Family & Relationships - 20 January 2007

They said it was more comfortable watching it in bed but I am suspicious! Is my mother cheating on me?

2007-01-20 02:03:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Cool?
Handsome?
Sweet?
Mind of his own?
Caring?
Loving?
Sticky?
Cute?
Blur?
Whatever you can think of... JUST WRITE IT! just want to see what the factor that is going to come popping up again, again and again through replies. ;)

2007-01-20 02:01:49 · 19 answers · asked by Devoiex 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 01:58:44 · 10 answers · asked by niki 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Does it send any signals? Is it too intimate on a first date or no?

2007-01-20 01:58:33 · 20 answers · asked by Judy L 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 01:58:06 · 10 answers · asked by The Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

Earlier this year, I met a woman who I really liked. The problem was, she was still in love with her ex boyfriend.

He openly cheated on her with his ex girlfriend, and with other random women (he actually got his ex girlfriend pregnant while he was dating this girl)!

He also never took her out on dates - he just used to come to her apartment, play cards, drink beer and have sex with her.

Now she's back with this guy, even though he's still sleeping with his ex girlfriend, his other two baby mamas (he has 3 kids by 3 different women) and other random chicks.

Why would this woman want to be with a guy like that, instead of with a guy like me who is single, doesn't have any kids and actually wanted to date her?

2007-01-20 01:57:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 01:57:02 · 6 answers · asked by ? 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've got alot of friends, we go out twice sometimes 3 times a week....but latley, i noticed that im not wanted as much as i was before. I went to this party last Wednesday, and when its time to go, my friends that took me to the party left without me. And i got a call after an hour from one of them saying that he forgot me... a second thing that happened is that wen i was at a gathering, i noticed that i was always the last one to get picked wen playing a game, no one talks to me...and im treated differently......i need help!!

2007-01-20 01:55:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok. My fiance and i our planning on getting married in June. I have put down deposits on everything! ( most refundable) we are not having a major wedding just a intimate one. about (5,000). This is the catch, we i have children from a previous realtionship and got my tubes tied. He and I very much want a child together and we want to untie my tubes this year. We cant afford to do them both being though the procedure is 6,000. were paying for our wedding and everything alone. no help. what can we due to saisfy both of these needs. I have my dress almost every detail for a wedding. any creative ideas to still have a little wedding and baby. dont want to go with a barbecue or anything like that. or should i just have my wedding, then risk the chance of not having the money for baby? HELP!!!!

2007-01-20 01:54:33 · 21 answers · asked by Shampaine 2 in Weddings

2007-01-20 01:54:03 · 17 answers · asked by terracotta 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been in a relationship for nearly 7 months now and we have never had a fight! Not that I wanna have fights but it seems like all normal people have fights every now and then! When I do something that upsets him *unintentionally* he calmly confronts me with it. I either agree with him or disagree. If I dont think he had the right to be upset I tell him and then he says that he just feels this way and he cant help it but that doesnt mean I'm wrong. So I just shut up. Next thing you know everything is back to normal. This scenario only happend a coupla times only anyway. Please dont get me wrong, I'm very grateful for not having to go thru all the drama but sometimes I wonder if maybe it's not working or sth. What do people in relationships fight about anyway!?

2007-01-20 01:53:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this girl I've had my eye on. She is by all definitions out of my league. Not that I'm ugly, but she is so smoking hot. She is the total package of looks, personality, and a wicked sarcastic sense of humor. She tends to go for deuchebags who are losers. I have a good job, live on my own, and even have a car that i bought on mky own credit..anyhow..how should i proceed?

2007-01-20 01:50:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im 15 (in a few months) and I told my best guy friend that i like him more than a friend. is that the wrong thing to do? we are still friends but its awkward now that he knows... :'(

2007-01-20 01:49:12 · 15 answers · asked by Emily 3 in Singles & Dating

There's this really cute guy in my Math class. I asked him out a few months ago and he said no. I still have feelings for him, and my friend is trying to find out if he really likes me. Do I tell her to stop or let her keep going and see what happens?

2007-01-20 01:48:51 · 2 answers · asked by hotchick13 1 in Singles & Dating

When talking to your friends, anywhere (not only in a club or party), and a stranger comes up to you and starts a conversation, will you see it as rude?

What's the best opener and first conversation?

2007-01-20 01:47:23 · 16 answers · asked by sam z 1 in Singles & Dating

My 53 yr old boyfriend has 2 teenage sons who were 14 and 15 when this occured. They sent him pink and red balloons for valentines day which said "Love" and "I love you" and "be mine".
I have had a teenage son who is now 21, and he would never send his dad something so feminine and flakey.
No card was with the balloons when I took them off the door, and the boys who supposedly sent them did not bring them into the house. They just popped up on the door step.
I think the ex wife did it. What do you think? She is re married and does stupid crap like this. He covers up a lot for her.

2007-01-20 01:46:11 · 17 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Family

How come it is more accpeted for a black man to date a white women, but not for a black women to date a white man?

2007-01-20 01:43:05 · 21 answers · asked by Whats Up? 1 in Singles & Dating

And would they agree w / you ???

2007-01-20 01:41:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-20 01:40:59 · 16 answers · asked by sm177y 5 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and i fight a bit. not a ton but enough. He often leaves when he's upset. usually for only an hour or two, but last night he left for the whole night. i kept trying to call him to ask him to come home and not only would he not answer my calls, but when he did, and he heard i was very very sad and depressed that we would be spending the night apart, he says things like "you are going to have to learn to be ok with this" and "this never would have happend if you didnt leave me alone" i cannot worry about him leaving all the time when he's upset at me and i cant be talked to like im 5. i feel that he does things to punish me. i will need to leave the relationship if this continues. this is not how adults deal with their arguments. he does things he promised me he wouldnt and rubs it in my face. i really feel that my feelings are very much pushed aside.

2007-01-20 01:40:52 · 12 answers · asked by kisses00105 1 in Singles & Dating

When I tell her off she just laughs......

2007-01-20 01:40:42 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Seems like all girls are hung up on their looks (although I don't think the media helps this) and men are becoming more so; is there anyone out there that is happy with the way they look?

2007-01-20 01:40:21 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need some help with girl prob and some life probs. I dont know why im
> writing to u even if i dont know u, but hope u can help me. I've been
> confused for over 6 months now or maybe longer.
> First, I liked this girl for over a year or more. Well like the situation
> in the site, she is 1 year older than me. And im currently in Form 4 now,
> which means she is sitting for her SPM ( malaysian Exam) this year. Well let
> me start the whole thing off. We started to know each other in January. We
> spent alot of time together, though most of it was with other ppl. In Feb,
> during valentines, she gave me a gift. Well myself, i dont really get
> involved in love life at this age. But she changed me ( even b4 the
> gift). I didnt do anything that time as i wasnt sure if my feelings for her
> is real. So i just left it and we became really close frens.We chatted on9
> for hours and hours.Then maybe cause i didnt give her something for
> valentines, she was kinda close this other guy as i see it, they were
> together as when we talked on9, she kept mentioning his name. Well at that
> time, i thought i shud just backoff from relationships, so i started
> avoiding her.But my feelings were still there for her.1 time, i even walked
> her home and we had fun time together alone. She even gave me a
> nickname....a cute 1. We cared for each other alot.And in skool, though we
> are not in the same class, i know she always keep an eye for me......SHE
> STARES AT ME WHEN I ACT I DONT KNOW SHE IS LOOKING....she even told me i
> have a specialy place in her heart.....
> Thats when the other probs came in. First for my exams, I didnt do very
> well, i did only maybe fairly well( not the normal me). I got like 12th in
> class. Then there was this really long period of time were i didnt talk to
> her for the reason i thought she was with some1 else.well it kinda hurts
> when she mentions guys name in front of me. I dont know why......During that
> time aswell, i experienced a downfall. I was elected as head prefect in my
> school. I shud had been happy but i heard many rumours stating i was second
> choice or thihngs like i dont deserve it. Well i was really depressed and i
> still am. This election thing happened in july.
> In August, I think its been 2 months since i made any contact with the
> girl. I decided i cant go on thinking bout her anymore as it affected my
> studies badly. So 1 day, I asked her out telling her i want to sort things
> out with her. She agreed. That time, I finally told her everything, the
> misunderstandings( why i avoided her.....she knew i avoided her ), and i
> even told her i like her. I dont know why but when we met up she was afraid
> to let her dad see us together. She said she did like me but not now. I said
> its ok......Later on9 on the same day, i talked to her. I asked her what she
> feels about me now.She said im her close and good fren but im diff from
> other ppl as i have a special place in her heart. Then she said that place
> was empty when i avoided her. She also said that i was in that place since
> we met as in got close. I dont know if all that she said was true or was it
> just to make me feel better? Oh, i forgot, her reason was that we both have
> the same principles, thats why we wont further our relationship. Our
> principles are not starting relationships when we are in schooling.Well it
> was true, i did say that a lnog time ago and she remembered it.
> Since that day, I tried to get her off my mind. But the way she treats
> me, is totally diff from how she treats other ppl ( treats me like im her
> boyfren). Thats why im confused.But few days before christmas, i asked her
> out as she was leaving else where. She said she was busy with christmas and
> will contact me later. But she still hasnt. Im wondering if she also feels
> the pain to leave here.I really hope u can help me solve these 2 problems...

2007-01-20 01:38:50 · 6 answers · asked by Fr3e@K3D 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 01:37:53 · 7 answers · asked by i know evrythingman! 1 in Singles & Dating

Stew

2007-01-20 01:36:39 · 13 answers · asked by IMA SUCK@SS 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok so I'm a 16 yo guy and I've had this friend since I was 14. I never really treated her like someone I'd like to date but this has changed just recently. And now that I've started spending more time with her, one day she just starts to almost completely ignore me and be rather mean.
She insists everything is fine and is evasive...
What gives?? Does anyone know what is in her mind more or less?

Thanks...

2007-01-20 01:35:16 · 9 answers · asked by lolz 1 in Singles & Dating

and 1. KK is not falling for any dancing blonde chick bs this time, so don't even think about it! 2. you can't go underground

2007-01-20 01:35:11 · 7 answers · asked by lowroad 2 in Singles & Dating

without getting into a category 5 argument?

I mean, isn't it a really bad idea to get into a canoe with your partner/spouse unless both of you know what you are doing?

2007-01-20 01:34:38 · 9 answers · asked by mullah robertson 4 in Marriage & Divorce

why should i keep puttin up with mates who dont even want to know when your in a little bit of a crisis and your always there for them??

2007-01-20 01:34:05 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Why do some women want to be controlled by their boyfriends or husbands? Isn't it better to be independent rather than to have some man ordering you around?

2007-01-20 01:33:31 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce