My mate and I are constantly arguing, upset with each other, and steadily growing further apart. The only time we manage to be cool with each other is when our friends are around. What does all of this mean?
2007-01-21 01:29:02 · 20 answers · asked by mslilbit24 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like the two of you need to sit down and figure out where the arguing is coming from. If the two of you are really fighting about EVERYTHING, chances are there is one, large, underlying issue that's feeding it all. Try to sit down and figure out what it is (together) and talk about if there is a resolution or not. If you two are unable to even have a reasonable, rational conversation, however, you may want to examine whether or not you would be happier with someone else who can be more mature. Good luck!
2007-01-21 01:34:18 · answer #1 · answered by lapoli 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It may seem like all you do is argue, but at least you are communicating. That is the biggest problem with relationships these days. The topic of the arguement is usually not the real problem so even if you have to argue to get to the real problem and solve it, at least you are doing something to resolve the issue.
2007-01-21 01:37:27 · answer #2 · answered by pagudus6669 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's a lot of passion between you both, but neither one of you really know how to express it, or how to tell the other one about it...make time to sit down and really connect with each other on a one to one basis, otherwise if that dosen't work seek counselling.
2007-01-21 08:31:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could mean that you individually have unresolved issues left over from childhood and that you are trying to get something from your mate that you are not getting.
It could also mean that you have different communication styles and you see life from different perspectives that may seem incompatible.
Couples counseling would be a good idea if you both want to learn how to communicate better.
2007-01-21 01:36:58 · answer #4 · answered by beach 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It means that you love each other. It's nonsense to think that two people would share all of their time together and not argue. It's natural and shouldn't be taken so seriously. what is not natural is staying mad. If you are having issues with staying mad continuously then you need to work on that. Love is Love is Love!
Good Luck!
'-)
2007-01-21 01:33:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The arguments indicated that your persnality traits and that of your friends are not compatible You are not good friends. You cannot absorb one another. It means that your temperaments and that of your friends are going in different directions. If one of your is inclined to submit to the other, then you can become friends and if you continue to make arguments and counter arguments, your friendship is bound to break up. How pease remain cool. Good Luck.
2007-01-21 01:39:11 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like you are both going in different directions in life. You both need to sit down and talk about the situation and come to some kind of conclusion that brings both of you happiness. Good luck
2007-01-21 01:34:09 · answer #7 · answered by lynda 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You lack compatibility and need to learn to compromise. I suggest you see a marriage councilor who can further guide you in rectifying this problem.
2007-01-21 01:35:41 · answer #8 · answered by Teddy Bear 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The Rock says.........get a new Mate...lifes to short for all this petty bull ****!
2007-01-21 01:32:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's time to say see ya later. Try to do it in a friendly way. You never know when your paths will meet again. It's always nice to at least say hi.
2007-01-21 01:34:16 · answer #10 · answered by drbarnum 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋