We bet that we would hold off on sex until Valentines Day. Well, he said yeah right! Like you can hold off on sex! It made me mad. We bet before, but I did not last. Well, last night we were in bed and he was all touchy feely. Trying to tempt me to give in. It was hard to resist. Being my husband he knows how to get me in the mood. Well, I kept on telling him NO, and pushing him away. We were laughing and gigleing. It was all fun. Well, I know for a fact that he was very turned on. I kept telling him no and he finally calmed down. I feel bad because he turned his back on me and layed there for at least 10 minutes before telling me good night and that he loved me. I feel bad. I know that its a stupid bet, but I know that he really wanted it too. Should I feel bad? I really want to win this bet. Its just all fun and games. Oh, and before he left for work he teased me about last night and told me that I wont last. Would you keep on the bet or just give in ? Just curious?
2007-01-19 05:58:58 · 32 answers · asked by What_if 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think its a great bet....lol! I think the only reason he turned over and waited about 10 min is because he had to calm himself down. If its all giggles and teasing then its a great way to build up the anticipation......but the moment someone gets pissy...then the bet needs to be re negotiated. Its like when you are dating and you are all hot and heavy and then you say no.....mmmm you will have some great sex when the time comes, whether you give in and lose the bet or win and wait till Valentines day...He obviously loves the chase.....and we always want what we cant have....I bet the attention from him is great!!!
2007-01-19 07:59:37 · answer #1 · answered by sifford844 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can win the bet AND have sex before valentines day
All you have to do is be naked on the bed with your legs open when he comes home
Do this everyday until he gives in and can't take it any more. Then you get HIM to say that he loses.
He may be able to resist the first day
He may be able to resist the second day
If he is a very strong willed man, he may be able to resist the third day
but by the fourth day GUARANTEED, he'll want it so bad that he'll be willing to say whatever you want him to.
2007-01-19 06:10:00 · answer #2 · answered by Mister 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the bet and never make that bet again! He probably felt a little rejected last night even though it was because of a bet. I think think tonight you should tell him he wins the bet in a very special way. ;+)
2007-01-19 06:05:13 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
There is no way i could hold off for that long, i would have made the time like a week maybe 10 days but no more than that and then yeh i could hold off and win the bet.
2007-01-19 06:04:48 · answer #4 · answered by picture 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would give into the bet.
What would be the purpose in abstaining from sex with your husband?
My fiance and I only refrain from doing it when one or the other of us is too tired or not feeling well. Other than that, I see not point in holding back your urges.
Call off the bet, admit that it was a pointless idea and make love.
Good luck.
2007-01-19 06:03:18 · answer #5 · answered by Desiree 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it's all in good fun. We've made bets like these but we always lose. You know how to push his buttons, so do it, and let him be the one to fall. In the meantime it's great foreplay, and tons of fun. Enjoy the bet and the teasing. Don't give in just yet.
2007-01-19 06:14:23 · answer #6 · answered by Brandnewshoes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you two are in for a fun few weeks... no... don't give in... play the game... but rules need to be set... otherwise someone's feeling will really be hurt... make a no touching rule. except for lips (after all you shouldn't have to exempt intimacy). He wanted to have fun so make it "karmic" tease, without touching... by the way what does the winner get? Remember and maybe remind him... it was his idea... when it's no longer fun...stop... no one likes to be tickled beyond a ceretain point... this is the same thing...
2007-01-19 06:15:25 · answer #7 · answered by alex b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY would any married couple make this kind of bet??????
And who cares if you lose the bet if you win in bed??????
By the way - what does the winner get?
I doubt it will be as exciting as sharing an intimate moment with ones life partner!
2007-01-19 06:06:02 · answer #8 · answered by docscholl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hold off and stick to your guns. The sex will be incredible on Valentines day and plan a special romantic night!!
2007-01-19 06:08:37 · answer #9 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you more concerned about winning a childish bet or your husband's feelings? Witholding sex is one of the most emotionally traumatizing things you can do to your partner.
2007-01-19 06:04:27 · answer #10 · answered by Back in the game... 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋