Family & Relationships - 20 January 2007

Last night, one of my girl-friends told me that I was a "womanizer." I was extremely offended by this, esp. because I think its not true and that it was unfair to label me that without really knowing anything about me or my current dating situation.

She was suprised that I was offended and told me that she thought every guy wishes he were a womanizer. She felt that she was giving me a compliment. Wll, I was drunk and continued to be fairly pissed off at her for the rest of the night.

We've since mended the friendship - but I wanted to ask...

Do you think its a compliment or insult to call a guy (who is your friend) a "womanizer"???

Personally - I think its a huge insult - but thats what yahoo answers is for - seeing what all of you think.

2007-01-20 02:22:53 · 9 answers · asked by SlickNick 2 in Singles & Dating

what d you say to her?? anything you need to give her ??

Thanks !

2007-01-20 02:22:28 · 2 answers · asked by LB James 3 in Singles & Dating

Dont know which one to push left....my wife is also confused by now.......ANY SUGGESTIONS?

2007-01-20 02:22:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been living with this freshman, 18 yr old housemate, for two weeks...anyway, the thing is, I'm sitting with my housemate and we're just listening to some rock music when the kid asks me out of the blue "Do you love me?"

I was flabbergasted on the inside but acted like I hadn't heard a thing was glad beyond relief when another housemate popped into my rooom and 'saved me by the bell'. Anyway, what should i tell the kid if he asks that again?

I'm also a guy BTW.

2007-01-20 02:21:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

last night around 12 my boyfriend called to invite me to go snowboarding with him in the morning. Him and his friends and there girlfriends were all going, so he wanted to know if i could to. I said ya, maybe. And he tells me ok were going at 7, so i'll call u alittle before. Its know 10 and he never called me... I know some of his firends girlfriends couldn't go, but he should have at least called me... right? I'm not positive if hes snowboarding rite now but im pretty sure he is. What makes me annoyed though is that earlier that day i told him, we should definitly go snowboarding somtime soon. He tells me, ya but its really packed at the mountains nereby, and i don't really feel like it. But then when his friends ask him to go to that same, "packed" mountain hes like ya lets go!!! It makes me feel like he would rather be with his friends then me. And we only have the weekends to hang out, so its not like he never gets to chill with them... do u think i should b annoyed?

2007-01-20 02:20:31 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i have been dating this girl for the past few months and we spend alot of time kissing and i play with her boobs. i get turned on, but i try to control but later when i want to have s*x she disagrees. she also get angry. many times i satisfy her with using my fingers in her vagina and finger *** her till she cums. but she wont satisfy my sexual urges.
sometimes i feel frustrated and feel like forcing her but i control myself. i need advice what to do now
she is 18 and i am 19

2007-01-20 02:20:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

now think about this seriously...on one side if you love then maybe your get taken advantage of eg- MUG now on the other side, your take advantage of that person and end up hating them and yourself eg-sh!thead...

2007-01-20 02:19:34 · 45 answers · asked by halbeast 2 in Singles & Dating

I havent seen him since i was 3 and i would love to see him as all my family have gone. Mum, Nan, Grandad ect. plz help as im so desperate to find him. Any help is appreciated

2007-01-20 02:19:12 · 5 answers · asked by djmbk69 2 in Family

I work w/ someone that touches my butt and blows kisses at me on a daily basis. She's even gone so far as to pick a song as being "ours". I'm afraid if I keep letting her do this, I may start to like it. Help?!?!?!?!

2007-01-20 02:18:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is a follow-up to an earlier question. Bground: I have a crush on a girl who has a BF -- we're both in the same business school (she's 1st yr and I'm a 2nd yr student), and in the past week, I've been helping her prep for her interviews. She reached out to me initially for this help, and I had seen her looking at me in the past as we passed each other in the hallways. Anyways, she's very attractive, lil shy, stunningly pretty and has a great smile. After my first meeting with her, she was asking me more about me -- like where I moved to school from, etc. And at another interview event that was held the next day, she changed seats to come sit at my table, right next to me. She didn't do any of the other things like playing with her hair or anything, so I'm confused about whether she likes me. She asked for another coaching session with me and I wanna ask her out but I've heard from others that she has a boyfriend. She hasn't brought it up yet. How do I read her mind? What do I do?

2007-01-20 02:18:26 · 2 answers · asked by riddler 1 in Singles & Dating

what do we gain in love?
is it good?
is it bad?

2007-01-20 02:17:19 · 32 answers · asked by Nandini 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating my boyfriend a while and recently he's moved in with me, a while ago I was at his old apt and was playing on his computer and noticed that on his myspace he was flirting with some girl but it really didn't go anywhere so i got over it. This morning my roommate was playing on his computer and was having some problems with cookies so went to clean out some cache files and found that there were like 3 or 4 girls he was doing that with, and one on another site for people who play a specific game.
None of the messages talk about phone numbers, IMs, or meeting. Usually its things like him saying 'I don't want to sound like a perv but you're really cute." ect.

The first one i noticed was a few months ago, the newest one that my roommate saw was for the 12th.. only a week ago.

what do i do? do i say something and if so what do i say? i dont want him to think im spying on him but that hurts my feelings.

Do any of you out there think that what he's doing is fine?

2007-01-20 02:16:49 · 13 answers · asked by attila 6 in Singles & Dating

So I met someone last year in December, and we began talking on the phone alot and dating. A few months later in August we were intimate for the first time. After that our conversations have escalated to us talking about our futures together. Here's the thing...it's always a catch. He is in his late 30's, He is in a relationship with this woman for the past 6 years 4 of which they have been living together. He says he hasn't married or had children with her because he realizes she is not "the one" and he wants out....BUT they just opened a hair salon....so the salon to me is like their new baby right? My real question is how should i go about this....everyone has a past/history with someone and what if you hang in a relationship because it's just "there"? How long should I give him to make a move? Because quite frankly, we ain't getting younger!!!

2007-01-20 02:15:54 · 2 answers · asked by BLAQUERAIN 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 02:15:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been in a relationship for nearly 7 months now and we have never had a fight! Not that I wanna have fights but it seems like all normal people have fights every now and then! When I do something that upsets him *unintentionally* he calmly confronts me with it. I either agree with him or disagree. If I dont think he had the right to be upset I tell him and then he says that he just feels this way and he cant help it but that doesnt mean I'm wrong. So I just shut up. Next thing you know everything is back to normal. This scenario only happend a coupla times only anyway. Please dont get me wrong, I'm very grateful for not having to go thru all the drama but sometimes I wonder if maybe it's not working or sth. What do people in relationships fight about anyway!?

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Oh and btw he does alot of things that annoy me but I just dont like confrontation. I'm the kinda person who bottles up. And such things are usually stupid anyway like him not calling or sth, so I dont make a big deal out of it so I wouldnt sound needy or sappy you know.

2007-01-20 02:14:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this girl i been seeing i thought i liked her but now she is annoying to me she call me and i dont answer most of the time if she dont call i wont call her she has two kids and i think this dating ralationship we have for 3 months isnt working how do i let her off easily?

2007-01-20 02:14:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here's my problem for one me and my mother inlaw do not get along at all. She dosent get along with anyone because she is always talking about people and lieing on people all the time. She is the ultimate trouble maker. Anyway she came to MI from GA she has been here since 2weeks before chirstmas and she has got on my last nerve with the way she treats my oldest son. My oldest son who is 8 years old told me she punched him in the stomach and that has done it for me. Not to mention that since she has been her she has been sleeping in my 8year old room and that is not fair because he now has to share a room with his younger sister and brother and me and my husband only have a 3bedroom home right now which is enough room for me and him and the 3 kids. My 8 year old is very mad because he says he is tired of not sleeping in his room and his bed and I totally understand because I feel we are making all of these changes for her and all this lady has done since she has been here is lied on me

2007-01-20 02:13:25 · 23 answers · asked by Charlie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have already given her flowers for our anniversary...should i give her flowers anyway or is it ok to show up with nothing...

2007-01-20 02:12:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

love sucks. When the people we love forget to love us back how should we feel. In solitude we love, but in the real world we hide our feelings. We limit ourselves to not be that person. That is why love sucks. To feel the everlasting pain just kills. To have the feeling you will be alone the rest of your life just sucks. I try to forget about her who I love but its too hard. So i'm just going to go and follow my heart.

2007-01-20 02:11:24 · 12 answers · asked by the i code 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

soocer is a main thing for me but she gets bored except when we go to the stadium, but she only has fun cuz all the drinks and the people yelling. She wouldnt sit and watch a game with me at all. She thinks is slow. Is it possible she might like it some day, what can i do to make her like it?

2007-01-20 02:11:23 · 8 answers · asked by diesel 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am searching for my childhood friend who had been shifted at sum place in Tamilnadu. I don't remember her full name and her address(city ) too.I don't have much information of her past. Pleaz tell me site that provides help in finding people in india and if possible pleaz tell me the procedure too...

2007-01-20 02:10:37 · 10 answers · asked by ushma sai 1 in Friends

Hi, my name is evelina. I have some problems with finding friends.
Sometimes I think I can make good relationships but later they just slip out of my hands. So I need some advices...

2007-01-20 02:10:05 · 5 answers · asked by lialialina 1 in Friends

We are married for 12 years and have two wonderful kids who we love very much.My wife is in love with her classmate who is happily married for 14 years. She says she was driven into it by me as I spent my money and time in drinking and not working.I feel guilty about it as it is true to some extent. But I was picking up my pieces for the last couple of years during which she started the affair on net and phone. When I confronted her with her passionate love letter she lied first and then confessed to the facts written. She met this guy only once in a remote resort and professes platonic love.She says she doen't know his email address as the book containing it is lost. I am confused and pained as sometimes visualised divorce but not an affair. Besides she was with me when I was terrible and now when I have reformed myself largely, this thunderbolt struck me. The fact of being written off her life silently pains me more though she says she will be with me if I am good enough.

2007-01-20 02:09:00 · 5 answers · asked by havah 2 in Marriage & Divorce

if you in the Houston Area and know a place where i can take my dress for sell please let me know, its a maggie sotelo dress never used in perfect conditions and is size 4
please contact me

2007-01-20 02:06:41 · 18 answers · asked by JENNIFER H 1 in Weddings

I didn't mean to like you,
I didn't mean to care,
I didn't mean to fall for you,
I didn't mean to stare.
I didn't mean to wonder,
I didn't mean to think of you,
I didn't mean to feel so hopeless,
everytime you passed me by.
I didn't mean to laugh
at every stupid joke,
I didn't mean to forget
that I was against doing any of this.
Just like I forgot that I didn't mean to love you.
I forgot everthing that I didn't mean to do,
I wouldn't take a second back and undo the
things I didn't mean to.

2007-01-20 02:06:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anne 1 in Friends

My family is going through divorce, and we feel that my father is trying to take my brother away from my mother and I. My father never was a father figure and now all of a sudden hes buying my brother many things, and he suspiciously called the high school hes in to ask for attendance and hes been telling my mother that hes been hearing that my brother doesnt make it to school. Which is a lie. My brother is 14, and, I was wondering, is he able to decide who he can stay with? My mother doesnt work though I dont know if this has anything against it probably. Thank you

2007-01-20 02:05:55 · 10 answers · asked by xbyebye_beautifulx 2 in Family

My di.ck used to measure 7.5 inches and I've been working out a lot in the past year and now it only measures 7 inches...WTF??

Somebody told me that when you work out too much your dick can shrink and I had a lot of girls tell me that dudes who are real "buff" have little *****.

2007-01-20 02:05:35 · 18 answers · asked by The Don 1 in Singles & Dating

Yeah!

2007-01-20 02:04:55 · 21 answers · asked by basshunter_poka 1 in Singles & Dating

Seriously dont they know it kinda hurts to screw around with people's head???

2007-01-20 02:03:46 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a 36 year old lady - turning 37 late this year. I have met a guy who is 22 years old and i REALLY like him and makes me feel so special - he turns 23 the same month i turn 37. I know we are both adults - but i dont know what to think about the age difference. He says he is ok with it - he doesnt care about the age difference. I just wanted other peoples views on this. What do you think?

2007-01-20 02:03:39 · 30 answers · asked by ees234 1 in Singles & Dating