Im 15 (in a few months) and I told my best guy friend that i like him more than a friend. is that the wrong thing to do? we are still friends but its awkward now that he knows... :'(
2007-01-20 01:49:12 · 15 answers · asked by Emily 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No it's not wrong. But don't expect him to return your emotional feelings. At 14/15, guys don't really know how to handle a girl's maturity about "realtionships" yet. Girls apparently grow up thinking about having a steady boyfriend and boys just wanna play and have fun. If you get too serious too early, it may have a negative effect on him. Just don't start doing too much "girlie stuff" to him in public and/or around his friends. Guys hate that.
2007-01-20 01:51:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not wrong at all!
You may not believe this because you're 15, but life is too short to sit on the sidelines. If you want something, you've got to take the steps to get it.
Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't but you're always better off for having tried.
P.S. - Don't worry about things being awkward. It will pass. Just be friends if that's all he's comfortable with right now. You can never have too many friends!
2007-01-20 09:56:12 · answer #2 · answered by DannyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the exact correct thing. You put it on the line and now the ball is in his corner. It's true that you may not wind up with him, but you also won't lose a lot of time hoping he would say something.
Let's say he doesn't haave the same interest, then you could have waited a year or two hoping for something that would never happen.
GOOD FOR YOU!!!
2007-01-20 10:00:38 · answer #3 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I think it is great. It really takes a load off of your chest when you tell the person you like that you like him because you are just sitting in your room wondering if he likes you the way you like him.
But now that he knows he can think if he likes you in the same way
But if he doesn't, it might be a little awkward but that will end, its probably just a little shock for him
2007-01-20 09:53:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it was the right thing to do, just beco ur 15 doesnt mean ur too young or something my friends started the bf and gf thing at 12 and 13, u can be any age, its okay , it may feel awkward first but it doesnt matter, just dont worry about it, act like it neva happend, unless he likes u bak u guys mite start going out, if he asks u out say yes! it will be fun if its ur first bf lol
2007-01-20 09:53:35 · answer #5 · answered by cute_lil_surfer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, its not wrong... i did the same thing and im 15 things will be awkward for a little bit but its gunna change and get either back to normal or get better than normal. trust me on this one....
2007-01-20 09:53:29 · answer #6 · answered by mae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did what you thought was the right thing to do and you did nothing wrong. At least you did tell him. When I was a teenager and liked a guy I always kept it to myself.
2007-01-20 09:54:56 · answer #7 · answered by Nancy M. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in da same condition as u are, well i told my friend to tell one of my guy friends i feelings for,nd now we dont talk as much as we used to,nd im turnin 15 in 21 days
2007-01-20 09:57:12 · answer #8 · answered by personaltiyqueen92 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is his problem that he is taking it wrong not yours. You did your part. If he cannot understand you, He doesnot deserve to be your friend
2007-01-20 09:53:11 · answer #9 · answered by Kevin Marwaha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd suggest that you wait until you really know someone to tell them.
2007-01-20 09:55:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋