Family & Relationships - 19 January 2007

Well, him and I have known eachother for awhile.So Im kind of confused..He's changing right in front of my eyes! He cant be with me on the behalf of what Im doing is what he says but I think it's more than that....Then Im already going through a depression stage...(pregnancy)I also taake anger management (temper)So wut should I do... even though he's hurt me; I still want to be with him...Why?Im tooo old to be playing child games now I'm not too old but Im becoming an adult do I have to learn some time

2007-01-19 20:11:27 · 2 answers · asked by laylah ali 1 in Singles & Dating

how should I make that day wonderful for him

2007-01-19 20:09:01 · 11 answers · asked by fancy 1 in Singles & Dating

i had to move back in with my parents cause i couldnt make it on my own and i did this right after i graduate and i broke a promise to a girl and she doesnt trust me n e more and i care about her more than n e thing and i dont want to lose her and everything i say isnt workin i need help

2007-01-19 20:09:00 · 4 answers · asked by fattyslimjack 1 in Singles & Dating

Ladies I need to know why some of you hate breads? Also the this girl i was with had me shave off all my facial hair. After that soo many ladies told me how better I.E. cute or handsome I looked without my facial hair I miss it!!!

2007-01-19 20:08:37 · 12 answers · asked by Vesdog! 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok i'm on holidays up here at my dads place and I run into this girl that I like, and her mum (her mother is my mums friend and they where up here because in was a fimily thing) so I am talking to her mother and the girl that I like didn't know who I was. Now I think she likes me, becuase her sister told me and becuase I have been getting signs like smiles and she always looks at me and laughs around me. She could have forgotton who I was because she only sees me with my mum and I hadn't seen her for about 6 months after I told her who my mum was she remembered(her own mother even said how can you forgit him). But how could she forget me if she likes me? and what should I do?

Ps we don;t go to the same school and I hardly ever see her but she is really hot

2007-01-19 20:06:36 · 5 answers · asked by barnhawk2 1 in Singles & Dating

What do you think is more asthetically pleasing: men's bodies or women's bodies? I mean, if you're having sex, is it more about how sexy you think the man's body is (within reason), or about how beautiful they make your body feel?

2007-01-19 20:03:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im a waitress at a restaurant and you cant believe how many guys older married or with their gf that stare at me and some even give those dirty smiles right next to their gf or wife. Dont they care if their wife or gf notice ? Some have even flirted with me big time and i can tell their gf or wife get annoyed and mad bc theyre giving me or him an attitude. I didnt do anything wrong why r they getting at me?

2007-01-19 20:02:49 · 10 answers · asked by tragickingdom 1 in Singles & Dating

one of my friends who got beaten badly by her husband while pregnant and thrown out of the house by him and his parents for a long time has now agreed to go back to him as she does not want her marriage to break at any cost. her husband had ignored her all throughout. she is now a mother to his child.

but her husband has still not come to see the baby and is now blackmailing her with a divorce and telling her he is going to sue her over some abusive smses she sent as a reaction to all he did. all the physical abuse which she couldnot bear while she was just 4 months into carrying. since she is bent on not breaking the marriage and is wanting to reconcile at anycost the husbands family is now plotting to term her mad by asking her to take a medical test to prove her sanity. is this justified ? both the girl and the guy are highly educated and the guy is working at leading mnc as a consultant in bangalore.

2007-01-19 20:02:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

k theres this guy i no, and he always looks at me.. (i can c thru the corner of my eye) but yeah, and he always pokes his tongue out at me, and jokingly says,,, i love u.. blah blah and cals me honey and stuff. But wenever theres a hot girl somewhere he makes sure I hear him comment about her like when he tells me that 'that girls hot' he expects me to react or sumfin.. am i supposed to be jelous or somthing?? whats the deal ?

2007-01-19 20:01:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband hasn't kiss or even touch me since last month. He ask me to do what he wants when he needs it. I told him and he ignored. Living wit family I already got enough depress. They even try to controll me. Keep telling how to take care of my 4 months daughter. Get mad when I go visit my mom in North Cali. once a month. Mother inlaw called my husband stupid for letting me go that often, waste money and so on.. He told me he'll never move out even 5 mins away. Wanted to help his family...My sisters will come visit my daughter and I tomorrow. Should I come wit them back to North cali? I'm tired wit this life, i can see he doesn't love me. Am I a bad mom if I take my daughter away from her dad? please hellllllppppp thanks

2007-01-19 20:00:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My husband hasn't kiss or even touch me since last month. He ask me to do what he wants when he needs it. I told him and he ignored. Living wit family I already got enough depress. They even try to controll me. Keep telling how to take care of my 4 months daughter. Get mad when I go visit my mom in North Cali. once a month. Mother inlaw called my husband stupid for letting me go that often, waste money and so on.. He told me he'll never move out even 5 mins away. Wanted to help his family...My sisters will come visit my daughter and I tomorrow. Should I come wit them back to North cali? I'm tired wit this life, i can see he doesn't love me. Am I a bad mom if I take my daughter away from her dad? please hellllllppppp thanks

2007-01-19 19:59:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Everything was going fine apart from her being the most laziest house guest you've ever met. I spent the whole time picking up her rubbish that she seemed to think was fine just to throw on the floor. Also she was asking my hubby to run a heap of errands for her. On her last night at my house I tried to ignore how much she was making me angry, when she asked me to ask my hubby to take her car and go and put petrol in it. I then snapped and said "I think that is pushing the friendship too much" and she asked me to explain so I told her how much her 'habits' were annoying me. She then stormed out of my house and didn't come back for an hour. When she came back (around 7pm) she started packing up all of her stuff. I tried talking to her and she wouldn't speak to me. She went to bed and came out at 11pm to have a go at me.
I sorted it out with her and she seemed fine but now she's home she has been rude and blunt to me.
Should I bother making the effort with her anymore?

2007-01-19 19:57:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ever date a guy who really wasn't opt for sex right away? Preferred to wait a few months before taking that step in the relationship? Around 6 months? In other words wanted to get to know you better before getting physical.

Would you think that it was conspicuous?
Would you think he had some emotional problems?
Or would you just take it in stride?

2007-01-19 19:56:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am married for about 2 years,I love my husband but is making my life impossible ,he always complaining about everything,i work part time in our shop i have to ask him for the money and he always complain about how much i spend but i only buy food stuff ,he always complain about everything i do, I always tell him to change and he says yes, but is always the same, sometimes when we have a fight he tells me that i am not good in everything and others things that hurt so much,i am so hurt!!!

2007-01-19 19:55:59 · 7 answers · asked by MANDY 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay so my best friend has met my bf only once or twice she doesnt know him in person at all, she demands and expects that I tell her everything that happens between him and I. Not only that, but she also sometimes calls him a jerk or an idiot as a joke *for no apparent reason*. Anyway I didnt really care back then because she was more important to me than he was. Anyway, my bf proposed and we are now engaged. Its a very serious relationship and she sometimes still jokes about him in a disrespectful way and that pisses me off more than ever now! I just dont know if I'm being a bit old fashioned here but..the way I see it is that this guy will be my husband, he's no longer just a bf or a hook up. His friends respect me and my best friend should as well *specially that he's a great guy and she doesnt even know him!*

I told her that it annoys me and she was upset and told me that I will leave her for him and that when I marry him we will no longer be friends and weird stuff like that!!

2007-01-19 19:55:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

plz suggest somethin diferent n useful
budget 3000 rs.

2007-01-19 19:55:42 · 27 answers · asked by smile 1 in Friends

recently he knows that his mother cheat his father. she goes to a man in his house more than one time a week.he is very sad and he want my advice.what is your advice

2007-01-19 19:53:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my boss is half my age. he's 43. his wife works in the same work place. they have 2 sons.

2007-01-19 19:53:36 · 15 answers · asked by unravel43 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-19 19:52:12 · 8 answers · asked by sasha 1 in Singles & Dating

i been dating a female for nine months and i always get kisses on the cheek from her,I tried to kiss her on the lips and she got kind of mad,and ask me why i did that she told me when she is ready i will know ,what do you think

2007-01-19 19:51:37 · 6 answers · asked by mr. metoo 1 in Singles & Dating

What do you think about that? I think you should live your lifeas you please.

2007-01-19 19:50:39 · 23 answers · asked by lakimbria2000 2 in Marriage & Divorce

how can i know if a teacher has a crush on his/her students?

2007-01-19 19:49:13 · 9 answers · asked by Kirej 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hello,

I'm seriously confused with the actions of a girl I've seen around and whose tried to get my attention. I 've seen her a couple of times at a club and dismissed her as another pretty girl , but one night she made it quite obvious to me at least I thought that she was interested with the intense gazing that happened. I didn't bite, because I had a feeling she wasn't single, based on previous observations in the past and a week later, she came with her spouse and friends and let's just say that there was silent drama as she still kept looking at me even in front of them. Of course I looked like the trouble maker and got the evil glances from her friends etc... whatever. I saw her again weeks later at another event and I was with someone and from across the room she sees me and we shared this glancing again. She then makes it across the move and stands right behind of me talking to her friend. Why of all places would she do that? I don't understand....

2007-01-19 19:48:14 · 9 answers · asked by Piampri 2 in Singles & Dating

my son has this freind hes a great kid but he always sleeps and i like the kid and want him to sleep should he stay here

2007-01-19 19:47:15 · 8 answers · asked by conan 4 in Singles & Dating

We have been dating for a year now. I thought he was the love of my life, but it turns out I'm wrong. I am emotionally unstable and cannot process anything right now. Please help me.

2007-01-19 19:46:42 · 19 answers · asked by Fairy* 1 in Singles & Dating

I have had thoughts of leaving her before but we worked through them. i am now attracted to a schoolmate and think she may be too. i am wondering if the feelings of wanting another woman alone warrant me to break up with my fiance.

2007-01-19 19:46:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well, i met this guy, and gooosh he was soo cute. then he went over to me & we chatted. yeah, he has a great personality. he's a great person. while we were talking, i realized he was EXACTLY everything i want in a guy. EXACTLY. the day after we met, he admitted that he liked me so i did too. BUT the problem is.. he's my 2nd cousin! even though we know we are, we acted as if we're lovers & all, and when all of a sudden, one night, his ex called him and said she misses him so much. and he said he wanted to go back to the girl. he doesn't know how i feel. i was in love with him. i know, weird, right? probably gross. but i really love him. and i knew that one day, i would hear that from him. sharing with me some stories as if we're SIBLINGS. and i have. i really love him but i can't tell him right now. he might think i'm weird or something. i mean, for the first time, he knew. but he must have figured out that i don't like him anymore coz we're cousins. but i still do. what am i gonna do?

2007-01-19 19:45:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Do you just jump in and have sex, do you use protection, do you wait? What do you usually do? Do you worry about catching a disease and does this worry last long or do you forget in the heat of passion?

2007-01-19 19:44:51 · 11 answers · asked by Serinity4u2find 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-19 19:43:07 · 4 answers · asked by asrsiiin 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a 2 yr old girl and an 8 month girl, today we learned we are having 4 more! We don't know the sexes yet and won't ever 'definately' know apparently (they get squashed!) I have so many questions I didnt think to ask - head was spinning! This little one was going to be our last - now they certainly are!!! Im happy and excited but scared rotton. Heck so many names to think of. We had trouble with Mia and Steffi....just words of a positive nature will help me right now. Im scared of not coping with their needs if they all need at once. And what about Mia and Stef? They are going to really feel it. Mom will be so tired. Oh I hope the months amble by....this is a biggie!

2007-01-19 19:41:41 · 10 answers · asked by Veronica M 1 in Family