I've got alot of friends, we go out twice sometimes 3 times a week....but latley, i noticed that im not wanted as much as i was before. I went to this party last Wednesday, and when its time to go, my friends that took me to the party left without me. And i got a call after an hour from one of them saying that he forgot me... a second thing that happened is that wen i was at a gathering, i noticed that i was always the last one to get picked wen playing a game, no one talks to me...and im treated differently......i need help!!
2007-01-20 01:55:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
~for whatever reason(s), you are being "avoided". Could be that it's because of your personality, or maybe that you and your friends "just don't click"...
or, you could be the scape-goat for them... whatever it is, take it up with the one or two friends, individgually, that you trust the most. Ask them each to just simply tell you the truth, because, after all, that's the very LEAST that you deserve! If the problem is something you can fix, then fix it asap. If it's something that's out of your control, then move on to a new hobby where you can make new friends.
People come in to our lives at different times, for different times, to serve a purpose in our lives. Maybe you have just out grown your current group of friends and now it's times for you to move on to bigger and better things - without them.
God bless you Sweety. (((Hugs!)))
2007-01-20 02:06:00 · answer #1 · answered by Kitten2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry your friends are treating you that way. But you know, your true friends won't ever treat you that way. You need to let them know how you feel and if they don't give a hoot move on and find someone that will care.
2007-01-20 10:43:18 · answer #2 · answered by hotmama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand your feelings of being left out. Relationships DO change. Maybe you should confront this group of people and ask what is going on. Tell them what you are noticing and ask them, why?
mb
2007-01-20 10:00:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Change your attitude, build up better self-confidence...
Its like you hate yourself so much, read your books and work tirelessly in your area of interest...You can become a star and your friends will come begging...
You will now choose your friends, your friends wont have to choose you!
2007-01-20 11:12:26 · answer #4 · answered by manpo2k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
again just ask them if in someway you offended them.it may be just a small thing to them and you are insecure.if not then why hang with them if they make you feel so bad.
2007-01-20 10:05:00 · answer #5 · answered by skeet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont cahnge your personality and feelings judt to suit them ask them whats going o and try to talk about it
2007-01-20 10:18:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will pass...it's the growing up crap...it happens to everybody.
2007-01-20 09:58:39 · answer #7 · answered by Emily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋