love sucks. When the people we love forget to love us back how should we feel. In solitude we love, but in the real world we hide our feelings. We limit ourselves to not be that person. That is why love sucks. To feel the everlasting pain just kills. To have the feeling you will be alone the rest of your life just sucks. I try to forget about her who I love but its too hard. So i'm just going to go and follow my heart.
2007-01-20 02:11:24 · 12 answers · asked by the i code 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My friend, there is no such thing like "forgetting to love".
Unfortunately event in one's life prohibit some to let go freely of their feelings and place a high wall around them, protecting them from being hurt. This has nothing to do with the one who loves them, but it's also unfair.
It starts with trust and communication and patience.
There's that saying that goes like Out of Mind Out of Sight, which also epithomizes how hard it is to stay fond of someone who is not around as much as others, who in return can see and feel the person on a daily basis.
Feelings grow each day. They are a seed that need watering. If you don't give it some sun, some water and some refreshing, the seed will stay small or never grow up.
Also not all people are destined ot love the other, sometimes it's simply a mismatch and you cannot blame anything for it but the stars. Some don't feel as completed in the relationship as others and seek to distance themselves slowly or simply porject their feeling somewhere else, a hobby, a job or another person.
Remember loving someone else is a gift not a command or an expectation for something in return.
Be happy you know what love is for there are many who haven't experienced it. And don't expect anything in return for it. Of course if the subject of your affection loves you back then it's heaven.
2007-01-20 02:21:47 · answer #1 · answered by GuyNextDoor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love doesn't suck. I promise. It just sucks when you love the wrong person. There's going to be a few times in your life when this is going to happen. You'll probably have your heart broken more than once, and you'll probably break more than one heart. The day is going to come, though, when you will meet someone who is going to click with you. They'll be your best friend, your love, and your partner. It'll be a rocky road to get there, but you'll get there.
2007-01-20 02:19:47 · answer #2 · answered by Jess H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how does someone you love forget to love you back? do you mean she never loved you in the first place? If that's the case, then she can't be forgetting to love you. Why are you hiding your feeling of love in the real world. Try not hiding them so much....you get what you give my friend....and lastly, don't think that you'll be ALONE FOREVER..that is one sad way to be thinking my friend. Think optimisticly!!
2007-01-20 02:17:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My ex-husband forgot to love me back; he took for granted that with no effort or output on his part, I would always be there. It was the hardest decision in my life to divorce, but now I am content and happy. I come home after work and I know no one's going to snap at me, ignore me, and make me feel bad. He was devastated, swore he loved me and would change, but he ignored me so long it was simply too late. I put up with it for too many years. Now, unbelievably, a friend who was always there for me has become more than a friend, almost without my realizing it. I know it hurts, but hang in there. As time goes by, the hurt will lessen, I promise, and as for the rest of your life, you might be pleasantly surprised one of these days - you don't know what might happen.
2007-01-20 02:24:43 · answer #4 · answered by telaine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop living in the past because while your busy doing that your missing out on the present and what the future may hold in store for you... let it go and move on with your life....
2016-03-29 06:05:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Believe me if they really love you there wouldn't be a reason to forget to love you
2007-01-20 02:15:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
People dont forget to love you back.. If your unsure about this love then ask them how they feel.
2014-12-31 16:47:54 · answer #7 · answered by Nirvanah 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
how u want people to love u back? show some actions n kiss u or hug u?some people love u in their hearts,they don't express it out totally.
2007-01-20 02:19:32 · answer #8 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about what you just said.how can anyone forgt to love when its a god given gift to love.also know the heart will never lie to you.
2007-01-20 02:15:56 · answer #9 · answered by skeet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they didnt forget maybe they need to make sure u dont forget
2007-01-20 03:04:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋