Family & Relationships - 19 January 2007

I live with my boyfriend and I am very happy being there. I go visit my family on the holidays and on their birthdays, but I can't stand my parents. Every time I visit, I get into an argument or a fight with them. It makes me not even want to go to their house anymore. Their are only three people at my parents house that I like to visit. They are my sister, my nephew, and my brother. My sister should be getting her own house soon, so I will be able to visit her and my nephew without having to go to my parents house. That is great, but what about my brother. He will still live with my parents. The only way I will be able to see him is if I go to my parents house. I can't just not visit him. He is the most important person in the world to me. He is only 7 years old. I am the only one that took care of him from the day he was born until he was 6 and1/2. He is like my son to me. I love him a lot. My parents won't let him come to my house. The only way to see him is to visit my parents.

2007-01-19 06:10:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

the titles it seems he don't want anymore. wsould i be wrong to start talking to someone else while i give him his space

2007-01-19 06:09:17 · 10 answers · asked by brown eyes 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-19 06:08:44 · 20 answers · asked by NIKKI C 1 in Singles & Dating

Please share your experience with me.

My parents divorced when I was six years old and more than 20 years later, both sides of the family still HATE each other and it would be so painful for me to bring them together in the same room. It was a divorce that lasted for 5 years of torture for everyone involved. Custody battles, family members getting arrested for harassment, life threats, supervised visitation rights, etc., the list goes on....

I personally don't want a wedding, we are planning a get away for TWO only, but I am getting guilt tripped about it..

What to do???

And what is WRONG with my family that they actually WANT to be in the same room again, I DON'T CARE what the occcassion is....

And how do we tell them that we want to get married ALONE?

2007-01-19 06:08:22 · 6 answers · asked by Reserved 6 in Weddings

i am very self contious about myself and what is going obn wit me. and the only reason why is becasue of my mom and she is mess with my head. i cant talk to it (her) about it becasue it is wierd and i dont want to. im in the 8th grade and there is a creep at my bus stop and we used to be friends with another person but he started to follow me every where i told my dad and told the dude to get the hell away from me. and i told the principal. they didnt do anything about it and if he doesnt get way now i am going to call the cops. omg. he is scarring me. i think he likes me and boy, heis not joking... and to top it all off my parents are getting a divorce and i am okay with it. as lo0ng as i get my dad. anyway i have problems and i need help. what do you think?

2007-01-19 06:07:36 · 5 answers · asked by LIlSis K 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

She is an only child at her mother's house and is not at ours. I have tried everything, but nothing works. My husband thinks I'm too hard on her because she is in a divorce so she should get to do and say what she wants when she comes. I don't let my children do it then she shouldn't be able to do it.

2007-01-19 06:07:36 · 16 answers · asked by Mandy 1 in Family

i'm convinced that i want to be with this girl. What are the right words to tell her i want to be with her? Should i write a note?

2007-01-19 06:06:34 · 5 answers · asked by atl_dru32 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it sexy to you to watcha girl dance, moving sweet hips, belly shirt up, tight pants? what do you see in girls...whats there sexiest feature to you? wanna help me out? *wink*

2007-01-19 06:06:17 · 12 answers · asked by *SexiiBeast* 1 in Singles & Dating

I can only accept it sometimes like when he is rubbing himself on me.

2007-01-19 06:05:47 · 22 answers · asked by vane 1 in Singles & Dating

I miss my dad , but my grandma doesn't really like him , and I want him to come to graduation , but my grandma most likely won't let him come. What can I do????

2007-01-19 06:05:32 · 17 answers · asked by ♥mctrevor♥ 1 in Family

I told her cats DONT have belly buttons.

2007-01-19 06:05:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If there was a woman who was physically attractive, pretty face, hourglass figure, shiny hair etc and was a serial killer (probably likes to kill men). Would you find her hot, cute etc? I am talking about looks not personality or insanity. I know some girls think killers like ted bundy are hot.

2007-01-19 06:05:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my good friend "loves me" i like him but i dont love him. but he sends me messages saying "i love you" what can i write back to this? i dont want to lie and say it back, but i DO want to reply because i think i should cheeky otherwise, what can i say?

2007-01-19 06:05:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Even if they could definitely get better. I know someone who had sex with a hideous dyke looking chick with short buzzed hair and ending up having to marry her (he got her pregnant). He was never attracted to her in the first place, so how did he manage to get it up? And how did he manage to come? He said he just "managed" to, and didn't even fantasize about other much hotter chicks. How is this possible?

I'm wondering because it's such a mystery to me. Dudes and girls are so different.

2007-01-19 06:04:50 · 25 answers · asked by Daniel's Woman 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-19 06:03:37 · 10 answers · asked by ROBERT G 1 in Family

Am I the only one that thinks Jade needs to go down the Old Kent Road for the 'fight' she is going on about in her dreams....seems she knows she is in for a load of abuse when she gets out???

2007-01-19 06:03:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-19 06:03:04 · 3 answers · asked by chigaimasu 2 in Singles & Dating

I asked my boyfriend if it would be alright to switch up vehicles sometimes to drive to work. He told me no, he wanted to drive his own vehicle because they would be looking for it at work and would no if he was gone or not. Here's the kicker, he used to let his father use the truck all the time. He works at a factory, that I'm sure they wouldn't be looking soley for his vehicle. He could have got dropped off or anything. This all sounds fishy to me? I didn't want to start nagging him about it, because we have had some trust issues in the past. Does it sound like someone doing something illegal and wants to have some sort of alibi or some other woman looking for his vehicle?

2007-01-19 06:02:56 · 4 answers · asked by stella 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-19 06:00:35 · 5 answers · asked by SW_GURL19 3 in Singles & Dating

A) a 17 (soon to be 18) year old girl who is quite hot and pleasant.

B) a shy protestant girl 21 who is reasonably nice looking but has an ex-military father (i'm also catholic)

C) my room-mates sister 20 who is my personality type but who could crush you by sitting on you (she is quite weighty)

2007-01-19 06:00:26 · 24 answers · asked by dodge 1 in Singles & Dating

Besides the normal reason's!

2007-01-19 06:00:25 · 19 answers · asked by chapman_red 2 in Marriage & Divorce

jus a question

2007-01-19 05:59:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We bet that we would hold off on sex until Valentines Day. Well, he said yeah right! Like you can hold off on sex! It made me mad. We bet before, but I did not last. Well, last night we were in bed and he was all touchy feely. Trying to tempt me to give in. It was hard to resist. Being my husband he knows how to get me in the mood. Well, I kept on telling him NO, and pushing him away. We were laughing and gigleing. It was all fun. Well, I know for a fact that he was very turned on. I kept telling him no and he finally calmed down. I feel bad because he turned his back on me and layed there for at least 10 minutes before telling me good night and that he loved me. I feel bad. I know that its a stupid bet, but I know that he really wanted it too. Should I feel bad? I really want to win this bet. Its just all fun and games. Oh, and before he left for work he teased me about last night and told me that I wont last. Would you keep on the bet or just give in ? Just curious?

2007-01-19 05:58:58 · 32 answers · asked by What_if 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What do you think? Should two people be really, REALLY similar in their interests, personalities, etc. to make a bf/gf relationship work? OR! Should they be almost polar opposites with a few of the same interests? Those of you who are married, or are thinking of getting married, or have split from your hubby/bf because of personality similarities/differences, are you exactly like your mate? Or are you totally different? And what is your personality? I'm just curious...(and I'm not quite sure what I'm lookin for in a man =P)
Thanks! <3

2007-01-19 05:58:49 · 7 answers · asked by Ask Shirley 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay here is my situation... I'm seventeen, I went of to the Army, and I finish my basic training and now I am more mature. The problem is, everyone back home are the same... I've grown up and now my best friends are dumb, immature, lie, cheat, etc... I came home to love my girlfriend and she lied to my face... We made a pact we wouldn't do drugs and she lied to my face then she said she did... I don't know what to do... I'm scared... I just wanted to come home and everything go back... Me and my girlfriend love each other but I'm too mature now, shes 15 and she thinks were going to get married and have children and I believed her too... But now shes always with her friends and she gets myself and herself into the high school drama... Someone please help me... I want to work this out but shes not the same... I love her...

2007-01-19 05:58:49 · 1 answers · asked by bkxoshua 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-19 05:58:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it true we gravitate to the same types of people time after time when looking for relationships? I thought I was very careful but it seems I married my ex. wife as time goes on with my second wife. At first they were completely different now after being together for awhile it seems I made the same mistake. How could that happen? I even had a mental list in my head what I didn’t want and it seems after awhile I picked the same exact person as my ex. wife for my second wife!!!! Funny thing is she thinks I'm just like her last fiancee.

2007-01-19 05:58:05 · 12 answers · asked by golf4everdude 1 in Marriage & Divorce

can a girl give a guy a promise ring?

2007-01-19 05:57:14 · 7 answers · asked by stolen kisses 2 in Singles & Dating

yesterday my boy friend told me that he does not trust me then he told me he said the because he was mad so how do i really know if he trusts me i mean i have necer cheated i have not done anything to him to make him not trust me

2007-01-19 05:56:37 · 11 answers · asked by kid_of_chrissy 1 in Singles & Dating

I usually feel so giddy and happy I say it quick, sometimes the guy will beat me to it. But, i always think ---- is it too soon?

2007-01-19 05:56:19 · 46 answers · asked by ttc #1 2 in Singles & Dating