there is this girl i been seeing i thought i liked her but now she is annoying to me she call me and i dont answer most of the time if she dont call i wont call her she has two kids and i think this dating ralationship we have for 3 months isnt working how do i let her off easily?
2007-01-20 02:14:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well first of all just be honest with her.Hopefully she is like me and not into playing games. Us mothers dont have time for games, so just be real with her!!
If you feel its pretty much over, than it is...nothin can help or rescue that!!
And there is nothin wrong with someone with kids...i noticed you mentioned that, like outta the blue...so im wondering if you have a problem with kids??!!
Whatever it is...be honest with her...dont string her along!!
Good Luck
2007-01-20 02:19:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although it seems to hurt people all the time - there is something to be said about "THE TRUTH". We live in a world where people have not learned to be honest. Our world is full of deception and lies and we fall into it in every facit of our lives. Just tell the girl the truth. You don't have to blame her - or make her feel bad, put the onus back on you - just tell her after some very deep soul searching you feel that to be honest with her is the best thing and in being honest you don't think this is a good time for you and her to be in a relationship. You might just say that you need to develop more relationship skills and right now you need the time to concentrate on yourself so you "can" be ready for a relationship. Praise her on the things that she is - and wish her well. But don't drag it on and don't ignore the situation. Good luck.
2007-01-20 10:21:51 · answer #2 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her the truth and ask if you can resolve this problem. she obviously is waiting for you to fire back with something like "stop" this may just be a test to see if you are aware of your own feelings. she will only want you to talk to her. and because you don't talk to her could be a reason for the high quantity of calls. If you can't speak to her at the time tell her the truth that you are busy right now "can we talk later?" type of deal.
2007-01-20 10:21:00 · answer #3 · answered by JayPVIP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say that i need to think about things or just say that you need your space
2007-01-20 10:27:29 · answer #4 · answered by monkeyluver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋