Family & Relationships - 19 January 2007

My brother is almost $2,000 behind on child support. Thats about 5 months behind. He lost his job and couldnt find a stable one is why it hasnt been paid , its not because he didnt want to. My question is I know you can be put in jail for not paying, so how far behind do you have to be before that happens?

2007-01-19 06:21:26 · 17 answers · asked by bbwg_hbic 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've tried some marriage counselors in the past but they didn't seem to be the right fit. How do you find one that fits your needs/personality and is in your geographic area? Are there any good websites or other resources?

2007-01-19 06:21:12 · 2 answers · asked by calimami 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i've been acting very strange lately...most of it is due to my health. Alot of things are going on in my life...not necessarly terrible but its enough to drive one crazy. Ive been very mean and depressed...often trying to control my temper. I havent been very successful and ive said somethings that made a person i care about very upset. I dont want to blame it on my health no do i want to blame my circimstances...however this person is known to not take apolgies well....but i really think it is needed....to be more specific this person is my bf...and because of a particular uestion he asked me...all my fears came back to me...and i over reacted.....i need help ....big time....because his is not the first time this has happend.....

2007-01-19 06:19:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I been talking to this girl for a Few months and almost everyday we talk to one another for like2-3hrs and we also work together. When she has to work and Close she wants me up their to chill with her. then last night we stayed in my drive-way in her truck talking till 4am and she told me about how she feels about me and how she knows their something is their with me. She told me for now were just friends (Just like how many relationships starts) and then we I got out to go in she slipped and said "I love you"....I never cared and loved someone like her.....But, She says she is somewhat nervous about it cause of her current boyfriend...She says everyday she feels like her current boyfriend is more like a Friend cause he is so childish and never tries to talk to her or do stuff for her and I do....Anyway, I have strong feelings for her and she kind of knows but not Fully....when we go out Sunday Should I tell her how I feel about her, How I feel so Sad when she is not around???Im lost

2007-01-19 06:19:36 · 8 answers · asked by MashDaddy 1 in Singles & Dating

For fifty dollars, what would a girl want?

2007-01-19 06:18:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend was trying to explain to me that her and her boyfriend broke up but they decided to try and work things out. she said when they were talking about how they are goin to work things out he told her they need to have an OPEN relationship but no cheating?.. does this really make sense?

2007-01-19 06:18:03 · 5 answers · asked by LaDy A 2 in Singles & Dating

living in a nice place, have a great job, a handful of some good friends, ya know, a really great life. My boyfriend lives in a crappy house, doesnt have a job or a car, we've been dating for over a year and we love eachother very much but latley I get this feeling like hes mooching off me, I pay for just about everything and he always apologizes like a fiend when we talk about it but still, he's only had a job for about 5 of the months we've dated. He's obsessed with gaming and sometimes plays while we're on the phone. He is very sweet to me but is this enough? Should I break it off?

2007-01-19 06:18:03 · 17 answers · asked by pink_paper32 1 in Singles & Dating

Married 13 years, 2 kids. I always have to call when I leave anywhere and when I get there. He has to know where I'm going and what I'll be doing. I've only been out by myself 4 times (shopping x 3 and one night out with my girlfriend x 1). If I want to go somewhere, I have to take one of the kids. Wants to know who I am talking to on the phone. Doesn't like it when I talk to my male friend (known him since I was 19; I'm 38 now). Always, have to come home straight away. (He never does) He wants his mother to move in with us (she's 56 and can take care of herself). When I objected, he said "At least I can tell her what to do without an arugement" and "If you have a problem with her moving in then you have a problem with me".If he doesn't get his way, he yells or fumes quietly. And no, I have not had an affair. And, he has not hit me.

2007-01-19 06:17:59 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

but am still legally married to my daughters mother and i pay child support which i don't have a problem with cause it is my child the thing is all my friends say i shouldn't be paying child support cause i'm still married is that true?

2007-01-19 06:17:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

some how with the commitment -the sparks fly off, the list of do's and dont's come along.does naming your relationship strangle love,which is ment to be free if its true and honest ..and in a wink of an eye your relationship is a rut !

2007-01-19 06:17:32 · 4 answers · asked by spin spin sunshine 4 in Singles & Dating

we are having a party for her and would like to give her something that will shock her ,it cant be a stripper have you any ideas

2007-01-19 06:16:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

How many people have had this happen to them? My husband's ex wife is constantly brain washing their 2 daughters in thinking that their dad is the worst person ever after they got divorced. In all actuality she as the one that cheated and moved her lover in the same day she kicked my husband out. I guess she has to make her self look good after she was the one in the wrong.
She has them thinking he doesn't care, doesn't do anything for them, etc....So, the kids always say my mom got me this and that ....when my husband pays her $1000 a month in support and she doesnt work. I tell me husband just to tell them where the money comes from but he thinks he would be lowering himself to her standards. I think it is ok to let your child know you support them financially. Anyway, I am just frusterated that she is turning the kids against him there is no reason that children should have to chosse between their parents.

2007-01-19 06:16:36 · 24 answers · asked by Alapooh 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If i always start texting her first. We Always talk around 11:00 and everytime i have to text her first. Is it ok that i do that or does it seems as if i am being a nucence (sorry can't spell i)

2007-01-19 06:15:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-19 06:15:28 · 4 answers · asked by altec63 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my fiance friend told me he wants to break up with me cuz of car?

2007-01-19 06:15:01 · 11 answers · asked by stacey w 1 in Friends

My husband and I have been married for 3 weeks on Sunday for starters. Him and his ex-wife have been going at it for a couple of days, she wants to up the child support and get full custody of their son. I love my husband, there is no doubt about it! Well I go into his e-mail today and I read and e-mail he hasn't read yet from his ex and it stated in there that on the day of our wedding (he went to see his son before) he told his ex-wife that he didn't think he wanted to marry me. I read that and started to cry...what do I do?! I am hurt right now!! Do I say anything to him? Please, any advice...I see him in about an hour and I don't even know if I can look at him!!!

2007-01-19 06:14:55 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have a boyfriend,i love him so much we having a baby,and i am very happy and pleased but i dont like his mum and i am afraid that i will looose him for that.i just really dont like her.i dont think she is a nice person.we living in her house we paying her so much money and she doesnt even buying things which we want.and for money we giving to her she is on holidays and staff.that just not mum.we having a baby but she didint say nothing about like that dont have to pay so much or summit.what you think?

2007-01-19 06:14:53 · 17 answers · asked by anjelik 1 in Family

is that k?
his 5'8 is that k will women take him cause his usally the same height that they ar and his pretty mature for his

2007-01-19 06:14:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im seeing this man have been since the end off november its sex sometimes not always... we see each other every week near enough. i have feelings for him! and said this is a open relationship! and that he doesnt want a relationship! will this mess me up as a person? he has girls as friend and he does chat to them on the phone which does make me angry but i try to ignore it.. has anyone done this before? did it work? or were u just sucidal after it ? i need some people opions on a open relationship does it drive u insane or is it a fun thing??

2007-01-19 06:12:47 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I tryed to be smooth I tryed to be myself If theres something out ther that will help me then please tell me.

2007-01-19 06:12:42 · 10 answers · asked by JR 1 in Singles & Dating

He didn't say anything..just general stuff. I have heard guys don't call you if they have slepth with you on the first night? What could possibly be going on?

2007-01-19 06:12:39 · 28 answers · asked by Megan C 1 in Singles & Dating

Recenlty my 15 year old son started to date a very nice young lady. They only dated a short time. Because her grades started to slip her mom grounded her, which included no more dating.

My son has always been able to talk to me about most anything. I know he is hurting, but he won't talk about it.

How do I help him work through this heartache without seeming to pushy or nosey?

Please only contructive and helpful advice.

2007-01-19 06:12:18 · 5 answers · asked by Barb 3 in Singles & Dating

LOL this is kinda private but has any of your had kids then totally lost their SEX drive. I don't know what happened...Yes I have been with the same person for 9 years but we never had a problem before..Wow..he probably doesnt even notice but I dont get the urge NO more...Has anyone been through this and how did you fix it??Any suggestions:(

2007-01-19 06:11:44 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am in big trouble, I seem to have lost myself in the marriage. I get so caught up in taking care of my husband that I have forgotten who I am. How do I begin to find me again? Am I doomed?

2007-01-19 06:11:35 · 14 answers · asked by Lovely Lady 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-19 06:11:31 · 12 answers · asked by NIKKI C 1 in Singles & Dating

Like I said I am married for 2 years now. I know that I am doing wrong but can't help it. the willing is stronger. I really have no sexual interaction with those prostitutes, but I search for them and I like the way you set up everything, When I say I like is just in that moment, because when it's time to do the act, I can't (which is good not to do it) but still, I am doing wrong. I love my wife and we have a good sexual life, but still I need to do that stupid thing. I can live it for a month but it comes back, and I can't control it. Am I the only one???? I need help because I don't want to make a bigger mistake, like I said I love my wife, but I can;t control it. It happens like 3 to 4 days a week. What can I do, I don't want my wife to find out, I just need to fix this right away before it goes to far. Thank you for your comments and understanding. Please don't judge me, because I know is the enemy whose doing all this mess.

2007-01-19 06:11:28 · 24 answers · asked by Sebastian L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if you know her or know of any othre way to contact her please email me or her. my email is PR1MUS420@yahoo.com thanks.

2007-01-19 06:11:24 · 1 answers · asked by pr1mus420 1 in Family

We have three cats, and two of them are very close to each other (male and a female). A while back, my wife proposed having a wedding ceremony for the two of them...and I thought it was a silly joke.

Today, I found out that she is for real...she actually sent invitations out for this ceremony...

Behind my back, she booked a hall, justice of the peace, ordered flowers and actually HIRED A DJ!!!!!!

I'm livid at this idea and this stupid waste of money. She has been pissing money away quite a bit lately and I think this is the last straw.

...what should I do?

2007-01-19 06:11:06 · 16 answers · asked by Ted Arcidi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Hello everyone, I consider myself a good kisser. My only problem is I can never tell when to go light and when to push harder. I've had girls tell me before, "Hey buddy this isn't a porno you know?"
So my questions is, unless your caught in the heat of passion should you always go light on kisses??

2007-01-19 06:10:46 · 5 answers · asked by STEVEN MILLS 1 in Singles & Dating

what du you like about guys that are younger than you.?

2007-01-19 06:10:44 · 6 answers · asked by pianodude 2 in Singles & Dating