'm a seperated dad with 2 young kids and i am still waiting. the thing is if a guy makes a promis to a woman, most of the time, he will try to follow it through, till he is released. if he can't he will follow a paralell lifestyle in secrete, until his life explodes on him, or release is given....just be honest else it gets complicated.
2007-01-21 09:28:11 · answer #2 · answered by Matthew S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people don't want to "hurt" the other person and find it difficult to be honest. However, it is far kinder to be "honest" and tell the person the truth (without being "cruel") than to be deceptive or lie to them.
Be as considerate as possible but be honest. I know it's difficult but they deserve the truth. If you were them, wouldn't you want to know the truth?
Best of luck.
2007-01-21 09:36:51 · answer #3 · answered by Mugsy's Place 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell the guy that you've grown out of the relationship and you just need to be alone right now.
2007-01-21 09:21:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This just is not working for me, You deserve something better,and so do I.
2007-01-21 09:26:41 · answer #5 · answered by jobee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the honest truth, with a little tact
2007-01-21 09:22:28 · answer #6 · answered by JBNH007 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋