im a waitress at a restaurant and you cant believe how many guys older married or with their gf that stare at me and some even give those dirty smiles right next to their gf or wife. Dont they care if their wife or gf notice ? Some have even flirted with me big time and i can tell their gf or wife get annoyed and mad bc theyre giving me or him an attitude. I didnt do anything wrong why r they getting at me?
2007-01-19 20:02:49 · 10 answers · asked by tragickingdom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only a man without class will do that. Gentlemen know that when they are with their ladies, they will not take notice of other women. But take it as a complement that you get big time stares and flirts. As for the women, if they attack you they are insecure... if they attack the man, well, doesn't he deserve it?
2007-01-19 20:08:38 · answer #1 · answered by nerdyjohn 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Great question.. I had always wondered about this one .. but i had come to know that it is not my fault. And yeah it is not your fault 2 ..some f these men are cheap and have no respect for the woman they are with.. Mostly when this happens to me .. i get mad at women who continue to be with such jerks.
2007-01-19 20:28:17 · answer #2 · answered by julia1975 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very carefully. Maybe they are swingers. Or maybe you are flattering yourself. Or maybe they are playing games with each other. Maybe she stares at other men, so he returns the favor. Either way most men are dogs and women have a tendancy to be katty. Just be friendly and hope for a big tip.
2007-01-19 20:10:40 · answer #3 · answered by ___ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ever thought of dressing more conservatively? A man won't flirt, unless you give him the opportunity. You're open to flirting... not good! You're a girl - be more modest and you won't have any such trouble
2007-01-19 20:15:41 · answer #4 · answered by Pure 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well first of all it's not you, it's the idea of you. Put yourself in their shoes. To answer your 2nd question, men do that because they have no values or respect for women. It's disgusting I know.
2007-01-19 20:39:10 · answer #5 · answered by PINK1431 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They just don't know where to direct their anger. Basically if you don't respond with an unimpressed glare you are doing the wrong thing in her eyes.
2007-01-19 20:06:39 · answer #6 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they do this to you realize that you're not the only woman who they do this to. They do it all of the time and their women know it.
2007-01-19 20:06:14 · answer #7 · answered by lupin_1375 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some of them are creeps and their wives know that.Its not your fault.
2007-01-19 20:10:05 · answer #8 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can reply, "Excuse me, but do you want to keep your attention on your food?"
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2007-01-19 20:08:44 · answer #9 · answered by Maewest 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
??jelousy maybe? didn't think of that one right?
2007-01-19 20:07:34 · answer #10 · answered by karry l 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋