I have a friend and everyone thinks he likes me but I don't feel that way about him. I am friends with his best friend, his sisters and him but everyone keeps asking us if we are going out. He waits for me to go to my locker and when I go to my locker he waits for me to go to my seventh period. I am so confused. My friend also has a gf but they never show any affection and when we are a group of friends he just keeps looking at me. I need a bunch of help because I am just so puzzeled. When I told him I went out with this guy, he just was giving me a hard time and kept calling me and saying "Why would you do that??" and stuff like that. I don't understand, he shouldn't be in control of my dating life. He knows all my classes and has them memorized and I don't know how that is. I guess he talks to people I know. It is extremely weird. Please help me. No sexual or perverted comments.
2007-01-21 01:15:40 · 4 answers · asked by Michelle 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I believe you are a victim of harassment. You must ask your friends and his sisters to help you, because you don't want his harassment to continue, or you will be forced to take appropriate measures to counter act against his unwelcome conduct.
If that fails, since the harassment is taking place in school, you should speak with the school director and request his/her intervention in the matter. Make sure to tell him in front of the director that you are not interested in his advances, but you have no problems being his friend if he respects you.
If the school doesn't listen to you, (they better listen or you could sue them), you can also get a Restraining Order to keep him away from you, even at school.
2007-01-21 01:26:16 · answer #1 · answered by David G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In high school love isn't ever clear. This is why sooooo many people who marry right out of school get divorced within two years. Another well known fact outside of school is that with guys and girls of the same age guys tend to be less mature, and don't know how to handle maturity as well. You're puzzled because he is so immature and you are more mature and you're trying to figure out some kind of reasoning to his weird behavior! There is no reason for it! He is running on instinct instead of wisdom. Just understand his hormones have whacked out his brain to the point of insanity!
2007-01-21 09:30:22 · answer #2 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you.
2007-01-22 02:07:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2007-01-21 09:22:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋