I've been in a relationship for nearly 7 months now and we have never had a fight! Not that I wanna have fights but it seems like all normal people have fights every now and then! When I do something that upsets him *unintentionally* he calmly confronts me with it. I either agree with him or disagree. If I dont think he had the right to be upset I tell him and then he says that he just feels this way and he cant help it but that doesnt mean I'm wrong. So I just shut up. Next thing you know everything is back to normal. This scenario only happend a coupla times only anyway. Please dont get me wrong, I'm very grateful for not having to go thru all the drama but sometimes I wonder if maybe it's not working or sth. What do people in relationships fight about anyway!?
Additional Details
16 minutes ago
Oh and btw he does alot of things that annoy me but I just dont like confrontation. I'm the kinda person who bottles up. And such things are usually stupid anyway like him not calling or sth, so I dont make a big deal out of it so I wouldnt sound needy or sappy you know.
2007-01-20 02:14:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he's so calm and nice like you tell, then you have one out a million!
But keep in mind men change when their married.
2007-01-20 02:22:43 · answer #1 · answered by Chantal D. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur looking at it as half empty....
be thankful that ur not fighting... my best guess would be that he really loves and dont want you to go through all that drama... so he cools himself down and settle things gently....
You asked me what was wrong and I smiled and said “nothing”, then I turned around and whispered “everything”.
2007-01-20 10:32:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its great that u dont fight alot :) but if its worrying you then why not get off your chest all the annoying things you mentioned and see how he takes it because some people really react to fights dont they.
2007-01-20 10:25:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are doing great most couples fight over dumn **** anyway
2007-01-20 10:19:49 · answer #4 · answered by Me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you two don't truly communicate!
2007-01-20 10:22:46 · answer #5 · answered by mead1973 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋