recently he knows that his mother cheat his father. she goes to a man in his house more than one time a week.he is very sad and he want my advice.what is your advice
2007-01-19 19:53:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell him to inform his dad! That is indeed a hard one. I would not want to be in his shoes.
2007-01-19 19:58:36 · answer #1 · answered by BigWashSr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really feel so sorry for your friend!
There's not a lot you can do for him except be there for him.
Can you imagine how awful he must feel, knowing his mother is doing such a terrible thing.
I'm sure he probably feels like he hates his mother at this point,
and has deep compassion for his dad.
So the turmoil going on inside him must be terrible.
Just be his friend.
You could suggest he confront his mother about this, telling her to either stop or be honest with her husband (his dad), and if she doesn't do either, tell him to tell his mother 'HE' will tell his dad.
I don't know your friends age, but if he is quite young maybe he'd better not approach his mom, maybe he could go to a grandparent
instead!!
Bless his heart!
2007-01-20 04:11:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is something your mother & father will have to deal with themselves... you can leave hints for your father, but perhaps that's as far as you can go. this happened to me when i was younger ~ i told my mom that my dad cheated and i was told that i was trying to tear our family apart. i've thought about what i could have done differently and maybe you can talk to your mom about it first before approaching your dad, give her a chance to tell him herself or change. but be prepared... your home life may change a bit too. good luck.
2007-01-20 04:00:01 · answer #3 · answered by hello_beautiful_222 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to talk with his mother!!!
2007-01-20 03:58:10 · answer #4 · answered by MANDY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mather? what the hell is mather?
2007-01-20 03:59:11 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋