So I met someone last year in December, and we began talking on the phone alot and dating. A few months later in August we were intimate for the first time. After that our conversations have escalated to us talking about our futures together. Here's the thing...it's always a catch. He is in his late 30's, He is in a relationship with this woman for the past 6 years 4 of which they have been living together. He says he hasn't married or had children with her because he realizes she is not "the one" and he wants out....BUT they just opened a hair salon....so the salon to me is like their new baby right? My real question is how should i go about this....everyone has a past/history with someone and what if you hang in a relationship because it's just "there"? How long should I give him to make a move? Because quite frankly, we ain't getting younger!!!
2007-01-20 02:15:54 · 2 answers · asked by BLAQUERAIN 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This isn't his "past" it's his present...and you're noting more than a convenient "booty call". What don't you get about that? If he is keeping you a secret from this woman, you're not a priority. If you wanna wait around for this guy, you're pathetic. Good luck!!!
2007-01-20 02:20:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with the first guy. he's still with this woman, you're the OTHER WOMEN.
I think you need to make him pick, there's a good chance they can still work together. Most women would rather their man leave them then cheat on them. Kids and work are no excuse to cheat.
2007-01-20 10:23:13 · answer #2 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋