living in a nice place, have a great job, a handful of some good friends, ya know, a really great life. My boyfriend lives in a crappy house, doesnt have a job or a car, we've been dating for over a year and we love eachother very much but latley I get this feeling like hes mooching off me, I pay for just about everything and he always apologizes like a fiend when we talk about it but still, he's only had a job for about 5 of the months we've dated. He's obsessed with gaming and sometimes plays while we're on the phone. He is very sweet to me but is this enough? Should I break it off?
2007-01-19 06:18:03 · 17 answers · asked by pink_paper32 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think its time to say game over to this guy...hes going no where
2007-01-19 06:21:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like he wants to do much with his life. Not much of a future, if you ask me. If you married him, he'd expect you to work while he spends your money or lays around the house. Gross.
Does he pay you back? If not, holy cow...RUN FAR AWAY.
Actually, I'd still run from him as far as I am able. Anyone can act "sweet" and be nice. Lazy bums are nice, too.
Get someone who's motivated and has a future. You'll regret it the rest of your life when you're working and he's living off of you.
2007-01-19 06:27:54 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok sweety for one momma always tell me " if you got a man and he doesnt have what you have in atleast 3-4 months hes a nobody drop him." and if you think about it mommas is right because a guy should always be up there with you. I mean in society these days men think that they are the shyt soi if they are they need to have just as much as we do so you need to tell him to step his game up. Never let no man mooch off of you.
2007-01-19 06:24:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-31 13:14:24 · answer #4 · answered by wolter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to give him an ultimatum. What your doing is enabling his bad behavior - not working. What kind of a man lets his girlfriend pay for everything? I'd say a loser. Stop enabling him by paying for everything. You don't have to be mean about it, but tell him that you can't pay for anything anymore because you need to start saving for ?????? whatever (college, a vacation, a new car, a house, etc...). See how he treats you then. Good luck to you.
2007-01-19 06:24:25 · answer #5 · answered by [><] Rebel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break it off? That's your call. Doesn't sound like he has motivation or goals to get a job. I always had a job with an end in mind. I'm always saving for something or planning to better myself.
2007-01-19 06:24:17 · answer #6 · answered by Cameron L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is kind of taking advantage of a good thing. If you keep supporting him he won't feel like he needs to get a job and do something to support himself. Maybe you should break it off for a little bit. Let him realize that he needs to get his life in line.
2007-01-19 06:21:59 · answer #7 · answered by Shannon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In similar situation, but my bf does have a job and does pay for me. However i am from a wealthy family and he is not, look i don't appriciate when guys can't pay for them selves thats big time turn off, u don't wanna be with a kept men. u wanna be a kept women.
2007-01-19 06:23:08 · answer #8 · answered by Loco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him to the kerb, he's a parasite... You can do SO much better... Find someone WITH a job for a start and someone you would be happy to be seen in public with...
2007-01-19 06:23:53 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to talk to him about getting a job and keeping it and just let him know that if he doesnt stop playing games and doesnt get a job then its over.
2007-01-19 06:21:42 · answer #10 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋