I have a 2 yr old girl and an 8 month girl, today we learned we are having 4 more! We don't know the sexes yet and won't ever 'definately' know apparently (they get squashed!) I have so many questions I didnt think to ask - head was spinning! This little one was going to be our last - now they certainly are!!! Im happy and excited but scared rotton. Heck so many names to think of. We had trouble with Mia and Steffi....just words of a positive nature will help me right now. Im scared of not coping with their needs if they all need at once. And what about Mia and Stef? They are going to really feel it. Mom will be so tired. Oh I hope the months amble by....this is a biggie!
2007-01-19 19:41:41 · 10 answers · asked by Veronica M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Wow, such a blessing! I'll put you in my prayers, and since your oldest is only 2, then there should be just a little jealousy when your 4 make their appearance, but closeness should develop easily, especially since she will get to help Mommy with "her" new babies.
2007-01-19 19:46:48 · answer #1 · answered by fawnrising 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
calm down, it won't be too hard from what i hear, i have a friend who has triplets, and they are...nice! They just turned 8 and they are sweet, the biggest problem that you would have would probably be telling them apart. But don't worry, your two older ones would be able to do that for you! Really, my cousin had twins, IDENTICAL, and the only one that could ever tell them apart was ther 2 year old older sister. It amazed us! Just chill, try and explain to the older one what will be happening, and try to prepare as much as possible. You are blessed, not many people can go through life knowing that they did something as rare as having multiples! Oh yeah, another thing, get ready to become extremely popular, people are always interested in what they've never seen. God Bless!
2007-01-20 03:48:34 · answer #2 · answered by Confused & Young 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations!!! There are numerous websites for parenting of multiples. There is a twins magazine, etc. Look up some of the parenting sites online and look for a multiples club in your area. There is plenty of advice and support out there. Start tightening up your finances as soon as you can. Take sewing lessons before you get too big to move.
Below are only a few links to check out. Good Luck.
2007-01-20 03:52:24 · answer #3 · answered by Tellin' U Da Truth! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG 4 at once...how lucky are you? That is great and you will be fine.
Start a list of all the people that will be helping you and giving you money. Put it in the paper about how happy you are...get on the news. Do not say you need help but...maybe someone will sponsor you, and give you stuff.
2007-01-20 03:49:08 · answer #4 · answered by jeeccentricx2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think about how crazy and hectic it is going to be in the first few months and years.
Think about watching four beautiful children grow up and turn into amazing people.
Think about being able to have brought six wonderful human beings into this world.
I know you'll be great. =) Congratulations!
2007-01-20 03:45:37 · answer #5 · answered by Delvala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
congratulations.....and good luck you will need it....however, you will get help with some things and what ever help you are offered take...you will soon have 6 babies to contend with.....5 in diapers alone....wow...start lining up friends and family now...you will need help....consider a live in....good luck
2007-01-20 03:47:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you should have paternity tests on the existing children.
Second, after delivery, have paternity tests on the new arrivals.
Show results to your husband.
2007-01-20 03:47:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Children are gifts from God, you will be fine they will be fine. You should consider yourselves blessed.
-NmD!
2007-01-20 03:45:40 · answer #8 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hey, that sucks for you man...I had one and snippy snippy went my vas defrens. No more for lolo!!!!
2007-01-20 03:45:17 · answer #9 · answered by Loren H 3 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Abort- it's cheaper
2007-01-20 03:45:18 · answer #10 · answered by todd 4 · 0⤊ 11⤋